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christygirl2714
Is it wrong for a guy to ask you out for lunch when your married??



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rikkijolene
It is never wrong to ask a question, but an answer can be wrong. Before replying to the question, ask yourself a few questions of your own...like "What would my husband think?" or "What would happen if I went to lunch with this person and someone saw us and misunderstood?" Take those questions into consideration before answering.

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Manyfeather
No, it is not wrong for a guy to ask you out for lunch if you are married to him or to someone else.

It might be wrong if YOU accept the date because You are considering something other than lunch and friendship, or if HE has indicated there is something other than lunch and friendship involved. What makes you so concerned? Has this man approached you in a way that you think HE may be thinking about more than lunch? Are you feeling attracted to this man?

Normally married people have lunch with other people who are also married and who are not married. Thre is ususally nothing wrong with having lunch with someone other than your spouse, or, with someone who is not of your gender. Married people are just as interesting as people who are not married.

If you are comfortable with your answers to these questions, enjoy your lunch - however, insist on Dutch Treat!

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browneyedmom
to me, you already know the answer. if you have to think about if it's wrong or not, then the answers yes.

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Buzz
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yes

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nutnut1957
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Not if it is just a friendly business lunch. I would talk with your husband about it, he might have something to say.

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Queastion
well, if u have a feeling he likes u then u should not go, but if only a long time friend then i guess its ok why wont u bring ur husband along

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tannedknight45
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If it's just platonic, I don't see the big deal. Make sure you both pay!

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Tony
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No, but it may be wrong for you to accept. What would your hubby say?

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ramall1to
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Depends on the reason for it. And if the husband knows you are going out with the other man and even knows him. IF it is to just have lunch and talk, as long as the talk does not go out of the bounds that should be set, nothing wrong with it. If it is to get you to cross the line and leave your husband, that is wrong. How about invite the husband to come along?

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Natural_Woman
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It's more wrong for you to accept!

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Mickey's gurl
Yes. There is no point. Kinda flattering though huh

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aaliyahmarie07
yes if you are happy, no if your not

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sasukerocks
Not really maybe he wants to be your friend there is nothing wrong with to lunch with a friend.

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blueflowerscs
yes ..he wants more down the road .how would you feel if your husband went out to eat with another woman ? what is good for one is good for the other

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question man
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Its not wrong for a guy to ask you out for lunch....what is wrong is you accepting...Trust is one of the sacraments of marriage....don't mess with it...find a women co worker to hang out with at lunch....The guy who asked you or is asking you sounds like a selfish man...If he knows you are married he should be more sympathetic to your situation and leave you alone...If that were my wife ...I would not be a happy camper...I am not a Dr. as you can Tell by my answers but take my opinion with a grain of salt and good luck.

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thelovebug
don't think so

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sweetblonde
If it is an innocent lunch.

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?
depends on what your intentions are - what is your purpose ? free lunch with a friend or are you shopping around?

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Phaylynn
Well, it depends. If you know each other and maybe work together and you both pay seperately then it shouldn't be a big deal. But you need to pay attention. If he starts flirting then he's hoping to be more than friends. Its a questionable call. Would you want your husband going to lunch with a female "friend"?

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Liquid Sunshine
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Ask your husband. He is the only one who knows the correct answer.

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Mr nice guy 2U
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guys usually have only 1 thing on their mind

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?
no, as long as he understands that u are married and does not intend to take it any further. There is no reason why a married woman can not be friends with other guys. I am married and have a lot of guys as just friends, and nothing more. They totally understand.

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sunshine
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If its only lunch, no problem.

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lanceada
Most guys don`t want women as friends. Usually there is an attraction and he will try to get you to respond. There is more to his motives than lunch. If you feel its wrong, think about how your husband would feel, or put yourself in his shoes.

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happy_mom_me
I don't think it's a good idea. Your husband probably wouldn't like that at all.

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brian76db
Yes it is, he should respect the fact that you are married.
Its really wrong if you accept. Just ask your husband if you dont beleive me. Playing with fire will only get you burnt.

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Goodspeed
That would be a lunch DATE! and if you don't beleive me ask your husband.

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nurulshazrena
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I dont think its wrong if u have nothing to do with the person ( i meant if u dont have feelings for the person)..If he has meaning to bring u out for dinner than i think its wrong...i get invitation from few guys also to have dinner with them..some i accept some dont the ones i accept is all my long lost friend, school/college mates that has been friends for a long2 time...so think before acting...good luck...

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anotherofthese
The only reason this could possibly be a good idea, is if its a neccesary business lunch, and be sure your husband knows about it first. Dont ever do anything that could make him THINK you might be cheating, since even the mistaken idea can mess up your marriage.

Don't go if its just a guy who is attracted to you, why invite the headache?

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Muscle Hunk
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Depends. If it is business related it might be ok if the lunch is to dicuss business. If it is for a personal reason then the answer is no!......that is what is called cheating.!

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DesperateWife
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depends. he may be someone you could openly have lunch with, like a friend or something. you'll definitely know when it's wrong... ; )

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