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Roma
Is it possible to be in love after one month?
How long should one wait before deciding on marriage and such? Is 19 an 20 too young to be married? Even if funds and housing are not an issue?



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SmartySlacks
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you're more likely in lust than in love

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Jackie
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I FELL IN LOVE WITH MY FIRST HUSBAND AFTER ONLY 3 WEEKS, WE WERE MARRIED 12 YEARS. AND ONLY DIVORCED BECAUSE HE WAS AN ALCOHOLIC, IT REALY HURT. HIS BEHAVIOR WAS MORE THAN I COULD HANDLE. BUT IT HAS NEVER CHANGED THE WAY I FEEL ABOUT HIM. I STILL LOVE HIM!

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Super Sonic Tony
It is possible. Even after a day some people are lucky to know he/she is the one. You can never be too young or too old to marry. However you should be ready for it. Do your pluses and minuses. (love only with your heart, think only with your brain)

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Delilah
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Its more likely that you're in lust or infatuated after one month. Yes, I think 19 or 20 is too young to get married. You have your whole life ahead of you. Get some life experience under your belt before committing yourself in marriage.

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♫ Smile the while you kiss me..♫
You are very young. Sure, you can be experiencing SOME sort of love....maybe not the love you are intended to spend the rest of your life with. I am a great deal older than you. PLEASE believe me.....enjoy this relationship....put your education F I R S T !!!!!
You will never be sorry if you do. Many women have ditched their education for love...they end up working in a bowling alley or 7 Eleven,mother of two with one more on the way. They look back at their younger days when they had options, and cry . I've seen this time and again.

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_me_
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Sure, you can be in love after one month. I would wait to get married until you are over the initial high of being in love. People only show their best side when they are crazy in love, and you want to know what the next 50, 60, or 70 years are going to be like together.

My husband and I met in college when we were 18. We were friends at first but fell in love within a month. We waited four years to get married because we wanted to be out of college and at least him have a job. We've been happily married for 23 years.

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WitchTwo
oh yes it is, thats the best kind..hitting you hard and fast......I don't think any age is really too early if you are both of like minds.....now, good luck figuring that out!

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cuttie20022000
yes, its possible to fall in love with just the first sight, cause im lived it. Some people dont believe it cause they havent experience it but it is nice. You dont find that kind of feelings everyday.

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strangekiller007
Be sure its not infactuation. 19-20 yrs is not a matured age or age of marriage. u have ur life waiting 4 u to enjoy. Dont put a circle(marriage) and try to live inside that, see out side the circle the whole universe is yours.

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nanny2
I think there is such a thing as love at first site,although i do believe a couple needs to get to know each other for a while before marriage.

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hubbys2ndbest2000
there is not a time frame for love u will know it when it happens i know a lot of people who were toegther a while before getting married and then end up divorced later on i met my husband one night moved in with him the next week and married 4 months later and we have been going strong for 13 years now we just knew we were meant to be toegther. So u will know it and remember your love will become your best friend your lover and all that it the end it will just be u 2. and just one more thing i have asked my friends over the years before getting married, if your spouse to be was god forbit in a bad accident and lost a limb or became paralized would u still love them unconditionally and be there to support them or would u leave? answer that question and then u have your answer about love and marriage. Good luck. P.S. love is not always about money it is commitment and and working toegther to make your places in life.

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nina j
Theres not a set limit on love some people fall in love over night because they know in there heart they found the right person. 19an20 really not young only if you know and not tricking yourself and making yourself belive that this is what you wanna do. And 9 times out of10 if you got doubt then rethink the thought.

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Meg
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If you know you are ready and truly love him then no. However, I really do think you should know a person longer than a month before you make these decisions. there is so much that you must learn about a person and a month is not enough time to learn those things.

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Sue
nothing of what you said is a big deal

love and get married if you r sure of ur feelings

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blondeqtwitanicebooty
In my personal opinion love has no limits I mean there is a thing called love at first sight isn't there?? Yes, there is so love has no time limits I don't think it's right for people to give the speech saying your too young to know what love is or saying that people are too young if you feel your experiencing that roller coaster ride feeling and that your heart can fly more power to you and for people to decide on marriage it has nothing to do with age what it has to do with is if you feel the both of you are ready if both of the people feel their ready for marriage good luck to them I'm 22 and my husband is 24 when we got married I was 18 he was 20 we've been married for 4 years and we have a great marriage we love eachother so much and we don't regret it we even have a boy and girl together marriage always has it's ups and downs it's up to the both of you to make it work if someone says your too young or you can't be in love don't listen to them only you know how you feel noone can tell you your not in love or too young especially when their not you only you know what is and what isn't

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musicalromantic
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If you've only been going out one month, I don't think it's really love just yet....and ESPECIALLY too soon to consider marriage..(that won't end in divorce)

I'm in a similar predicament, I'm 19, boyfriend is 21....but we've been together 5 years...and realized love was true within the first year.

But even though we know we are for each other, and in love, and have been together for a long time, it STILL isn't completely possible to get married...so..

..patience is a virtue.

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Lee F
Yes - it is possible, but - please try and remember these two things. First, in any relationship, at or near the beginning it is hard to tell the difference between LOVE and INFATUATION. LOVE means caring not only for the other person and being happy to be near the other person, but genuinely caring about the other person's needs and wants. INFATUATION mean that "You Feel Good" when you are near the other person, and nothing much further than that. The other thing is this -- it may seem like a worn-out phrase, but - True Love Will Never Die-!!! Time can wear down infatuation, but - if it wears down in time, then it is/was not true love! True Love can withstand the test of time-!!

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kj7gs
I waited 3 whole days before I proposed. But I was quite a few years older than you too. A very, very happy marriage followed.

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0000000000000000000000
when over 18, age is not really the factor, the real feelings between the two of you is what really matters, it is possible to fall in love with someone after one month, it also is a good thing to look deeper in to the emotions and make sure its real love and not lust. make sure your getting to know each other enough before marriage, that is what courtship is for. goodluck.

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yaz20100
i believe that love is like a touch-down... it takes seconds

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cupidgirl
age is not the most important factor. Maturity, honesty, values, and financial readiness are all the important factors. It doesnt hurt to wait atleast one year; this way two people really experience "all sides" of eachother

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Sam
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Possible. (The word "possible," is by itself, AMBIGUOUS!)

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MsBeav
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My husband and I dated for one week and talked of marriage. I got scared and we broke up. After a year we got back together in March of 2004 and were married November 2004. We are very happy. And as far as age, I got married not long after I turned 20. So if you want to get married, listen to your heart. I wish you the best of luck with everything.

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freudianslipper
i believe in love at first sight so I believe you can be in love after 1 minute! love has nothing to do with time and time has nothing to do with love. If it's written in your stars, you are destined to meet and love this person. The outcome is also destiny. Just go with the flow and follow your instinct. It never lets you down. Good luck!

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Sweety
for me it is possible...it is not the time or how long did u meet someone.....it is the feeling to each other.....and u are compatible to each other.....

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Tina K
I don't think a month is too soon. The important thing is to have all the "big" conversations before you tie the knot. Have kids? How to handle finances? Holidays? In-laws? Religion? Marriage in general?

As corny as it sounds, I think Dr. Phil has a check list in one of his books. As long as you two are honest and on the same page, congrats! You are some of the lucky one's that have found their loves early in life.

My husband and I have been together seven years, married almost five. We knew within days that we were better together than we were apart. I was 19 and he was 23 when we met.

One thing I do recommend, of you can, is a geographical separation of a few months. We lived together right away, then after a year and a half, some bad things happened, and he moved across the country. I didn't know if we could still be together, but after a week or so, I KNEW I needed him in my life.

And to all the older people who question the two of you, ask them when they got married.

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Sweets
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Yes it is possible!
It all depends how you met and what connection you had from the start. If you find that you both have alot in common it makes it much more easier. However sometimes when you fall like that you still need to look out for yourself and not do things to quickly. Now some people would say yes that you are to young to get married and what would be the rush if you just wait a little. I say wait at least a year which usually enough time to plan a wedding. Get to the know the person a little by the way they handle finances, family , relationships with friends, and living with you for some time. Then you will look into your heart and know if your needs and wants are the same with the person you love.

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santa s
you might be in love it can happen after a second too, their is absolutely no Tim limit for love some people feel in love after some seconds the others never. but to know if you want to spend the rest of you life with someone you really should take you time and don't hurry. that is a very serous matter, and should be consider as such and be good over thought.

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emily_brown18
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If you spend a lot of quality time together, it's possible to be in love after such a short time, but I don't think it's very likely, at your age. Anyway, you should wait a while longer, be more certain of your feelings, and mature more, before you make such a serious decision as whether or not to marry.

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lol_des
Anything is possible but might be a good idea to Waite out a year or two to see if you still feel the same way 19 and 20 is young.

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mspriveye
there are tests to take to see if you have the same plans for child rearing etc. /check that out and yeah, love can knock your lights out at first sight.

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