How would you react if your husband told you he thought about hurting you?

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smartblond48	Run; and don't look back! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

logan c	i would be woried Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

yours truly	rape.. you i would divore him he is unsafe what if you get him that mad and he does hurt you or rape you... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Power 2 the People.	UM, You should talk about with him seriously- then discuss the possibility of therapy Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

audrina!	holy shizzzz! LEAVE HIM! are you crazy!? call the cops! get out. he could kill you! if he's crazy enough to think about raping you. woahh, LEAVVVEE! as soon as possible. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Iknowalittle	Counseling now !!! He was thinking about hurting you... That is not a good thing.. Or get away from him before he does actually follow through with hurting you or you end up dead.. I am worried about you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

lisa m	if i asked you that question what would your advice to me be? If someone had a thought of hurting you and although he told you what makes you think he won't follow up next time? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Uncle Tim	dang.. what did you do to hurt him that bad? - rape is never ok. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ideratherbefishin	Time for you to leave!!! or eventually you could just take the raping......your choice. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

neednomore00	LOL...my husband tells me once a month he wants to hurt me...last month I was to die by strangulation... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Stacie	Jesus. I had a abusive ex boyfriend. And raping his own girlfriend becasue i was to tired one night is exactly how it started. You really need to speak to him. I wouldnt go straight in saying he needs therapy becasue that will wind a man up. But, if you love him then, you will need to see a counciler at some point. But, dont make the mistake of staying with a man who abuses you, becasue your scared. It wil ruin your life Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ant boogie	he told you the truth so you could grasp the extent of what you did. you are obviously no angel and guilty as sin this fact does not merit rape nor does any action perfomed by women good luck Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

stevey_32	you 2 need counseling. i am not sure that i would trust him not to hurt you. if he continues to get worse..leave! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Samantha	what the heck did you do, that is madness!! If my husband said that to me he wouldn't be my husband if you know what i mean. Even if you cheated on him with his brother you guys shouldn't be together cause you don't love him and he hates you by the sound of it Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

gamerwench	I'd seek counseling - if he won't go then I'd go on my own. Having that much anger could lead to losing control later on down the road. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Raymond Pistachio	It's not rape if it's your husband, silly wife! --Ray Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ssandydem	ok so u did something really bad and his anger went to the point of sex? then he thought about it and told u. telling u was the hurt that the rape was supposed to do but he loved u enuf not to do it. if he wants to talk it out then the least u can do is listen since it was ur mistake in the first place. u can always opt for the rape later but if u r willing then it isn't rape oh well... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Betty M	Every rapist, thinks about it, before he finally goes out and does it. You're lucky your husband gave you a "heads up" warning. Now don't be stupid and wait around for the next argument. Your husband has anger issues and a desire to use rape to punish and have power over you. If you can't immediately get him into counselling, then for your own safety I would leave. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Idiot kid	Leave him? Did you expect a different answer? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

40 somethin'	Rape you? Tell him you'll chop his willy off if he tries! BTW, what did you do that made him say something like that? he still shouldn't have said what he said. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Scot M	Does he think about hurting you all the time, or just this once? If it's all the time, it's time for to go away from him. If it's just the one time, why was he so mad at you? Did you cheat on him or do something really bad, or was he just having a bad day? It's impossible to answer the question with so little information about the situation. Sometimes people do get angry and have the urge to do terrible things, especially if it's in response to a betrayal of trust. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ChemoAngel	I wouldn't wait for a first time. I'd be out the door the next day. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

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leviecoelibrary	If he's had these thoughts and has the temper to back them up, then I'm sorry but it's only a matter of time before he acts on them. Get out if you can. If you can't or still love him, seek some marital counseling. Good Luck! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

calif.jenn	Part of me wants to beg you to talk to someone close to you (best friend, family member) so that there is someone in your life that has your back and is looking out for you. Part of me wants to tell you to kill that piece of sh** in his sleep. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Christine M	I would be really concerned. And worried. No disrespect, but if he thought about raping you cause he was upset, could he possibly do that to anyone else? In my opinion that's something I would take very seriously. Its easy to say get him help, or ask him about it cause I'm not in your spot, and don't know how he'll react.I would say to ask a doctor their opinion. But I wish you the best of luck and to be safe. :o) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Flamethorn	DTMFA. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Lid	Scary. Get him to therapy! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Good Son	Run like hell and go talk to Uncle Jesse, He'll take care of him Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

JoyJoy	I've been there. I was told that I should get down on my knee's and pray to god that he won't get violent with me. I divorced him! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Kevin G	Go to a marriage counselor or talk to him and try to solve the problem that would make him want to hurt you. If he ever does hurt you physically you should contact the police though Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No