Is my husband cheating on me?

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megan	i hate to tell you this sweetheart, but i think he is cheating on you. have you called her maybe? i dont know what else to say, if cheated before maybe he would cheat again. confront him one more time to and really stress how you feel. after that its up to you to stay or go. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Maria	He's cheating!!! Of course he is going to blame a friend for the condoms and everything else. You need to call her and tell her to back off. And if that doesn't work I would leave his sorry *** Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

blackpearl	Oh my god! You just gave me a case of dejavu my husband did almost all the things you described. He would get calls from this female lie to me about the relationship say things like she is 100lbs overweight and I don't like fat chicks, or her boyfriend was abusing her and I am just trying to support her. The kicker was when I got sick of it I waited till he fell asleep one night and took his cell checked all the numbers and found a text from this girl where he had bought this BIT-H a bracelet and she was thanking him. I barged into our bedroom flipped the lights on and confronted him. He told a bunch of lies at first, but I threatened to call this girl at 3 in the morning to get the truth. In the end this b and I had a long talk. she said she didn't know he was married the whole bit. Does it sound like your husband has been lying and cheating HELL YES THE CONDOMS SHOULD HAVE TIPPED YOU OFF. No guy carried condoms with the thought he wont get to use them. Get her number call her and confront that *****. Make sure you have a place that is safe to stay at if you have to leave. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Greenie	Oh Sweetie, you know the answer to this question in your heart. The real question is "What are you going to do about it?" Good Luck and Best wishes! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

xxxxxxx	SWEETHEART I HATE TO SAY IT BUT IF IT WALKS LIKE A DUCK, TALKS LIKE A DUCK, HONEY IT'S A DUCK. IT'S FINE TO HAVE FEMALE FRIENDS BUT THE THINGS HE'S DOING ARE JUST PLAIN SNEEKY GOING SOME WHERE TO TALK TO HER, FINDING CONDOMS& AND HOTEL KEYS THATS CRAZY,ID CONFRONT HER NOT IN A CRAZY WIFE WAY BUT AS A REAL WOMAN(WHICH OBVIOUSLY SHE'S NOT) AND SAY THAT YOU JUST WANT THE TRUTH SO YOU CAN PREPARE YOURSELF ON WHAT YOU NEED TO DO,AND IF YOU ARE STAYING WITH HIM IF HE DID CHEAT THEN YOU NEED TO CONFRONT HIM AND EITHER WORK IT OUT OR MOVE ON.BUT KEEP IN MIND NEVER ASK A QUESTION YOU REALLY DONT WANT THE ANWSER TO,AND ALSO HE CHEATED BEFORE. GOOD LUCK THIS CANT BE EASY. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

rick	doesn't take sherlock holmes to figure this out........ HE'S CHEATING ON YOU!!!!!!!!!!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Zam	O.K., I'm a guy and us guys need to stick together. However, not only is this guy an idiot because he is NOT being very discreet about it, but he's also lying about his whereabouts, his whyabouts, and his whatabouts. Look at the credit card bills, because he was probably a complete fool and put it on his credit card. (The hotel key and condoms are "a friends"?!?!?!??? Is idiot tattoo'd on your forehead too? Come on!! Ask him if you can come along with him on one of their little nights on the town. If he says no, then you know for sure he's been lying to you. Personally, you know in your heart he is. I would hire a private investigator to follow the bastard so you have video evidence in your divorce hearings. He deserves it for being such an idiot. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jjohnny65	He is most definitely cheating and you are in DENIAL. Come on girl, guys don't hold condoms for friends. He is cheating. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Evie E	I feel bad for you!! That's the last thing I would want to be worried about being 6 months pregnant. If you don't use condoms with your husband there should be absolutely no reason why he should have them!!! I think he is cheating on you. You mentioned that he cheated on you before, that is not a good sign. I not saying that I believe the " once a cheater always a cheater " mentality, but In this case everything you explained clearly spells out deception to me. If he refuses to cut ties with this woman there's your answer. My deepest sympathies!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

buffster06	Honey I am sorry to say that all the signs point to the truth-he's cheating! E-mail me if you want I think I am in the same spot as you-but I have been married for 28 years and our kids are adults now-but am confused as to what to do myself! But follow your gut feelings-as hard as that can be they are usually right on!Do whatever you can to catch him- write down the mileage on his car and see if he's driving farther than to the places you know he HAS to drive to on a daily basis, and if you have this girls number call her and confront her, be sure she knows who you are and let her know that your carrying his child- she may not even know he's married! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Wulfie	Blue, I think the writing is on the walls. This guy must be a world class schmucko to do this to a pregnant woman. By the way, thanks for serving your country. We are indebted to you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

gman	You already know he's cheating. The real question is what should I do about it? You can let it go and it will pass. She will eventually dump him? That is one option. The other would be to get him on the show CHEATERS and sue the heck out of him so your family will survive. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jed	Sounds like it. Try calling the Holiday Inn, and just ask if you could get a copy of the receipt for the room. Maybe he did use his own name. Make something up, I would dig there. It would have been great if you held onto those key cards. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

geckosgirl	You already know the answer to this. The real question is: what are you going to do now? I suggest you pack his clothes and send him to stay with his new friend. Then file for divorce. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

vanessaforme11	face it cutie...you deserve better..and you know the answer to this...Every indicator is there..And I being a soldier in Iraq currently knows how frequently this kind of thing occurs. My ex wife left me when I was in Iraq the first time in 2003 and I had three kids with her..If I can get over it and move on you can to...Its hard, but you WILL find someone else that will care for you and this will help you get over these feelings of helplessness...Email me I can help! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jade	It's Crystal CLEAR. He's a Cheat and he's not even making it discreet. This kind of Cheat that wanted to be caught on act! You've got the gut feeling already, believe it! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

honey	I am sorry, I really hate saying it, but the facts you described pretty much speak for themselves. What he is doing is plain outrageous. Taking away from his family emotionally, physically, and financially, is plain outrageous. I am sorry you have to go through this. You definitely do not deserve this kind of treatment in your life. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

gloria b	Sorry to say but it all points to YES!! I think you already know...just want us to confirm it . Sorry hun....good luck. What an ***hole! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

engineer46526	you bet he is.. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Kimberly W	You do know that your husband is having an affair, right? He has left all types of visual evidence for you to find but as always with us so in love women, we want to believe that our man is being truthful to us but in reality, he's cheating... Why would your husband have condoms and a hotel key? And then he played as if he didn't know how they got there. He wanted you to find it...Stop playing his game. You are pregnant and the focus should be on the happiness and health of this child. the last thing that you need to worry about is a cheating husband. Honey, do yourself a favor and step away from your husband for a little while. Clear your head and stop all this stressing during pregnancy. If your husband wants to cheat, let him do it but not in your face. Go stay with relatives that will support you during this time in your life or have his bags packed so you can get your rest, peace and a little relaxation when the baby arrives Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom	he's cheating...sigh...tell him to stop or you will divorce and mean it...good luck! sigh =(...he thinks you will stay because you stayed the last time...prove him wrong...find someone who can be faithful! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Annie	Agree, he is cheating. And lying about it, hoping you are too naive to think differently. You are married to him, and carrying his child - and this is how he acts? He is texting another married woman and going out weekends, condoms, Holiday Inn - Goodness, the evidence is overwhelming!!!! Sweetie, you need to tell him up front that you do not believe his lies anymore, you know he is cheating and you need to give him an ultimatum. He is either with you - and YOU ALONE, or he packs his stuff and gets out if he wants to continue seeing this other married woman. And that means no texting this woman ever again. Don't back down to his lies and excuses. You know he cheated once before, he is cheating again. You should have his total loyalty in your marriage. Only you can can make a stand for it to end, one way or the other. Because if you keep going along with it, he will continue to cheat because he is getting away with it. With a wife and baby on the way - his behavior is absolutely shameful and a disgrace. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

she_noir	Of course he is! The signs are all there, I won't beat about the bush and say maybe he isn't, because it's glaringly obvious. He had an affair before, and you took him back and he's obviously thinking he can do it again! I'm not saying no couple can work through an affair, because it can happen. I don't know if you are driving him away by being possessive, but maybe you should take the moral high ground and leave him. Do you want someone who cheats on you? If you do, then he will keep treating you like a doormat. If he wants to make it work, he will come running after you when you leave, and you can work things out with some counselling. If he isn't willing to make it work, then he's not worth it, and you should leave him to do the same thing to whoever he shacks up with next! These women are going to be very similar to you, but without the responsibility, so don't think he won't treat them the same! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

milepost211	You watch COPS? Its always their friends when actually, its theirs. "No officer thats not my crack pipe and crack, a friend must have left it in there"......YEAH RIGHT! All the signs are in front of you. Yes, he is cheating and not hiding it very well. The Rat Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

munni	he is definately fooling you dont close your eyes be aware of your surroundings Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sparkleythings_4you	Yes, it sounds that way, he sounds like he is making a fool of you, get the truth out of him and then dump him. Camp out at the holiday inn, or take a picture of your husband down there and say "Has this man stayed here recently" Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

free_angel	He's cheating on you and lying through his teeth about it too. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

NinaFromNewEngland	You know he is. C'mon now... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

American Beauty	I don't understand why you're wasting your time with this question. You know the man is cheating. Be woman enough to deal with this bum! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

cin_ann_43	Yes he is cheating for sure. You must really realize that without having to ask. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sadie_oyes	It sounds like he is...to find out for sure hire a private investigator...proof with pictures and video. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No