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Is it wrong to have an extramarital affair when U r not happy with ur spouse?
I jst want a general opinion.. guys n girls..



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aunt_beeaa
Call it an extra-marital affair---call it cheating---call it whatever you want----IT"S WRONG--

You are in control of yourself and your marriage----Make yourself happy with your spouse-----Grass is not always greener on the other side---Think of the consequences and the devastation you're affair will have on your wife/ husband, children and extended family (like your parents and your partners parents)

If you think about it ----maybe you should both receive couples counseling and maybe a weekend retreat for 2 would help rekindle what you're seeking!!

Marriage is work and it takes two to communicate with one another as to what the aspectations are in your relationship. Maybe you're unhappy because you've had a breakdown in marital communication!!!

You've got some work to do ----now do it!!! Before your marriage is lost forever !!!! Extramarital affairs will bring doom to your situation!

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berry
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Be honest in every way. If you are not happy, divorce them. Don't cheat while you are still married to them.

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Jack P
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It is wrong in the sense that you took marriage vows. But if your parner is not holding up their end of the bargain all bets are off. You may want to consider divorce, however.

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Abhijat
It is very wrong. If your unhappy go see a marrige consular to see if both of you can work out the problems between the two of you.

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fortyninertu
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Yes its wrong however it took me years of counseling to be able to see that.

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Johnboy
Yes. it is always wrong.

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becker
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in the first place if you are going to have a affair you are not happy with your spouse,so why not leave,if you get caught you will cause all kinds of hurt to your spouse,or kids, if any?this is not the way to go,

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Cyber Crime is Back
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From my point of view if its Sexual desiere u r not satisfied & u have martial for satisfying such desire i think its not wrong BCOZ WHEN ANY MALE IS NOT SATISFIED HE OR THEY VISIT ANY CALL GIRL OR PROSTITUTE FOR SATISFACTION

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vanakkam1964
no it is not wromg in it pls go ahead

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anastasia
It's perfectly alright if a man & woman are not getting along well;
But best would be to call off such a marriage & then go ahead with your own ways.Coz the people involved in such extramarital relationships have to go thru much hardships!
Every person is entitled to a happy life- always remember this.

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sagarika
absolutely wrong , unethical and selfish...please don`t mind but your asking such question reflects that you lack maturity......every marriage needs to be worked upon...if you can`t sort out your differences themselves, then u can see a counsellor..

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If u are not happy maybe you need counseling?
don't have an affair..you could end up with an STD...

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sachin P
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yes, it is wrong . if at all you are having , stop it .Take divorce and remarry

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Jack B
Of course it's wrong. Duh...Why ask a question you all ready know the answer to.

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hotchocredrose
I think it is ok to have it outside it'll kepp u happy in the relation & otherwise also it will relax you.

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kiddu
yes its wrong

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bluedanube69
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If you are not happy then try to make it work if not then leave the marriage. To involve some one else in your mess is not right. and by the way having an affair never made a bad relationship good. you are only hurting yourself and those around you with your lies..

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new_life_72
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I would suggest that you have an open discussion with your spouse on how you feel and find out from her what is the cause that makes her repulsive towards you.

To have an extramarital affair will not solve your marriage problem but only only make it worst.

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Chill
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Yes. Doing so lead to more complications. What if he discovers? No one likes to be made a fool of? I don't think you'll take it nicely if your hubby cheated on you? Reflect on your feelings, talk things out, if love no longer exist between you then part ways before starting a new relationship.

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sweetboy
well if u are not connected to ur spouse in the sense u should be and u are not haivng the satisfaction u can and may be to some extent u should

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violet
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Yes it's wrong. (and cowardly and selfish)

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txcatwoman
it's not right, in some cases, only you can answer this.

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SureshkumarYVS from hyderabad
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I do not say it is wong. But it is danger. if u r not happy with ur spouse, findout what is the reason or problem..try and understnad her and filling the gap.

or you can hav extra marrital life..but you are not tru to ur heart..as promissed at the time of ur marriage.

or divorce her and go a head. otherwise, if she complaints against you, you would go behind bars.

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lex
just a bit,,affairs are for cowardly people who would rather say nothing to their partners about how they feel and just start up with someone else but while your time is taken up with this new lover you are not making any efforts to improve what you have with your partner,,and why should you if your happy with your lover,,why? because you said 'i do' not,,"until something better comes along but il still keep you off the market and spend your money" i think affairs stink

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NH L
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I think the answer is, if you are not in love and find that your marriage is a mistake, then get out of your marriage. If you do love your spouse but just have some issues in your marriage, work on them together and try to save your marriage.
An affair is the last thing you want to get into, however, if you can't get out of your marriage for family, financial or other reasons, you have to decide if an affair will really make you happy and if it's worth the risk. Just an opinion from someone that has had an affair.

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alyssamichelle
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I believe that it is wrong. If you are not happy with your marriage, the best thing to do is get out of it. It is not fair to either you or your spouse if you have vows to go by (no matter how miserable) to have an extramarital affair. It may cause a lot of havoc.

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blue_eyed_woman_of_3
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Yeah its wrong .....put yourself in your partners shoes would you like it if they did it to you? If you arent happy in your marriage to that extent you shouldnt be there or you should be trying to talk to your partner to work things out

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fat
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extramarital affairs are plague to our society which slowly killing the moral fabric.
being unhappy with ur spouse does not give u the license to have an affair. how will u feel if ur spouse wants to do the same?

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Smriti
Yes it is. If someone is not happy with their sposes, they should try marriage counseling and make all the efforts to improve the relationships. Even if it not works out, get the divorce first. Then only, one should start on another relationship. Two relationships is not only infidelity and cheating, it is also straining oneself out and is of course immoral.

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Arlene06
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Well, I'm a chick, and my personal take is that an affair is a symptom of a bigger problem in a marriage. If you are so unhappy with your spouse that you look to someone else for love or sex or acceptance or whatever you are seeking, then THAT is the issue you need to address.

I swear, many people today think marriage begins and ends with sex. Sex is just one piece of a very complex picture. Personally, if he/she had sex with somebody else would not be the hot topic, the defect in our relationship that caused that result is the problem. (so I don't care who you *#)@, I only care why).

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riverofmydreams
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if your not happy, your mate is not happy.. but a back alley affrair is surely not the fair way 2 play it.. if you lost that loving feeling, why stay.. make the break, then have all the affairs till your little heart is content..

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