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How to train your wife to obey?
like traditional marriages bibile based
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Darby
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Oh, I guess you didn't get the message. It's a partnership these days.

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diva4life_04
hope that your wife wants to live that way. If not, you can't "train" her. I don't think anyone lives that way anymore. Who would want to?

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heavenlyhotchild
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this isnt bible times jack ***

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greenbaypackers1920
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I am a male and I married my wife for 9 years and have 2 beautiful children. I am sorry that things are change than the bible said. I don't need to tell my wife to obey like traditonal.

how made this marriage work we share and we trust eachother alot and I don't tell her to clean this and do that. We work as a team and do what I do and she do and we both work and we always love eachother and do thing together. I don't see why you have to train your wife????? You know that it will never make this marriage work because you don't even care and dont even care about her and how she feel or love her.. you just want her to obey to you. It will not last and She will be happy to find someone like me and person that listen and she listen, If I want my wife to obey my marriage will not last this long.

So you need to change to be a better person that really trust caring loving, commucate, sharing, helping each other and do things fun and not all about obey.

Sorry dude, There nothing to train about to have your wife obey, so there fore you need to train yourself how to be a better husband and caring and etc.

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kwturbtchn
Hey Alice, wonderland is just around the corner!

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latina2023
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you need a dog

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older&wiserforit
Why would you want to OBEY your man?? Why not just be his wife and love him. Make life simple for yourself.

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Sander
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You do not train a wife to obey,she is not a dog or a pet.Animals you train,people you do not.You will never get married with that attitude or you will get married and it will never last.

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bren_jim
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Marry out side the US !! I have a friend that did that and she treats him like a king.. If you like that kind of a woman then thats what you got to do!! Me myself I like a woman who can be my equal in our realationship. Has to be 50/50 or it doesn`t work.. Be there done that!!

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impossible
Buy her a diamond studded shock collar and give her lots of treats. Ohh...wait....that's how to train a dog. Yeah, you don't need a wife. You don't "train wives to obey". Buy a blow up doll. She'll do anything you want.

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J.daniel
The Bible teaches that women have choice in obeying their husbands. Just as a man/woman makes a choice to obey God.

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alexjewell@sbcglobal.net
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dude?!
what the heck?!

women are not, like, freaking dogs or something.
you don't TRAIN them.
you don't make her OBEY.
She is no more important than you are, and thus if she has to obey you 100% of the time, you have to obey her 100% of the time.
Gosh, sexism!

In fact, the Bible doesn't even state that women should be obedient like dogs.
one, the references it DOES make were 2000 years ago.
two, the references state that the husband and wife are equal. it says "wives respect the husbands, husbands respect the wives"

At any rate...

That's rediculous.

I'm a strong Christian, myself.
And I WOULD never treat my girl like this....

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you train animals to obey she need to leave you i know gf can do better

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brenda4ever
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You can't

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Stacey
Buy a lovely poodle and have relations with that instead. Actually collies are easier to train. Just don't hit her with the rolling pin when she takes a dump in your favourite shoes.

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Expat Froggy
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Take first the right material: an obedient foreign woman.
Then keep her isolated from the world - completely isolated - and start working because each year you must make her pregnant.
Be sure that she has no reachable family, nobody to complain except while changing tissue nappies that she would have to wash by hand.
Remember that one stimulus provokes a response, then if she dares to contradict you, just kick her over and over. Teach your children -boys- to through stones to her in order to get trained just in case.
If the food she serves you with so much love tastes weird, is because of her tears. Eat more so that you can blame her to spend your money in stupidities and start the kicking process again.
If one day you start with belly cramps, blame the couscous that she made two month ago to save money and electricity.
When you get blue, do not ask her to call the ambulance, but order a nice and resistant iron coffin. Your wife and kids will turn it shreds out of hate to you.
Satisfied?

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smt1967
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Helloooo, its 2006.... obey you???? Why?? Do you obey her??? Why did you marry her?

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lady lancelot
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Uh, you cant. Women have feelings.
If you decide to sit her down and say: "I want to train you like a human trains a dog."
You guys will get divorced.
Just... dont.

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Ms. DeVine
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divorce her, she'll be happier

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Inframan
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using little debbies snack cakes as rewards.

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The Meksikan Couple
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Ask not what your wife can do for you, but how you can do whatever it takes to keep her happy. If she's happy, then she doesn't need to be "trained", she'll do things for you out of love, just as you should do for her.
As in biblical times, the Bible says "Love one another"

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SirenSings
Find her a MAN.

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heather f
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u don't women don't need to obey anyone they are not your children that u can tell what to do

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nickless
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I assume you're living with a dog. Because only dogs will obey you.

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4kids4dogs
divorce your wife and marry a robot

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Angel sent from heaven
No man should train there wife to obey.But a wife should train her husband to obey.I'd think twice about what you're asking. cause alot of women like me are going to disagree with what you're asking. good luck

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bsc_student_08
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How to train your wife to train you to obey?! :-P

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Billy
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It's like breaking the spirit of a horse, you have to ride them hard until they give up and are completely submissive. If necessary, use a whip. They realize that you are their lord and master and they will obey your every command. An occassional whipping may be needed if they step out of line and forget their place.

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Chris
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Sounds like you need a dog, not a wife. OBEY! Men love that word, don't they?
Ok, you want to go to the bible on this? Read Ephesians chapter 5. If YOU are doing everything it says there, and not just picking out what suits your over blown male ego, you'll see that ANY woman would be willing to submit to a man who does what Christ did for his bride, the church. Pay particular attention to verses 25-33 (and not just 23 and 24 which you have obviously heard mentioned and memorized to your sad advantage.)
The whole of the subject begins with verse Ephesians 5:21 which tells BOTH husbands and wives to submit to ONE ANOTHER!
Get it right man. The bible is not a tool to beat someone with, it is the inspired word of God to teach us to live in love and harmony.

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Linda
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First of all you can't train your wife to obey, that is more like a Master/slave relationship,
which is what you are probally into but won't admit to it and hide behind the Bible.
I believe in Men being the head of the household and both man and woman have their roles in the family unit, and I will also role play (key word PLAY) with my Husband
But I am also a strong woman and I would not allow someone to TRAIN me in real life.
As far as me respecting my Husband and living in a DD relationship, he still treats me with respect and would never humiliate me in the real world. I would suggest that you look for someone that wants the same lifestyle as you and wants to be trained. There are lots of women that will willingly be your slave

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Leah Kelley
Hi, Sorry people have given you such rude answers. The Bible does say a wife should obey her husband. This "mutual submission" doctrine is so flimsy it breaks at the first look at the scriptures. The Bible never gives authority without the one in authority having the right to back it up. I see no reason why it would be different with a husband and wife. If Jesus was against "wife training" why didn't He say something about it in His word? The use of the rod was certainly going on then.

Anyway, I'll get off my soapbox. Christian Domestic Discipline is one way to train your wife to obey. Go to the Christian Domestic Discipline yahoo list and learn more about it. Also go to the Loving Domestic Discipline website and the Taken In Hand website. Most women are happier with a firm, loving man. Many, many women would love to have a husband who will spank her when she needs it. Mine does and I love him and find him very attractive because of it, but I don't love the spankings. Thankfully they're rare.

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