Is it me or am I married to a jerk?

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2strongfor2long	It is him what a jerk.... Write back that is good glad to hear it but are you getting the kids??? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

LA (323)	Dump the big jerk! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ninawiseb	Are you still living together?? I have never heard of a married man not coming home after so long and not being in regular contact during and after the trip. Sounds more like a single guy to me then a married one. Are you sure you have not already divorced this jerk? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ruthaya2	He is being a jerk. It's entirely possible that he did get stuck in a storm. But that is not an excuse for the way he is acting. If he really and honestly did care, he would have attempted to contact you first- and would not have given you the nasty comment he did about the office. Plus, the contact attempt would have taken place much sooner than it did, and his first priority should have been his family- not his workplace. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

doclakewrite	Not a jerk, totally irresponsible and inconsiderate. This is a boy who never Grew up and lets you do all the worrying. If you do not change your strategy you will find your life unbearable..... You must make him start taking on some of the burdens and tasks of the house, including the children. You have to stop doing so much for him and being his mother....... Take the time for yourself and start getting more involved in activities outside the house, clubs, fitness, girl friends, reading groups.. You need something to give you an outlet for your stress. You have to demand what you want and take it, or he will sail along leisurely through life and let you do all the worrying. 2007 is time for a change.... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

john s	doesnt sound like he cares too much so i would say he's a jerk leave him Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Monet	typical man. He didn't bother to come home? jerk Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Nunya	He's a jerk but doesn't sound like you are too nice either since you haven't tried to contact him before now!! I would have been worried! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Kate	are u guys married or divorced? I mean how could he come from his ski trip without you knowing? u guys are weird Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Sazz..xo	Sorri buh hes a totall utter jerk.! no doubt bout it . i wud ger on the fone to im rite NOW.:) x Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

big stan	Inconsiderate and yes a jerk. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sinned	jerk? you picked him. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

♥Popotitozz♥	He's a douchebag Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Toni_busy	looooooooooooooooser. Dump the jerk. mb Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jean grey	you are married to a jerk and more importantly a cheater. did u check the weather to even see if there was a snowstorm? sound like a bogus trip to see his girlfriend.... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

shonnie	he's a jerk. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

American Beauty	Let's see: Your husband calls 4 days ago and says he's caught in a snow storm, and never bothers to call you back to say he's safe. You haven't heard from him in 4 days, after being told he's been caught in a snow storm, and you don't bother to find out if he's still alive. Yep, that just about settles it; you're both a couple of jerks. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

bilko_ca	selfish jerk Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

goldlust74	funny marriage you have. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

PDH	JERK! Write him back and say, "I'm OK too, thanks for returning the concern. Have you recieved the divorce papers yet? If not just wait, they will be there soon". Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

yankee14206	it sounds like he may be cheating or he is just a jerk Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jo	He didn't tell you he was back in town??? I would be pissed off. You guys definately need to talk. Put the kids to bed early tonight and discuss. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

repodana	Umm...yes and i hate to say it but he prob found some chick and had a wild excursion...if he had to drive to another state he shouldve been able to call you somehow or just drive home...i live in a resort town and i see married men acting single all the time...asking me and my friends to hang with them to go skiing or snowmobling and then of course the usual partier types that want to cheat...hate to make you think the worst...but that is what my gut is telling me...good luck!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Darla	Obviously his priorities are not his children and you! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

john n	Your husband isn't displaying the kind of communication skills that will help him in a relationship. If he has your trust, he is abusing it, and needs to see his behaviour from a perspective other than his own selfish, and immature way. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

maamu	HHHMMMM--he came back to town after a vacation and went straight to work??? Where did he get the fresh change of clothes? I think the only slopes your husband was on was in someone else's bedroom. M Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Janine E	I looked up the word "jerk" in the dictionary and next to the definition of the word there was a picture of your husband. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

united9198	He sounds like a first class ******. His lack of concern about his family is worrisome. I does sound like you and he have issues beyond his being a jerk. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

JRSK007	I don't understand... how did you not know your hubby was back? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Lake Lover	Thanks for asking??? That is SO bizarre it's unreal! You need to phone him and speak with him personlly NOW! Also, never assume he will pick up the kids, they are TOO important for assumptions. Make darn sure HE is or YOU will! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jillary von Hämsterviel™	the amount of disrespect you should take is zero....... a husband who doesnt call for four days is not a loving thoughtful husband, pack up the kids and take a vacation and dont call him... check the weather reports if there was no snowstorm then id say divorce attorney Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No