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Jack
I did something terrible?
My wife and I had a major fight last night about her cat. I complained how annoying the cat is when she meows at nights and make noises and how she purrs into my face every morning so I can't sleep longer.. she ended up slapping me!? I was so mad that I took the cat and drove like 5 miles away and left her in the woods.
I feel really bad now. Did I went to far? I mean it seems my wife cares more about her cat than me. She is still sleeping now... I don't know what I will tell her when she wakes up.. help?



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Happy-2
Essentially, you're saying that you stole your wife's property because she hit you. I think you have some serious communication issues. I suspect your "complaining" involved raised voices and lots of F-words, because nobody slaps someone for a simple complaint.

That said, if I were you, I would say the cat had slipped outside when I came in and I haven't seen it since.

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absteal
I really don't think anyone would do that in real life. If they did they would know the right answer

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Simply Lovely
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If my husband did something like that, he would either:

A. Get his butt back in the truck and find my cat
or
B. Pack up his crap and prepare himself for living in a van down by the river.

I really hope you are kidding. You seem "normal".

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danbear76
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Don't go to sleep tonight!!! Dude if I were you I'd get my @$$ in those woods and find that CAT!!!!!!!!!!!! FAST. Or you could just pack up and leave.

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Cormac
If a cat (or lack thereof) can save your marriage, so be it.

Besides cats belong in nature, not in a cage.

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RealMan
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DAMN!
Does anybody read the "she slapped me" part???? Dawg, you are a real man. Next time, she won't put her hands on you. Why would all them chicks say if you get a dog, and then slap ur wife when she complains? You would probably be in jail

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mommy
Try to go back where you left the cat and pray you find her.
Your wife was out of line in slapping you though, she needs to get herself in check.
You did go to far.......... Keep in mind to some the way you treat the pet is their image of how you would treat a child you have together. Maybe not so, but it is how some people see it. Good Luck

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shay
well tell her what you did she might not be to happy about it because its her cat and she takes care of it but then you can tell her and maybe she will think that maybe she cares about her cat too much and tell her how you feel maybe she can keep the cat but put it somewhere else in the house while you guys sleep so you can get some sleep maybe that will work.

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TwinMommy
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I'm sorry but that is terrible. Your wife doesn't love the cat more than you but the cat is like a baby to her. If you don't want the cat purring in your face shut your bedroom door. I really think that you need to go look for that cat or hope it comes home.

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John
you did good man you had to take charge or other wise that cat and your wife would walk all over you

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Indiana
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Getting rid of a cat is harder than you think. I tried that once leaving it 10 miles from our house only to find it on my doorstep 2 days later.

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Archimedes' screw
Was this before or after you were bitten by your 3 year old, mother-slapping daughter?

Perhaps next week, your cat can drive out into the woods with you for 5 miles and dump you there. Turnabout is fair play.

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gogogetm
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She really should not have slapped you, for ANY reason, especially over a cat!,

However, you did go too far and you will have to humble yourself greatly, do some serious apologizing and you both need to learn to communicate without getting into a fight.

Obviously, you should not have to live with a cat disrupting your life and she needs to understand your right to a peaceful nights sleep and that you are not in love with the cat as she is, and that is ok.

Remind her that your marriage is WAY more important than any animal. You must come up with a truce of sorts. Offer to go look for the cat or to get another one with agreement that the animal will not be more important than you are and will be kept outside of the bedroom or even in an animal crate for sleeping if necessary.

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Me of corse
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that was really messes up. I would say have you seen the cat? and she will probably say no. Then say yea idk where it went i can't find it. then act as if it escaped and hope she believes you.

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Daizee Grrl
Umm, sorry to say it, but you're screwed unless you can drive out there and find the cat. Head out to where you left it and take some food with you and try to find it. Otherwise, you're in some major crap.

I think you really overstepped the boundaries this time. You should've waited until this morning when you could talk rationally with each other and tried to make a compromise. Maybe you could've locked the cat in its own room for the night or something.

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Dahlia
OMG, go back and get the cat RIGHT NOW!!!!!!! That's brutal!!!!

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Lisa B
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Heck Yes you went to far, you should have never done that, go back to the woods and try to find it

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Unknown
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Thats not cool at all! why would you do such a thing. you should have put the cat in a cage in a room where you couldnt hear it.

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kizzy_girl
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Sorry, but I think thats pretty evil. You gotta tell her the truth and take her to look for the cat. Show her how dedicated you are to finding her pet. Getting rid of something she loves won't make her love you anymore than she already does. Good luck mate you got a lotta groveling to do! Now GO FIND THAT CAT!

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ladyjk75
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Go find the cat NOW - You D*ckhead

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Stu T
WOW. I'd say that was unforgivable.

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Surenne
You get your a** out there and you find that fu**ing cat!!!!!

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MEGAMI
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...wow..I don't know what to say, because though i hate to admit to it, that is something I might have done in the heat of the moment. All i can say is that you better not tell or you're going to be in deep cat $%&!

I personally think that it was nasty for your wife to slap you over a darn cat.

1. just to ease your mind, grab a bag/can of treats and go back out to the woods and try to find it.

2.or when she starts asking questions say "what cat?"

3.I usually don't condone lying my man, but the truth looks like it's going to hurt a whole lot more. Maybe pray your heart out before getting together a mini search party of your friends, go back to the woods and offer a $50.00 reward to whichever one of your friends finds kitty 1st.

Sorry hon,but thats the best I have for now.

I'll pray it all works out

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Paul
Yes, you went too far. Go try to find the cat.

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bushido*~~
wow, thats really serious. Personally, i think you went too far. good luck.

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runandhide1
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bad move jack you're in deep on this one.

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hot_tamale962
Go get the damn cat!!!!!!!!!! NOW! before she wakes up. hurry or your a s s is grass!

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joncollins222
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your in deep dudu

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Brown Water Drinker
Nothing................Cats can find there way home. If it comes back, it will own you!!

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lostsoul
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do you really dislike your wifes pussy that much? lol

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KingDavid
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I just found the danm cat! is in my house!

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