I'm not happy with my marriege, what can I do, my husband and I don't understand eachother?

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Tysienna	run fah far away................. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

aprilrain29	Baby, I feel your pain, believe me. My husband and I seperated for 6 months recently too and got back together...and now our relationship is in the toilet and I'm more confused than ever. We have two kids and its so hard to admit that its over. But when its over its over. If you're not even friends anymore, that's a red flag. Try counseling, church, and if that doesn't work, get a lawyer. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ole Whoopsie Daisy	Ewe knead tew lern ow tuh speell kerektlee ewe ideut! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

busymomof4	Life is too short to be unhappy with someone you don't truly love. Don't stay with him just because of the baby. That is the worst reason. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

guess	you should of stayed away cause everytime someone goes back it's never the same,,if he doesn't hug you or tells you that he loves you that's because he doesn't love you...dump him girl and find yourself someone that does love you.... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jay F	With children involved it makes it alot harder just to leave. Make sure if you do leave that he provides for you and the child(ren). Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sharven777	u r sexysisi even then how? ok try to sit together and reconcile as to what is lacking in u. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Redknight	dump the moron..... you can get child support..... you don't need him Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Tricia P	Hello, Men have different ways then us women. We want to be held and shown affection and usually men are the exact opposite. I also would point out that marriage is similar to a roller coaster at times and you will have your ups and downs. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ineedahotti	Divorce Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

hajgora7	Meet me at the hotel Mariott in Atlanta. We can talk it over. Maybe this is just a stage, and you'll work things out. Get a marriage counselor. In the mean while, I'm waiting for you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

april j	Back your grip and leave or throw him out! U two need to be rid of each other. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

smiley	hi, listen i hope for the baby that this can workout but, once he has stated that things had changed on how he feels than he should of known that u would not feel the same later, sounds like he messed up a good thing. just let him know u do love him but, he needs to make it better he messed it up not u! good luck! men can be pigs! haha Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

n3rdluvr2001	leave him, if you are not happy now you won't be any happier later. Think of yourself and your newborn. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sweetpea4192	if he was like this before you got married you shouldn't have said "i do" but since you did sweetie let him go Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

scotty	if your not happy leave him Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

haki	hi im very sorry for you and I really understandyou.....im in the same situation the difference is my husband said hge lovesme but he shows the opposite.......I know you have a baby but you cannot base your relationship in your baby....you have to thin first in yourself and remember this life is to live to the fullest.....be happy everybody deserve it!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

boxers_r_us2006	If you don't feel the same way about him or he doesn't show any means of loving you or caring about you, then you really need to move on. There is another choice of the matter. You could go to marriage counseling. I have heard from some of my married friends that that really works. Although, with some marriages it won't. But all that you can do is try it out. It never hurts to try. You are in my thoughts. I hope everything works out ok, and even if it doesn't, you will always have the good memories of when you were together. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

crazyotto65	You two need marriage therapy... immediately! For the sake of your child, get professional counseling... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

cin_ann_43	D-I-V-O-R-C-E Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

rkilburn410	Point of order, there are a lot of single moms out there. yes it is difficult, but you question should be to your self,He is there, how much does he contribute emotionally? financially? physically? Is there any possibility talking witha councillor things will improve, Check ALL your options, and then you will know what to do Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

robert s	My name is Robert, my wife had died in March. I am sure that he does love you it seems to me that he has had a little of the strange while he was out in the single life for that short time. Far be it from me to instigate any difficulty, might I suggest that you try some marital counselling I know that your husband may be a little resistant at first when he married you he made a commitment to both you and your child. Myself, I am christian and subscribe to faith that the God of the universe has it under control. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

♥love2havefun♥	i think you two should go to marriage counseling together. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

;)	you don't need him, just his financial security. get child support for your baby and get on with your life. empower yourself and give your baby a happy home, not a loveless and tormented one. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jus Me	So what are you teaching your child? Would you want your child to be in the same situation? Either learn to love each other together or learn to love each other apart. But if at all possible try to stay together. All couples go thru hard times, that can last a long time...a very long time. A child deserves both parents if both can be loving! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

rokrgrl77	Things change after having a baby for the both of you. the best thing to do is be up front, communicate If you think its worth saving the relationship .why stay together if you dont love each other? There could be the right guy waiting for you. I waisted 6 years of my life on my ex...We didn't love each other, .I kept thinking things would change .I was so stupid.Then we had a baby togetherThings got worse, and I left him" 2months after our baby was born" . I never regret leaving . I found my soul mate and every time he walks though the door I still get butterflies.. I could have missed out on him.. There is someone perfect for you out there ,hes waiting for you He will love you and your baby...... don't give up hope.....my sons' father gets to see him, But now he has two Dads that love him soooooo much.....don't know if youre religious , but I also prayed alot . best wishes ... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Confused Lover	well i think it would be best to just split and have split cusdity of ur child because i dont think u guys love eachother that much and it will hurt ur child when he/she is old enough to realize whats happening i think its best for you and ur kid Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Evilprincess2109	If you don't feel the same way and he shows no emotion then it's time to let go and move on it might hurt a Little but it will be better than being in a loveless marriage Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

hazelshine	If you guys had already separated, why in the world would you go back with him? You say you have a newborn baby!! But that's not a good enough reason. For the simple fact you guys don't love each other anymore. What makes you believe that your baby is gonna get you guys closer? Being a father or husband is to different words and meanings. Maybe as a husband the love isn't there any more. But as a dad the love for his child will remain there. The same goes for you, maybe you don't love your husband anymore. But the love you have for your child will not change weather your stay with your husband or not!! Believe you deserve better than that. No woman deserves to be mistreat it!!!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

writ_rrr	I don't have the answers, but I can point you in a direction that will help- toward his arms. If you want to make this work, if both of you want to make this work, you can avoid the Jerry Springer show by reading and working through 2 books (or possibly one will be enough): The first is called "Love Talk," (Parrott/Parrott) which we read recently and found very informative and eye-opening, the second is "The 5 Love Languages," (Chapman)which I read some time ago. If you both talk these "languages," or this "talk," and you both want it to happen, it will. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

lovelostboys	There are many fish in the sea... Swim on... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No