I'm seeing a married man, how long is too long to wait till he leaves his wife?

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Shelly	He's not leaving. You are just a crutch to help him survive his current relationship. What he can't get from his wife..he gets from you and vice versa. Learn to love yourself more and not settle for something that really isn't good enough for you. Also, don't listen to all the name callers out there who can judge so easily. This is a hard lesson to learn. Good luck. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

quantumview	He will never leave his wife. He will give you all sorts of story's and make all kinds of excuses but he won't leave her. What you are to him is the meal that he can't get at home. He'll tell you over and over how much he loves you and you'll believe it because that's what you want to hear. If by some miracle that he does leave her how certain are you that he could be faithful to you? So you might as well face it now. If you don't stop this you are wasting your time. There will be no holidays, no special occasions and no real life together. The time spent will be on the sly out if sight of public view. Your life will be forever waiting and wanting and in the end you'll end up losing. The best years of your life will be lost never to be regained. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Troubled Joe(the ghost of)	five mins if it's raining, but if the weather is nice about twenty Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

harryinfrance	Heyyyyyyyyyy girl get real --- he's married -- more than likely with kids ---mortgage-- a fairly stable way of life --- a boring wife ----he's on a roll --he has a little bit on the side --the excitement stimulates him --you are as good in bed as his wife was when in the "courting situation" -- he's not gonna leave girl -- no mattrer how much he says he loves you --or whatever ---- tell you what -- tell him its you or her ---but have the guts to tell him to get lost and walk away ---if he's that keen on you --he will come with you --- but dont count on it ---and one final thing --- remember he IS being unfaithful -- if he leaves her for you -- will he do it again ??? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

samwise25	even if he left his wife if he would do it to her he will do it to you.I would watch who u mess with these days because women don't just lay down and take ** from husbands and mistress's these days you might get more than you bargain for if she finds out...remember betty brodrick,if my hubby ever does some ** like that he and she will have some major regrets cuz i will hurt someone....so just keep that in mind homewrecker Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Poppet	They never leave their wives. Never. You are being used for sex. Nothing more, nothing less. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

--------	leave now. he has it made. you are seconds. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Stareyes	I think that you are wasting your time. He probably won't leave his wife and kid and even if he does you will always be looked as the "other woman." Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Danru	Do you honestly think you could sustain a relationship with this man? Even if he were to leave his wife for you, you will probably be worried that he would do it to you. You wouldn't be able to trust him, and that would affect your relationship. Leave him and find someone that's not married - don't forget, what goes around, comes around. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ann n	he'll never leave her wake up luvvy and smell the coffee Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Kc	You've got a nerve to ask. Obviously, I cannot judge you since I don't know all the details, but it seems to me that you didn't choose the easiest of situations. Well, what do you expect; When you marry someone and have been together for some time, it not easy to let go, even though it's not the best of marriages. You have habits, comfort and you know each other. So, if this guy also has children, it's even more difficult to let go. So, it may be that he'll never leave his wife. How do you know for sure he ever intended to? What marriage doesn't have its ups and downs? What makes you believe he's not just a chancer? Sounds like you don't trust him, and I can't say I'm blaming you. I think you should give him an ultimatum and if he only answers with excuses, then you'll have your answer. Next time, try and get yourself a single guy, it would simplify things for you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

angelhart47	The guys got both you and his wife so what makes you think he'll even leave her? You might be waiting a very very long time. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Sadbuttrue	He'll leave is wife on or about the 32 of Juvember, no wait, Septembruary. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

swti97	you dirty *****,especially if he has got kids, there are to many of your sort out there, find a single man and stop interfering with married men Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

myfianceisamonkey	he is being selfish, he wants his cake and to eat it too. find someone who is worth your time and SINGLE Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

April	Well sweetie, my mom always said that a sure way to hell is one a man makes himself. You're letting someone else dictate your life....a man who could care less about you. If it was love he wouldn't be married, if he was going to leave his wife he would've left her before he met you. You will not be the only reason why he's leaving her...you're the side dish where's she's the meal. She and you both deserve someone who respects you both enough, to want to be with you and only you. Save yourself the heartbreak and leave now, if you don't he'll find someone more attractive, and younger while you're sitting at home making your way to the last of the Rocky Road ice cream, weighing 200 pounds and making threatening phone calls to his new squeeze. Whatever goes around comes around babe, you cheat you get cheated on. Just wait until you get married and karma comes back on you. Cheaters don't stop cheating. Nothing and no one is ever enough for them. If by some chance he does marry you, what makes you so different from his wife? Looks don't matter, and your personality show much because you're sleeping with a married man anyway. You'll get married, and he'll leave you for someone younger...you'll never be able to please him. You need to make your mends with his wife and then go on with your life, with someone who really loves you. Good luck babe! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

clear_only	honey if he is telling you he is going to leave his wife he is lieing to you the same way he lies to his wife Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Mouseling	and what makes you think he's going to stop having his cake and eating it too??? hes probably never going to leave her no matter how much he tells you he loves you and how terrible their marriage is.. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

P_a94	He wont do it, hes just keeping you until you give him an ultimatum, then he will dump you, very small percentahe will leave their wife, to much at risk for them. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

lilac.	*** * whore.......i would take him n his wife on jerry springer n confront the wife so she can kick ur *** n some sense in u ................home wrecker. PS let me know when u'll be on jerry. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Shell	Well you shouldn't be with a married man in the first place. If he hasn't left her yet then he probably won't leave her,so move on with your life and find someone that loves you and has enough respect for you that they won't have to hide a relationship with you. Wouldn't you rather have a man that you could go out with without looking over your shoulder to make sure his wife don't find out?????? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Mark K	Deep down you know the answer to this question.You just want someone else to say it for you. He's not going to leave his wife for you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

B K	You [a] have no respect for your fellow women or you wouldn't be fcking a married man [b] will lose him through his cheating and lying just like you met him through his cheating and lying since he is a spineless piece of sht who has ZERO respect for women or he wouldn't cheat on them [c] can't really be stupid enough to think he will actually leave her for you. Your mad elite pssy skills aren't THAT special honey. He's LYING TO YOU to get more poontang. You mean nothing to him. The only person he cares about is himself. [d] should stop making decisions for his wife without her having input on them. Call her up and tell her you are fcking her husband and he comes home to kiss her with the taste of your snatch still on his lips. Just information she should have to make a fair and informed decision about staying with him. Once she kicks him out see how goddamned charming he is. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

xjaz1	Married with kids? Your wasting your time.. It's not going to happen.. Move on! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot	Any amount of time. If you hang around, you're going to be the next spouse being left. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sinned	he isn't going to leave her, more than likely. he wants his wife for wifely things and you for fantasy. get him gone. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Bexs	They rarely leave their wives. If they do, they will usually leave you for another woman. Find someone single who you can build a future with. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Sassygirlzmom	One second. Stop seeing a married man. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

κύριος κτίστης	as soon as he leaves his wife, and is with you he will find another Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Java Queen	FInd a new man. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

mcfifi	If he doesn't leave her within a year he's not going to. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No