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 Ok im being deadly serious now one of my good mates husband is having an affair should i tell her?

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To " THE WORRIER" thats a shitty thing to say NO its not me and NO i dont want her to be unhappy but knowing her hubby is doing what hes doing is doing my ...


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 Should I email a married man?
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 I'm not happy with my marriege, what can I do, my husband and I don't understand eachother?
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 My wife has stopped cleaning, cooking and taking care of herself and our son, what should I do?????
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 My 50 year old husband has gone off with a 36 year old woman from his church, I have 4 children...?
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 Is my husband completely out of line or what?
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 Do you think this is a sin?
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 Should I tell my husband I had an affair?
We have been married 8 months, and I just ended a 3 month affair, with the person I dated when my husband and I were "on a break" before we got engaged. I don't want to tell him, but I ...



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Is it right to be in love with a married man?



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wesley r
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no

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bergy_us
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If your the one married to him.

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zanzi_uk
You cannot really control love, but you have to be stronger and think with your mind not your heart it is hard. But you have to be strong and leave him or her. That will not mean you will stop loving her or him .

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Lotus
No. That's it. Just NO.

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Rachel
No. End it.

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She She
Unfortunately in this wonderful life we do not always get to choose who we are going to be in love with.........It may not be "right" according to most social standards.........But that can not change the way you feel about him........Since I don't know the circumstances you are currently in I am not sure how to answer you but........I would like you to be CAREFUL with your heart....Many times a married man will cheat but have no intention of EVER divorcing their spouse.........So you could be in for one heck of a heart break and a lot of lonely nights waiting for him to actually "be with you!" (and it will hurt really bad when you know you love him and you realize to him you were nothing more than a play toy!)......However if his situation is different and you think it may all work out I would say hang in there........And be ready for all the back stabbing comments that ARE going to come your way about being a home wrecker and stuff.......Good luck to you, really!

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Jo
It is pretty difficult for us to control how we feel however we can control how we behave and sometimes that takes great effort and self-discipline.
Obviously, you know yourself that while you may "love" a married man, it is unethical for you to behave inappropriately. You would be well advised to limit your contact with this man for your sake, for his and for that of his wife's. There are plenty of single fish in the sea.

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Yonna C
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Only if you are married to him. Being in love with a man that is tied to someone else emotionally as well as financially can only end in pain for you.

Speaking from experience...it's better to leave that alone and keep you heart in one piece.

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missy
No move on he will only break your heart, he is only cheating on his wife because they are going through a ruff patch or is not feeling the same about their relationship as he once did and now tries to get that feeling of lust again, he will NEVER leave his wife, and if he does it wont be for u and then who is to say that he wont do the same to the next person!

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rhonda h
No, it's not .You shouldn't of been messing with a married man in the first place. If he does get a divorce what makes you think he will be faithful to you.

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Tom
Absolutely, if that married man is your husband!!! Otherwise NO. If he's not your present husband, do Not talk to him, AND do not ever see him.
Do not ever be in the same room, alone with him !!!
If this is you, run - as far away as you can.

If your in this type of relationship, immediately break it off and stay away from him(do not even talk to him). And do not ask him break up with his present wife, especially if there are children involed.

If one continues in such a lifestyle, her (& his)
sins will find them out.

It "will" All come out into the open, expossed, and many people who you never expect(ed) will know about it, too !!!

You know how you should live. Your conscious alone tells you from within.

Make the right choices, and then you'll live with a clean, healthy, guiltless, Peaceful, conscious (thought-life), knowing you've made the correct choices.

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honey
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you cant help your feelings but you can always help what you do with them

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Wiz
Only if you are the person he is married to!!!

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nea
if the man isn't willing to give up his marriage for you, you need to move on.. and i know how you feel.

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spensmum
if your his wife then no its not wrong.

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Caroline
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Well the simple answer to that is 'No'. But if you love him at a distance, say, and he is not aware of it, and its not ruining his marriage, then go ahead and love him, but its a bit pointless really. Better of getting a relationship of your own. However, if he IS aware of your love, then it is bound to impact on his marriage somehow,so better than you take yourself where you dont come into contact with him. If you don't feed your love it won't grow and will eventually die. Find other things to do.

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gypsy
NO..... you should never have got into the situation in the first place. Married men are off bounds at all times, you'll end up the loser. It would be far better to fall in love with a single guy.

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Celeste P
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Depends on your version of right, mine says it's not right!

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Angel Eve
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NO! NEVER! HE IS MARRIED!!!! You have to realize that if he did leave his WIFE for you... You will always wonder if he will leave YOU for someone else! AND HE WILL!!! Guys who leave one person for another, continue to do this MOST of their lives... MOST of them do it forever. They will always cheat, they will always leave. Its in their nature.

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krazy_b81
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You can love him all you want, but don't do anything with him. Don't try to take him away from his marriage or do anything with him that might jeopardize it. If you find that if you are around him and things will go this way remove yourself from him. Would it make the world a better place if you were with him taking him away from his family or if you left it alone?

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arfa54321
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put it this way if you were married and another woman was in love with your man do you think it would be alright

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Noryb
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you can't control who you fall in love with but you CAN control what you do about it, and what you should do about it is just don't show it or do anything about it because your life will go downhill fast and be a disaster. control your feelings and it too, will pass

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dukalink6000
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Only if he is your husband,; otherwise, it's pain and trouble

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MaryBeth
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Leave him alone..................

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scottb03gt
answer this question. how would you feel if another woman was in love with your husband? No it is not right and if your in love with another man than the one your with, you either need to work that issue out or end the marriage to someone you will love

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charliegirl
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no its not, quite simply

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IT'S JUST ME !
Been there done that .I realized that i am worth more and you will too. Married men are the most selfish men out there. When you realize that you want and need and deserve more you will dump him. good luck.

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musiclicker
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not as long as you know how to fight! You better hope you can whip that other lady's @ss, cause you are playing with fire here. If my wife caught another woman messing around with me, she would knock sparks off that woman's behind. You want to know if it's right??? Are you sure you couldn't figure this one out? What if the guy has children, and a wife that just depends on him for everything. Do you think it's right to wreck their home? NO and NO and NO and NO!!! Good Luck!!!

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EMMA©
If YOU'RE married to him....yes!!!!!

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kombo6m
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A married man is his wife's man. Leave him alone.

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spirit of radio
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Well my wife is and she doesn't think it's wrong.

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