I'm having an affair with a married man, who promised to never leave me. What to do to make him leave wife?

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facemask	thats absolutely wacky....better find somebody else whose single..it's not right you know..though you love him so much,theres no assurance that he would not leave you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

blessed	Honey that is just wrong in all kind of ways,first of all your going to have bad luck for messing around with a married man ,second don't hurt others because of your sleffishness ok. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ann M.	Instead of asking that, you should start asking yourself why are you doing that, and how to do to stop it. A man that can leave his wife for you will sure leave you for other girl one day. Having an affair is nothing to proud of, anybody that can do that has no respect for anybody and for herself. What a life you are living? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

1TON	If he was going to leave his wife for you he would have already done it, he not leaving his wife. he having his cake and eating it to. Move on, you need to leave him. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sugarBear	first off, it's NOT guaranteed that he will not leave you. You need to remember that he is MARRIED. and you should NOT be having an affair with him no matter what he promises nor you should be trying to find ways for him to leave his wife. think about what kind of a person does that make you? and why would you want to be with a man who cheats on his own wife? think about it. You are in an unhealthy "fairy tale" relationship with this boy. If your thinking FUTURE with him, you can forget it! because i can guarantee you that your vulnerable to trouble as well as a broken heart very soon. You need to find a man who is normal, a man who does NOT have any drama in his life, a man who is man enough to be honest with himself, his wife, his marriage & especially his life....right now, you are with what we call a "LITTLE BOY" who does nothing but play games. if he's having an affair, then he is definitely NOT serious about his life at all. As for you my dear....you will learn your lesson later on & i hope you make better decisions with your life next time. I feel sorry for you & i'm sure everybody else on here who's reading this feels the same way. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ella s	Stop seeing him would b the best advise. If he truly loves you he will be with you. If he doesnt he will stay married and find someone else to fill in his free time. Either way you'll end up being the better for it.Dont settle for being second no matter what. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

James R	you are a sick and desperate homewrecker, did you know that? if he leaves his wife for you, then he will only cheat and leave you for someone else. grow up! he only said that so that he could sleep with you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Chellebelle78	There's nothing you can do. The problem is, that you two created your relationship based on deception. He has sooo much to lose if he leaves his wife, what do you have to lose if you walk away ..... nothing. Do what is right by him, by you, and by the wife: Find a single man to date. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

moody b	Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ...lol...lol...lol... men don't leave thier wife 4 someone they love because they just r not strong enough to cut those strings.... Ha ha ha ha...... They r wiennies!!!!!....It doesn't even matter if they r totally miserable ..they won't leave. they would rather be miserable and wait 4 thier wives to take them to the bank & destroy thier life financially.They let thier wife do the honorable thing while they get thier cake on both sides . They have no guts!!! the truth is MEN R WEAK!!!!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

--------	why shoule he??? he has you and her too. how sad Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

california	sorry to be another to give you this newsflash but, he's not leaving his wife. not for you or anyone just because they already have an established life with them (kids possibly?) you shouldnt be trying either especially if there is kids. just WRONG. affairs never end in a fairytale ending...... ever, usually the lover getting the short end of it. :/ you should know that. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Calais	Leave him alone, he wouldnt leave his wife for you. You cant make him leave his wife. He obviously wont he just wants a bit on the side until he tires of you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

bortharris@sbcglobal.net	First of all your are sick!!!!!!!!!!! Why in the world would you sleep with a married ANYBODY???????????????? They are married & off limits!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!... You need some help find someone that is not married!!! There are plenty of single guys out there. That poor wife of his. Just think what will happen when she finds out. How sad:( for her. I am married I would leave my husband in a heart beat if he ever cheated on me with some LOSER like you!!!! HOW DARE YOU!!!!!! Don't think that because he leaves her that he won't do the same to you. HE WILL & YOU BOTH DESERIVE ONE ANOTHER!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Janille S	well if you can make him leave his wife, what makes you think he won't leave you for the next girl? think about it. but if you were a real woman, and not an old girl, then you wouldn't be messing with him in the first place. grow up dear. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ripplediane	Don't be a fool. If he leaves his wife, that will prove he is a liar. He actually made vows to her in front of all his and her family and also God. That he would never have an affair, or leave her. If he lies to her he is lying to you. How can you ever trust that he won't do the same to you that he is doing to his wife? Dump him and find a good man. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

blhenne	There's nothing you can do. If he won't leave her he probably has kids or some religious reason and those two are hard to contend with. And what would you do with him if he did leave? He's obviously a cheater and would end up doing the same to you. Enjoy it for what it's worth but realize this isn't anything long term, nor could it ever be love. Get out before you get your heart broken. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Rianne	Such an ***. Both of you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

christianforChrist	1. If he was ever going to leave his wife he would have already. 2. What do you mean he promised to never leave you? You are the other woman, not the one he made a commitment too. Stop ruining his marriage, and get a man that will really be devoted to you. I hope there are no kids involved, or shame on you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Us	you should be ashamed of yourself. Here is the basic principle: why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free. you, like a ho, having already given it up. he will never leave his wife he is got the best of both worlds. you should have told him that if he really cared about you, then he would get a divorce before you contributed to ruining a marriage. its too late. your damaged goods. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

mypassions4life	He is feeding you a bunch of empty promises. They all say they will leave their wives. Majority of the time they never do leave their wives. Wise up girl and leave him alone unless you want to always be his mistress. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

doman1526	this question has to be a joke, if it isnt, your an idiot. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Holly	Nothing. You shouldn't be doing this. Its not fair to his wife. If he will leave is wife, he will leave you. Don't trust him. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Colleen O	He has no intentions of leaving his wife. He made you that promise so that you would stick around and he could continue to use you. That's what happens when you get into an affair with a married man. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

samantha	Don't you know? They never leave. And while you are so heartbroken think of the wife if she finds out? Has it crossed your mind the pain that would cause her? YOu should get out and find someone single. And just so you know karma has a way of coming to bite you in the *** so i would be careful from now on. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Zoopy	Did it ever cross your mind that he might have promised his wife the exact same thing?? There are so many men out there, more importantly single men, why stay in a dead-end relationship? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

TakenButDontchaWishYaHadAChance	He will never leave his wife for you. You have to remember that he married her. There was a reason he married her. Regardless of who he sleeps with she will always be his wife. Men will promise you anything to get what they want. Never believe a married man is going to leave his wife. I thought as women we had grown past this years ago. If you want to be a mistress that's fine, just don't expect to ever be taken seriously. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

MontichegoGirl	Honey he is not going to leave his wife and even if he does why do you think he would be any better to you. Someone else will come along and make him say the same thing to her. Come on move onto someone who can be totally committed to only you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Chrys	I think maybe you need to leave the married man alone and get someone who's SINGLE. Married men usually don't leave their wives...they keep the extra on a string and you get less and less time...so I'd be thinking about something else...and leave Mr Married alone...with his wife and kids? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jen G	If he hasn't by now he never will. If he cheats on her what makes you think he wouldn't cheat on you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

PeachPie	what the hell's wrong with you.....that's whack Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jaded_poser	if you think he wont do you like he is doing his wife now, youre an idiot. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No