I am on the verge of having an affair?

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nwnativeprincess	you are a horrible excuse of a woman. complete one relationship before starting another. fix your self esteem, then maybe you can have a functional relationship. you sound like my husbands ex, messing with him while still messing with her husband. YUCK!!!! NASTY!!!! get some morals. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

wendyhannan0130	dont do it - nothing is more evil than cheating on your spouse. it is disgusting. you are going to get what you deserve because your sh@t does come back around. i hope he screws one of the girlfriends you say you are out with. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

dca2003311@yahoo.com	As the saying goes what goes around comes around!! The question you have to ask yourself is do I love my husband and family? Is this really worth a jump in the sack? You may be asking for temporary pleasure for long term pain!! We pay a price for every choice we make in life!! Again I ask you is this really worth it!!! If you and your husband had an open marriage then you would not have this problem!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Goober W	You need to put on the brakes now! This is not right no matter how you may try to justify it. There is NO justification for cheating. The reasons you give in your statement are pure lust. Nothing more and nothing less. If you are "torn" then you KNOW its wrong. Don't do it! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

theta42196	Is this guy who you only talk to on the phone really worth ruining your marriage for? If you say yes, you really need to think about how important your marriage really is to you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Sweetness	"we are the product of an affair".. There's a saying in Spanish, that goes something like If the beginning starts badly, it will end badly.... Your hubby should not be surprised. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Andrea	well,put it as your husband place would you want your husband to cheat on you etc..? you can tear the family up by this... if i was you,be true and respect your husband and kids... if your husband is not satisfying your needs sexually talk to him about it. unless if u dont love him anymore,try talking something out ot just get divorce.. no matter what be true! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Premo Mom	You may know what he looks like and sounds like, but you don't know if he is a psycho. Please DON'T jeopardize your marriage over a couple of hours in a hotel room with a stranger and some phone sex. Think about it, will it really be worth it, is this person willing to have a relationship with you should you want that to happen or is it for sex only. I don't agree with you having phone sex with him since you are married to another man, but sweetie you really need to give up on this one, and instead try to figure out what you and your marriage are missing in order for you to go looking for this type of thing. Fixing your marriage will be worth the time spent, and not in some dim hotel with a stranger who may hurt you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Nicegal	Are you not happy in your marriage? I mean, even if you're not happy ... it's still not an excuse to have an affair. I say, have some self-respect ... hold the urges .. and don't have an affair. If you don't want to be with your husband anymore, please just get a divorce and then you can sleep with whoever you want then. Good luck! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jimmy.parker06	If you did not think what you are doing is Wong, you would not post a question here and seek approval. No matter what people say, ask yourself this question, "Can I live with my husband lying in his face everyday pretending to be a good wife?" If you can live with this guilt all your life, then you have just doomed your life. Let your fantasy remain a fantasy, or else you will hurt the ones you love. You may think you do, but you know nothing about this man. if you think this man is that great, then why not leave your husband first and then go with this man. For one afternoon of pleasure you will live in guilt and hurt loved ones for the rest of your life. Having said that, you have to much time on your hand, you need a hobby or need to get a job to keep yourself out of trouble Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

wish I were	I guess you have to decide what kind of person you are. You made a commitment to your husband who trusts you. So are you trustworthy or not? Will you feel proud of yourself for having an affair? Is this how your husband should treat you? You'd be OK with your husband doing the same? It's easy to be intresting and exciting and sexy over the internet, but how will it leave you feeling about yourself afterward? Anyone can send a picture, doesn't mean it's really him! I think it would be funny for you to go to meet him and find your husband sitting there! You are already cheating on him emotionaly, does it make you feel good about yourself? I feel so sorry for your husband..... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ontheotherhand	Torn? Is that a new term for horny? Sure, you certainly gotta go meet Prince Spermy. There is no reason to deprive yourself of this golden opportunity to behave like a slutt. Don't worry about betraying your husband, or even putting your girlfriends in the position of either lying for you or busting you- in the event hubby happened to mention your shopping trip. As to IF you are stupid for planning to cheat, the answer is maybe. Smart people also cheat. So, you MAY be stupid, or you may be smart. But, either way, any married person planning to cheat is DOING something stupid. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

kelly w	Don't do it. You will regret it. Seriously how can you look at your husband. How could you let it go as far as you did. I would never do that. Not to mention he could be a serial killer. anyway trust me....your husband will find out Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Mugsy's Place	You are making a huge mistake and possibly, a very dangerous one. You have no idea who this guy really is and you have no way of knowing if anything he tells you is the truth. As far as meeting him for "sex", you are already "cheating". How would you feel if your husband was doing the same thing behind your back? Marriage is based on love and respect, turning outside your marriage for any reason is wrong and never solves anything. If you don't want to be married to your husband and don't want to get some professional help to work through your problems, divorce him. You are selfish and immature, your husband deserves far better than you. He deserves the truth. Instead of thinking of yourself, why not tell your husband how you feel. Be responsible, act like an adult and end your relationship with your husband BEFORE you go out and jump into bed with a stranger! How old are you anyway, 15? I wish your husband well, I hope you get caught. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

fucose_man	Anyone who actually PLANS an affair knowing what is at stake is scum. Sorry to say it so bluntly. Stay the HELL away from him and go take a cold shower. If you have an affair and ruin your marriage you have nobody to blame but yourself. SHAME ON YOU. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sweetgranny06	don't give in to your temptation because unless you plan on divorcing your husband because you'll make a big mistake and that's adultrey Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

hw	Ok you asked... Once a cheater always a cheater, what you say and do doesn't surprise me. That's why I don't cheat myself and won't date cheaters. Sure you are crazy and completely stupid for taking such a huge risk to meet a complete stranger that you've never met in person? And to top the crazy & stupidity, you're also totally dirty and disgusting to consider having sex with a stranger. How do you think your daughters would think of their Mom doing this? I always ask myself what the hell is wrong with people like you? If you can't commit, then why bother getting married in the first place? If you aren't happy and want to cheat then why bother staying married? And don't give me that mumbo jumbo crap about it's for the kids, because staying with your husband and cheating on him is not doing anything for your kids. Should you be torn? Yes! Is the fact that you both were a product of an affair make it okay? No! You need help, seriously. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

á?¦à®?á?¦ Mo á?¦à®?á?¦	Are you crazy? You are about to have an affair while still married to a man that was the result of an affair and you don't see the pattern of destruction. If you are unhappy in your marriage and see no fixing it, end it!! If there is a chance of saving your marriage, this definately won't fix it.... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Chrissi	If your torn over it then don't do it. Cut all contact with this other person. If you really love your husband than you won't have an affair. Do you realize what it will do to him if he finds out that you had an affair with someone that you have only been talking to. He will most likely be hurt and devastated. If you want your marriage to end then have an affair, but remember if you love your husband it's not worth risking your marriage for a night of sex no matter how great it might be. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jane Doe	Tell your husband what your thinking about , when he finds out he's going to divorce you... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Bridgette B	Once a cheater always a cheater, eh!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Michael K	Do you really want to ruin your marriage? Having an affair does ruin lives - you should know you were a product of an affair. I hope that before you take any step towards meeting this man think about your husband and ask yourself if this is all worth it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

smecky809042003	You have been cheating on your man since you started the "serious" phone sex. Cheap. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Dovie	You are opening a huge can of worms and you know it. Are you really prepared for the consequences? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Mike	Is it worth risking the marriage???? Have some self respect Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ritz Grimarren	You've been having phone sex with him so you've already been having an affair for some time now. When are you going to grow up? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Sally D	Don’t do it, Stop all contact immediately, this will hurt you and betray everyone involved. This is just lust and it will end in pain. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Bella	sluts like you should not waste time. i dont know why you think we'll encourage cheating but you are stupid to go and cheat on your husband. cheating destroys lives and you take it so lightly. you make me sick. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

churnin	You are dumb. I feel sorry for your husband. Way to pass the torch! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

justbeingher	Woman, buy a clue. You asked - and yes you are stupid. You are in love with a story, not a person. Get a divorce and make all the stupid mistakes you want but don't drag your husband through your lies. I can't beleiove someone woulld even ask this knowing they are gonna get flamed. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

SGT. Dillers Wifey	IS it worth throwing away a 14 year relationship and 6 year marriage? If you do this your entire life will crumble, your husband will leave and will probaly ddivorce you. resist temtation and say no. be with your husband. you are married for a reason, remind yourself why by looking at photos and videos with him together and reminising. Just think how you would feel if you were in your husbands shoes. How do you feel? that will stick with you forver if you have a affair. I do not suggest ruinging what you have. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No