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Desi Bouterse
I sent a threatning letter to my ex wife. I now regret it. What shoud I do????
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JODS2001
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Depends what the letter threatened.

Even if you threatened to kill her in the letter I understand that she could not use it as a means to have you arrested for assault as she could not regard herself to be in immediate mortal danger.

You were a bit of an idiot weren't you though.

http://www.expertlaw.com/library/personal_injury/assault_battery.html

It sounds to me like you have unresolved issues. Access to Children ? Property Sale ? - That sort of thing needs handling by the Legal Eagles.

If you are just venting frustration at the situation then I guess you feel as if you are the injured party in the divorce (Recent?)

Has she gone off with your brother or something?

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GoldenGirl
Call her and tell her about. Or meet face to face apologize. Tell her you were talking out of anger. That's why you picked such mean things to say. You knew it would get to her.After cooling down you realized just what you did. But that's just why you need to explain it before she is shocked and hurt. Sorry can be a powerful word. When the person saying it truly means it.

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JP
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Send another letter saying that you did not mean it. Only circumstances forced you to write like that. Say sorry and try to become friends.

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StickyFloor
Write that you were wrong and apologize.

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royalxstars2
well maybe get someone to intercept the letter so she doesnt get it. does somone live with ur ex wife, who you can ask to grab the letter and throw it out, before your ex wife reads it?
if this doesnt wrk out, i suggest just calling up your ex wife before she calls you, and just explain y you wrote what you did. tell her that your sorry, and you regret what you did. ask for forgiveness, tell her it was a mistake. or you can send another letter to her. but if u can say sry to her in person, i bet it will really show her that your sorry.

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mnandi
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sent her a apology letter....

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♥ Im just saying..
call her and apologize, because if it's that bad you can go to JAIL.

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onekenshinlover
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Call her and apologize. Explain why you did it, and be sincere.

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angelnparadise27
I would say try and get the letter back but tampering with another person's mail is illegal.. so the best thing to do is talk to your ex and explain things to her that you did it at the heat of the moment and you shouldn't have sent a message when you were angry.

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smc76
run for your life,,,lol

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P K
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just go personally to your wife and say "Sorry" at the same time search for that stupid letter and destroy it.

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PAULSC
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The decent thing to do is to acknowledge that you sent it, and apologize. But this could have legal ramifications for you, and I think few attorneys would advise this course, and it might be that any further attempts on your part to communicate would now be seen as a further attempt to threaten.

You might talk to a professional counselor (a lawyer, a therapist, a priest or minister) about this, and see what they, in your jurisdiction, recommend you do. On your behalf, they might contact your ex-wife, assure her that you do not, in fact, intend to threaten her again, and regret doing so.

And then keep to yourself, and if you did this while drinking, as often happens in these cases, stop drinking (at least until you are over her).

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y. c
just tell her the truth that u were mad and not thinking straight you send her the letter, but u really did not mean nothing by it just that you got mad for stupid stuff. she will understand if she has a heart. if not then u r in trouble with a domestic violation situation i wish you good luck on that one

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my kids spy on me
Tell her in person that there are times your feelings run the gambit of emotions and apologize for acting on the negative ones. Tell her it will not happen again. If she's worth anything and you do it right, she will understand and forgive.

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mikey
Send an apology right now!!

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Julie D
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say sorry

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Scott
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Call you ex-wife

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bruinsfan
try not to drop the soap

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Dr.PhilwithBoobsDueInJune
Think before you speak or in your case think before you write.

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KarL
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You shouldn't have done it.

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Mitzi
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Phone ASAP and apologize. Explain that you realize how awful your letter was and how wrong you were to threaten her. Hopefully she won't call the police and have you charged, if the letter was seriously threatening her safety. If you were threatening with financial stuff, that's different. But always sleep on a letter before you mail it, especially if you wrote it when angry, intoxicated, tired.

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Terra V
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Learn how to better deal with your emotions first, second - apologize from the heart but only if it's meant. If you planned to follow through with it and are only now regretting it because your scared she might press charges then you need to face that. You own that.....

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Inez
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Thats why u should never put anything bad in writing, cuz u can't ever take it back. I guess write an apology letter that says that u were just angry and lost your head but u didn't mean it.

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Happy- Go
apologize

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*~Josy~*
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not much u really can do about it. i mean u can apologize if u regret some of the things u said but there is no way of getting the letter back or changing the fact that u mailed it out. its all done and over with .

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Feeling Blue
What the hell did you do it for in the first place???

You are now in a place where you will never be able to take back what you did. You will have to address it with her but realize that you may have hurt her tremendously and she will not forgive too quickly.

Speak to her first, air the dirty laundry so to speak. And Good Luck!

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Misty J
call her and say srry. like if it was threatening like "im gonna kill you" she'l probbly charge you :-0

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purexblackxblood
it depends on what u said in the letter. . .but I'd call and say that it was a big mistake. . .but why would you even do that?

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April1721
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Apologise and say you were very stressed at the time and that you regret it now, if you are both mature you can firgive and forget. If it happens again I suggest trying to calm down instead of acting on impulse.

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53MalePrison
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Deny it. Or be the man and apologize.

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gwennthered
Send her money.

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