How shall i tell my husband, who has been in iraq for the last 6 months, that i am 4 months pregnant?

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Cassius	A B O R T I O N Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

walt	You got into this mess, now do your best to get out of it, good luck. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

young one1	look if you are for real you need to tell him with the chaplain or someone Else with you cause what u did ain't right. you could have the guy where a rubber.It's women like you that make men do dumb stuff when they get back from down range. I bet you spend all his money too.woman amaze me you couldn't buy a rubber .I hope you too dont have kids together cause i hope the 15min or 1hr sex you had was worth your married. Not only dose he have to worry about people taking about him behind his back at work he got to come home to a wife that got caught cheating.I mean you are a big girl and if you want to cheat I'm really cool with it ,but when you dont take the steps to keep your hm taken care of you get what you got coming. I bet you went where all the other wife's go looking for men. I'm upset with you and i don't even know you if he stays with you and takes this kid and his i respect him cause i dont think i could do it. dont tell him on the phone and dont go to his homecoming either. call his family or your family with you have some one with just in case you know. take care of your self and hope it works out for you really. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

six7foru	Wow, you really screwed up, that's all I can say. That being said, face your demons and tell him the truth, tell him soon, so he can move on, because you don't deserve a good soldier!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sadgirlinms	I am not sure what type of guy he is. I guess I would tell him on the phone. Give him a little time to adjust. Otherwise, just walking in and seeing you like that might stress him out. Can you e-mail him? Yeah advanced notice would be best. He might think you have gotten fat..not to be mean. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

*Fairy Dust :::*	It would be a surprise if you let him see you! But, on the other hand you know your own husband, so what would he want ou to do? Perhaps, he may get mad if you didnt tell him, incase summut bad happened (I hope it doesnt!) but, you should always keep him in the loop, becuz if something did happen - would u be able to live with yourself? GOOD LUCK! X Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

wiggy52	How could you? Your action has, quite rightly, provoked strong reactions. The least you can do i tell your hubby if he doesn't see for himself, but let him get his boots off. He been fighting for his country while you've been ...... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

princess snowflake	You are dirty. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

LA Chef ~D	tell him but be ready for him to say he wants a divorce, shame on you Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Deathbunny	Unless you have a deathwish, you need to tell him now, meet him in a public place, and have somewhere else to stay for the foreseeable future before he arrives. Not kidding. Depending on where his priorities are--if he's a guy dying to live out a career in the military you might be okay--otherwise if he's a "family man" you are at risk as long as he sees you as his wife. Wow. Be careful with that, contact the family support group/family liaison now and get help. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

hsy454	Wow. Are you sure it's only 4 mos and couldn't be 6 mos, doctors can be wrong or I hope for you they are. He was only gone for 2 mos before you slept with someone else? Wow. Well you need to talk to him about it. He is going to be mad and will probably leave you. What a way to be welcomed home. Sorry, I'm sure you're beating yourself up about it but that is so wrong. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Brittany S	tell him Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Linzi	My husband has just gone to Iraq for the third time in two years and what you have done, while it is not right or nice, it is common, with both the wives and the soldiers. All I can suggest is tell him just before he comes home, but leave it till the last minute so he doesn't get side tracked whilst in a dangerous situation. Also contact your family liason officer, they can arrange some where to stay and counselling if your husband is willing to try and forgive you. you are in for a rough ride from everyone, your husband and his family will be really p****d, as will the rest of the wives as what you have done reflects badly on them too. get ready to beg for your life. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

tricia123	Um..we need to get a divorce..I didnt respect you and I didn't have any respect for you when I decided to cheat on you, especially when you were in Iraq risking your life for me and our country. I'm pregnant and obviously its not yours. I am so sorry. only say sorry if you really mean it, don't feed him full of BS and don't give him a line of crap about being lonely etc...take responsibility for your actions, you should have at least used protection so you wouldnt have gotten pregnant with someone elses child while your husband was away trying to do his job. I would have someone else meet him at the airport (a friend of his or a family member of his)or where ever when he comes home, and either let them tell him whats going on or have them give him a letter. Its going to be really hard on him and he really doesnt need to be left alone at a time like that. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Lady Freyja	WH-RE. You are a disgrace to military wives everywhere. Just tell him you were a nasty sl-t who spread her legs for some damn "Jody" and now your knocked up w/ his bastard. Way to go tramp. I hate wives like you. You make me sick. Oh and tell him in person. You owe him at least that. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

mojo jojo	You need to tell him now. After disrespecting your marriage by whoring around, the least you can do have the respect to tell him before he has to see you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ty	Damn! That stings! Are you kidding? A man risks his life to fight for his country and has to come home to an infidel. Don't tell him that news over the phone. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Fran	Not nice what you did. Tell him in person when he's back home and then let him think alone for awhile to give you an answer. Hopefully he'll leave you and have a good life. You cannot be trusted. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2godly4no1	girl thats messed up...he's serving our country and your sleeping around behind his back...how awful!!! i feel bad for him,all he's been waiting for is to come home to his women,not someone else's women and umm you get knocoked up with someone esle's child,you are wrong.and i hope he gives you divorce papers!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Baz08	lol, you reap what you sow Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Tim	Call him and say: "Hi, honey. I know you've been off defending your country, and putting your life on the line on a daily basis so I can live in a free world, but I'm such a selfish **** I didn't think that our relationship was important enough to be faithful to you. Anyway, I'm 4 months pregnant with another man's baby, and I wanted to give you the chance to find a woman who will love and respect you for the man you are, so please don't bother coming home, I completely understand". Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jack M	YOU NASTY PERSON!!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Shoshannah	Girl, I'm telling you, I'm in Iraq right now, and with the combat stress, you do NOT want him coming home and 'seeing for himself'. He's likely to kill you, and I'm not joking. I'm disgusted though, how can you cheat on your husband when we're dying over here? Do you have ANY idea what it's like? You go and enjoy a latte at Starbucks and get back to me about how rough life is in the States and how you had to satisfy your urges with some other guy who didn't have enough balls to respect your husband. Trust me, I want to have a normal life with my husband too, but with the military, it's not going to happen so get over it. I can't even imagine how he's going to feel when he finds out. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

chels20092000	OMG,What a nasty n horrible person you must be,,,your husband is away fighting for his country,,and in the danger that he could be seriously hurt or even god forbid killed,,,i think you should tell him and let him make his own mind up,,i think you should move out,and leave him too get on with his life,and in time find a honest and trustworthy girl he can be proud to call his wife,,,you disgust me,i hope you are proud off yourself,, Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

I am ME	WHAT the hell...just have the divorce papers ready for him when he gets off the plane letting him have everything and you paying spousal support. Who#e Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Kiddo	I wonder how he is going to tell you he wants a DIVORCE!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Pipe L	well, you are a horrible person!!!! cheater, cheater, cheater..... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

*Honest Blunt Opinioner*	why do army wives do this? its bad enough their man is over on some foreign land protecting their country. getting shot at and having bomb shells explode around him and this is the thanks they get? their wife is whoring around with some other manwhore. i hope he leaves you becuase you do not deserve him. just tell him, it will be bad either way. ********************* i'll give you some advice. dont tell him over the phone becuase once he learns of your stupidity, it just might get in the way of his concentration in war. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

myhandsrfull9768	shame on u 4 bein a whore - i hope he divorces u - sry 2 b rude - but u know better or @ least u should of known better - Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

janice	I hope this is just your version of a sick joke. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

claire	Just hope he failed maths and cant count ! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No