I really like my husband but I cheated on him, should I tell him?

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mr.mishit	Ha ha ha at least you have got your priorities right..... Got yourself some bloke that looks ok, is good in bed and is obviously a bit naive..... or boring? Why not get the bloke you slept with to go and tell him.... it would save you the bother.... You are obviously so self absorbed all you are worried about is the guilt YOU are feeling.... how would you feel if it had been the other way around? Oh well, you may as well have a baby because you will probably need someone to look after you when you (undoubtedly) will split up.... I don't really think that it will matter if you tell him or not I am sure your 'friends' will sort that out for you before long anyway (no matter what they say...) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Yo!	If your husband is so great, why did you cheat on him? You need to tell him before you even think about bringing a child into that kind of situation! Who's to say you won't slip up again? Then when your husband finds out on his own, you'll have an innocent child to worry about. If you care about your husband at all, you will tell him. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Forte F	wow...your trash o_O. i wish i was there so i would tell em xP. for all he knows that baby probably won't be his o_O. tell him so he can find someone better xP Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

allweownweowe	No, you deserve to live with guilt, but you also deserve to loose you husband so tell him before you have a child that is embarrassed to have a ......... as a mother... PS you don't deserve a child you'll cheat on it as well.... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Avril	please please DO NOT reproduce, you are a moran. go ahead and tell him, it's better to get the first marriage over with quickly, then grow up, wait til after 30 when you are a real adult to get married and have kids. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

olga l	you can not build the real family on lie, plus what if somebody tells him about it? it is going to be worse Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

[[oblivion]]	you "LIKE" him!? what's the matter with you? how do you marry someone if you're not completely in love with them? you "Like" him? "he's good in bed"? is that a reason to devote your life to someone else? it's obvious you have no idea where your priorities are at, because you know what, if you did, you wouldn't have cheated on him. marriage is about making a bond with a person for a really, really long time. since that's the case, you gotta be DAAAMN sure that what you're getting into is something you're gonna be able to commit to! look, if you have a heart at all, and if you care about him at all, then you'll tell him. because you know what, by keeping him and not telling him anything, that's actually really evil and extremely selfish on your part. that guilt will tear you apart inside the older you get, i'm telling you. you don't have to take it from me, you can have years of regret later on in life to think about it. the best thing you can do is just tell him, and you know what, if you lose him, then that's your own fault, dude. you can't have everything you want all the time, life just doesn't work that way. that kind of behavior will come back to torture you. and then at the end, "we're planning to have a baby soon"...why the fukc did you cheat on your man if you're expecting to have a child? it makes no sense to me at all whatsoever. you might wanna try to work on that selfishness, buddy. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

hate the sand ~ love the castle	Tell him the truth. http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AlZySjlU9jL0M4v5m3u9m_jsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20080422061327AAC1NQP Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Bubbly_08	Tell him how much of a slut you are then he'll slap you hard, he'll accept you for what you are... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Joseph P	If you were my wife & you told me, I would want to know why. Also, regardless of the reason, I would never, ever trust you again. BUT let your conscience be your guide. Ask an experienced (someone more experienced that yourself) friend for advise. My guess is that she'll tell you to keep your mouth closed. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

BikerChick	You are not even CLOSE to being mature enough to be married, let alone be married with a kid!! You are a very disrespectful selfish person - if you can so casually cheat on a guy you CLAIM is "great", I can just imagine what else you are capable of. Do everyone a huge favor, and DO NOT add another innocent person to your game. You SHOULD leave the man, then go get all your "clubbing" out of the way. Get drunk, act stupid, sleep with strangers... get it all over with. THEN, when you have had enough, get your self involved with a guy. It is WRONG to play single when you are NOT - you deserve the guilt IF you indeed feel any, HE does not need the heartache and pain, so DO NOT tell him. Get counseling if you really need to get over the guilt. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jack	This happened to a friends son recently. The betrayal shattered him totally and he walked out of the marraige at once. He isnt the problem, the affair you had isnt the problem - your heart is the problem. Your husband sounds like a nice person. In my opinion you have to tell him and then face the music. Better now than when a baby is created that will have its heart broken as well when its parents split. If you are truly sorry (wich I think you arnt) you could try to convince him and ask him to try to forgive you and then work at it. If you are married then you cant do single things like going to pick up clubs with your girl friends. Face the music, fess up, and either change within yourself and salvale the situation, or make a clean break, and get your young years out of your system, and let your husband get on with his life. You are playing with ruining lives so think hard and responsibly. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

cierra_black08	You are one crazy Btch!!! You need help!!! You "LIKE" him...thats it!!??!! I think you should tell him...and don't be surprised if he leaves ur dumb As! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Tired and Cranky	your first problem is the fact that you say you LIKE your husband. think you should tell him and deal with the consequences. You made a choice and you should have to face whatever the outcome of that choice is. Not to mention it doesn't sound like you really appreciate what you have if you can go and do something like that. And just think if he cheated on you wouldn't you want to know ... what happens down the line if you don't tell him and you have a baby together and then he finds out? It doesn't seem smart to me. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Racer	Idiot.... I hope he finds out and dumps you like the dog you are. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Spanky Gazpacho DW	Oh , I honestly think you should have keep that news to yourself. Especially the part where you say you really like him and how he is good in bed. As for the little indiscretion.. don't worry about that... but don't tell him... and try your best not to make it a habit ok. Married for a lifetime.. is a long time... and if you are going to feel guilty all that time ... you shouldn't be putting out to other guys. On the other hand, if you feel no guilt at all... well, then .. do as you please... just try not to let him find out cause he might get v. upset... and that might cause you not to like him quite so much as you obviously do now. K? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

plum_bbb	if u "like" him then no, but if u love him and he loves u then YES Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

tequila_girl	Yeah....sounds like you really like him... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

BabeHeart	Why are you married if you only "like" him? There's a big part of your problem right there...you aren't into him enough for it to be likely you will choose to be faithful at any point. What goes around, comes around...watch out for that karma. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

JP	You're a slut. You don't deserve him. Tell him so he can dump your trashy behind. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

JM	yes tell him. it's only fair that he knows. and i'm a bit concerned about the fact you said "i really like my husband" multiple times. shouldn't it be i really LOVE my husband? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Forlorn Hope	what would be the point in telling him??? guess next time you go clubbing, don't drink and sleep with random guys... hope you got checked, to make sure you didn't catch anything from the other guy... :D Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

♥♥♥♥♥♥ MRS ROBINSON ♥♥♥♥♥	you LIKE him! i think you should wait for babies untill your with someone you LOVE tell him he deserves to know Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

andrewrks123	u dont serve to have any one.... its people like u that mess everything upp... why cheat.... have fun with karma.. gl Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Didi	Youre so trashy. First of all you shouldnt "like" your husband, you should LOVE your husband. Do him the favor and tell him what happened, you shouldnt have a baby with someone you are lying to. He deserves to be with someone who wouldnt cheat on him so give him the opportunity to make that decision. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

simone m	Close your legs, when you get married you give up your right to open your legs for any other person besides your Husband!!! That is what marriage is!!! If you wanted to **** Everyone you meet, you shouldn't have gotten married!! Grow UP!!! 1.You should tell him, Adultery is WRONG!! 2.You married your Husband for the wrong reasons. 3. You should LOVE him not Just "Like Him" 4.You sound sooooooooooooo immature! 5.) You are a grow up now. A big girl. 6. Learn to take responsibility for you actions/Decisions! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Poppet	I think you should tell him and get a divorce. Seriously ... you got married for the wrong reasons. Why prolong the inevitable? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sarahs11	you are a big idiot. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jamie G	You really like him? I would think so he is your husband. Do you love him? I would hold off on that baby anytime soon sweetie, I would have to tell him, it's not fair and I wouldn't live with the guilt. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Londonbrunette	trust me you really dont like yr husband Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

♥Pure Evil♥	Oh good god... U really LIKE ur husband... well there's ur problem ur suppose to love him... Grow up honey!! Tell him so he leaves u... u had NO business getting married little girl! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No