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SuperMum_22
I'm going to kill my husband!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...
Ok, not literally, but I'm so f*cking pissed off right now I can't see straight! I want to divorce him!

Alright see I got in this argument with him...its was hypothetical it was stupid...and today he woke up and he deleted my book! I was writing a book and I had 57 pages finished and he deleted it off my computer out of spite!!!! he deleted it then emptied the recycle bin! I can't believe he'd do this to me!!! I'm so angry right now I don't even know what to do.

I'm taking my kids to a hotel. Maybe some of you don't look at this as a big deal, but my whole life I've wanted to be a writer and this was my first book and 57 pages is a lot ok and it was on my laptop I didn't print out a copy. He killed my dream. I'm taking my 2 kids to a hotel for the night. Like he'd care anyways. He's too busy sulking!!! He shouldn't be sulking I should!

Any additional advice? I'm going to lose my mind...
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Maybe some computer person can get it back...does anybody know who I should call?



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rqerita
that was f*cked up, but you can go to Best Buy and they have IT's that can help you with that, you will be able to get your book back, good luck

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Brandie H
CAll a tech support group for your model and they can hopefully help you resore it.

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mary o
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Oh my god what he did was very childish and way to stupid..
man I hope you don't let him scattered your dreams... You do what you have to.
But I will tell you something if you are going to divorce your husband for this then it is really sad... But I don't know what more he probably have done to you.
So I say if that is going to make you happy then you go for it and move on. But don't turn your back on your dreams.. Fight girl until the end...
hey is there anyways you can talk to your husband and try work somethings out try to find out why he id this.. It seems that you too don't have any communication. And if you do then something is not coming clear. Why not take time off and do thinking instead of divorcing him.. This could help you both out. And while you do this why not consider yourself going into counseling that could help you even better. they have the correct tools you know!
Girl don't worry if you are mad then be mad it is OK for you to react and feel that way but what your husband did was stupid..
Just think about what I said and take time off from him and see if where everything turns about!!! And go for your dreams do let anyone stop you

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Ken B
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I think you have larger problems than just losing your book if your husband doesn't care enough to be that spiteful.

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Zaferus
I'm a computer person and I can tell you don't power on your laptop or anything until someone can remove your hard disk and boot it through a laptop drive adapter to another PC and run a program like ZAR (zero assumption recovery) or other undeletion utilities. If your disk wasn't very full and you haven't done much with your laptop since chances are pretty good to get it back.

From a marriage side, that's probably one of the meanest things I've heard of from a partner, and you definitely deserve better.

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~Autumn™
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Take a deep breathe, and put things into perspective. You have every right to be angry. You should cool down, but when you are 80 or 90, and you look back at your life, try to think of things you don't want to regret, or wish you hadn't worried so much over. Relationships and love are the main reason we are here. Not so much all the other little things we tend to think are so important. I am sorry about the pages you lost, but don't loose so much more because of it. Good luck, and God bless....

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razor_303
http://iolo.com/sr/4/default.aspx

use iolo's search and recover software, it recovers all kinds of files, download a trial and use it, its windows vista capable if by any chance you have vista, easy to use and you should get your book back. if you need more help, i'll be happy to help you out. i hope that helps

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Yahoo Answerer
I think getting out of the house is the best thing. It will work out, if it is meant to be. I hope he realizes what an *** he is, and hopefully, if he is smart on the pc, he saved a copy elsewhere, and was just f-ing with you.....even at that, it is a cruel joke to play. I wish I were there, I would give you a big hug, and tell ya not to give up on your dream cuz of him. I hope it all works out, please keep me posted.....from a woman who has dealt with 20 years of mens sh#t!!!

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shorty19775
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I'm sure it will blow over eventually. Talk to him and ask him why he would try to hurt you like that. Maybe there is some more to it. Also invest in some discs that you can back your work up on from the computer.

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Jimithy ™
Next time save it both to the hard drive and on a disc. Then your problem is solved.

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Ellie F
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That is really bad. Can't you get a computer guy to retrieve it?

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Nicole E
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What was the argument about..Cause I find it hard to believe that he did such a thing just for a stupid argument...If it was indeed a stupid argument then he is a #$&#)^%)##^$#&^$. But honestly I would like to know what was the argument about.

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Cookie Monster!!
oooh ooh wanna go out u since ur single now :)

but uhmmm ya about the book go online and look for a trash retrieval program dl it and it will let you go into you computers system and get it back for yourself and then kick him in the balls for me cause he seems like an A hole and oh if you want take to the geek squad at best buy and they will fix it for you just cost you 50 buck and they can find it but do it before he gets home and oh oh a bonuse if your husband has ever looked at Child Porn they will find it and call the FBI and arrest His sorry *** which i hope they do so you never know you might not have to kill him

but yeah uhmm you seem really hot message me sometime i like smart chicks lol :)

p.s im i''m not some dumb kid i just get bored at work..:")

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zajucomom
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Oh No! Make sure this hotel has a pool. I would be enjoying myself at his expense.

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avengress
Try this http://www.smartundelete.com/ or other similar free data recovery trial programs, they may help and save you a ton of time and money.

Or, bring the computer to a recovery business and have him pay the bill (as much as $1000.00 if sent to the right person LOL)

P.S. Forget the revenge part, not good to have your kids see you lose it, let him be the unstable one. Just get the data recovered. CREATE A BACKUP so he cant do it again, and then have him flip the bill the cost alone will be revenge enough.

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sassysandyinmi
omg no one should look down on you for being so upset as it was something you believed in and he stomped all over it and out of spite what a loser....that's so imature that it's not even funny however, for you and your kids sake you do need to calm down and choose your words carefully but him doing this over something so insignifignat he needs to grow up good luck with everything

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megr_b
OMG, was this about the whole "who would save in a house fire" thing? He is so immature... make HIM go to the hotel tonight. I would tell him that with this thoughless and selfish act he has chosen who he would REALLY save, himself. Taking away someone's dream like that IS like taking away their life.

I have to say that he sounds like a loser, but maybe hearing about that dad dying triggered something in him... that he COULD die.. he COULD be the one "left behind" in the family (which is supposed to be a solid unit). If you haven't already let him know, I would say that you didn't mean that you would just let him die.. you would try to save him as well... but kids are more helpless and their bodies consume smoke faster. Reassure him that he is an important member of the family, but let him no that his actions today have made him a disruptive member of the family and that that type of behavior is not needed or welcomed.

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dorrismarie
It kinda makes me chuckle inside because my husband and I do stupid things when we are angry too. One time I was keeping him up by arguing, he got up and threw our blanket in the toilet!!! It took a couple of days to get over that one, but we got over it. Sometimes things get bad. They can always be fixed though. If you love him and he loves you, eventually you'll both get over it and it will be okay. Dont do anything irrational until you are calm though. Going away for the night or even two to think things over isnt a bad idea though.

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iam_ahardrockers
Damn your husband!! Get a 'me time' for a bit.

Go to place that you like or doing somethhing that you loved.

Then start the book again, but get the book out of your husband ;P

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pinball
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You could take your computer to a computer expert, they might be able to retrieve the info even if it has been deleted, its worth a try

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Blue T
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Perhaps you can get the pages back. I do not think that this is a basis for a divorce where there are children, but his behavior is disgraceful. More out for a few days. I would leave one kid with him, so he can realize what divorce would be like.

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rooney
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Maybe because your book was poorly written and he thought he was doing you a favor. So you should be thankful. Sorry that you have to live in a hotel with two small children now, that must suck.

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pookiesmom
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I think a night appart might not be such a bad idea. You need your space away from each other so you can calm down. That was rather childish of him no matter what happened but you didn't mention what you did to cause it..not that it was a just thing to do either way (unless he were 15...) I'm sure a computer geek could help you more then I can but there could still be a way to get it back...worth a shot anyway.

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Kim
I think you should buy disks and back up your data. Call a tech support and see if there is anyway to recover it.

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from_a_dark_place
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Gosh, I am so sorry. I write as well and I know how much work goes into each page. That is a tremendous loss. If my husband ever purposely did that to me I would leave him. That is a terrible thing to do to someone. I don't care how angry you are. That was just wrong. If he has a habit of doing jerky things like this then you are wasting your time with him. Take the kids and leave. Good luck.

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i_m_the_1_u_luv
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so sorry 4 your loss, but, this is only your side of the story. It does seem pretty child like behavior. P.S. I would look at backing future books up every addition!!

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Write a book about it.

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BOOTZ
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we ll i would be mad too, but thats not a good reason to divorce him, just take a little time off to vent like go on vaction with your kids, and when you come run some ground rules by him about touching your stuff just calm down

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roxiecat4200
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I would be angry too. It sounds like he is being a child. But please don't base everything, including your marriage on one incident.
Think of your kids and take the evening or week to cool off, maybe you will think differently later.
Good luck.

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JK_JEEP
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its not gone, look up recovery from recycle bin

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Steve C
I would back up your files someplace safe from now on, like a free online service, and then have a serious heart-to-heart with your hubby. It could be simple communication and honest expression can clear this up, and you owe it to your kids to try. But I do believe he owes you some solid explanations.

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