Is it wrong to have a crush on a married woman?

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don n	Yes it is wrong because you will sooner or later act on it! Quit hanging around and mooning over her and find someone else. She isn't the only fish in the sea. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Electrik D	stay away renee. it be wrong all right. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Rhode Island Red	Many people on here will probably say yes but I disagree. If you are just daydreaming and not acting inappropriately who is getting hurt? In the past I have had crushes because I was scared to death to get hurt again and date or there was just nothing on the horizon. Sometimes reality sucks and having a nice fantasy world is a getaway. As long as you realize what it is and don't get hurt in the end and don't do anything to freak her out, I don't see the harm in it. But keep looking for that one, you will find her. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

RON K	Don't do it, stay away from her, but you can always flirt/give her the look. Are they happy? If not you might have a chance. Keep on fantasizing, it can't hurt. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

lovestogarden	It's not healthy for you to continue thinking about her, because it's a waste of your energy. Don't try to be "just friends" or anything like that. Take your mind off of it! You are headed toward a heartbreak (and a headache), no matter what direction it goes. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Kari M	no its not wrong, you can't help that you are attracted to her. as long as you don't try to get between her and her husband. you do need to remember that she is married so don't pass up a opportunity to go out with someone else because you can't stop thinking about her. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

SSM	no, it isn't. It's natural to think about someone if you have a physical attraction to them. There's nothing wrong with it. The important thing though is to set boundaries for yourself so you don't induce anxiety over the fact that she is taken, and it is hence something that cannot be. So, don't feel ashamed, but keep in mind that the feelings are going nowhere. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ralph T	It's not wrong to have a crush,but it will keep you from finding the right person,because you will always compare them to her. Get out and date other women,if that doesn't help,get help. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

freaking_airhead	Crushes are harmless unless you act on them. Its best to distance yourself from this woman and move on. People fantasize about things they know they wont do or won't happen so fantasizing is OK just don't act on it. Or her husband will kick your butt...move on!! best of luck Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

nvrrong	yep. get a girlfriend. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

theAliasmod	It's wrong to make decisions that you will regret later in life. If you have a history, or a real relationship with this woman and feel like you need to be with her, then talk with her about it. She might be in an unhappy relationship with her husband and be interested in something new. Keep in mind, this is always a touchy subject for people, so don't expect everyone to agree with your decision. Your own happiness should weigh in more than that of others when it comes to relationships. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

dick v	feelings and fantasy are free. Just meet a nice other one and fall in love with that new one Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jakers	Crushes are normal, everybody gets them. It is wrong to act on that, and it would be unfair to her to try to take advantage of her. As long as you don't do anything illegal, and you don't harass or intimidate her, you should be able to daydream all you want. Try to keep it clean though. If you give it time, it will run it's course and you will move on. Don't be creepy and don't obsess, but understand that we've all been there, whether it was a teacher or some neighborhood woman. Be classy though with her, and it will help you later when the right woman comes. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Melissa Y	well, what do you think persuing that crush would accomplish? Another broken home in America. Divorce. Children living in two seperate homes. Think about it dude! God Bless! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Nena S	If she is married and not flirting with you, then back off and respect her marriage. Even if she flirted with you, I'd say run..! You can stop by avoiding contact, and by being busy. There are plenty of nice single girls around, so find one of them and forget about this married lady. Don't do anything you will regret later... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

happi2bwu2	Not wrong to fantasize but do not act on it. You should not even let her know your feelings. You could ruin several lives if you do. Yours, hers, her husbands, and relatives and any children if any. She is unavilable.... move on. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

flyingdove	depends on if you are acting out these fantasies in real life, then you jeopardize her marriage. Get your own girlfriend that you can date and leave the married ladies alone plz Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

PoppingBubbles<3	Yea, go find a girlfriend Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

CandiApple	It is not wrong for you to have a crush. People have lots of crushes on lots of people. However, recognize her for what you like about her pretty and sweet. Recognize that you are friends and be supportive of her, but do not keep fantasizing about her - that is not good. Get involved with other people you know who are single and your age or in your area. Go do things with them. If you were married and a man had a crush on your wife, how would you feel? (prolly proud; ,maybe jealous; maybe laugh about it) but, how would you feel if he acted on it? Keep in mind that she is married, so you shouldn't flirt with her, or fantasize etc. it just isn't healthy. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

brandonjones@swbell.net	I don't think it's wrong, if you are atracted to her there is nothing you can do about that. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

cocodude711	I think u should find someone else like her Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

James B	crush....no. More than crush....yes Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

chantel	there is nothing you can do about your feelings and fantasies and its fine as long as you dont try to act on them. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Belle	people have crushes on all sorts of people. it happens. find somebody else to fantasize about. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

dasione1	its not wrong cuz you cant change your feelings but try to reinvest your time into a hobby or try dating other women. I know its easier said than done but if you try maybe you will think about it a lil less. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

TUBA	Yes it is wrong. Get yourself an attractive girlfriend and soon you will learn to appreciate the married woman the way you would if you had a sweet and pretty sister. Don't lust after another man's wife. Respect the sanctity of marriage and move on with a girl of your own. Once you get into a passionate relationship of your own, you will look back and laugh at these days. Good luck to you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

tx1942txx	forget her and move on Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Girl	yep, find sumone else Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sweetgirl	First of all does she act like she is happy? Then does she laugh alot when your around? If she is giving you alot of time then its possible she is wanting, or thinking the same thing you are. You'll never know until you ask. So go for it you only live once. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

nerdherder	Is it wrong to like her? No. But it is really wrong to act on it or even to tell her. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Manda	Crushes are okay, but this one in particular isn't healthy. She's married. Taken. Not single. You are though, in fact, single. Don't waste your time here... Find yourself a single woman. = ) You will find a pretty and sweet woman that will want to be all yours! Doesn't that sound much better? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No