How do you feel about anal sex?

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Annie	It's not for everyone. It can be uncomfortable and messy. You have to decide what you are comfortable with. If your boyfriend puts pressure on you then he doesn't really care for you. He's just using you. It is something that you have to want to do and not be pressured into doing. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jess	In my opinion i hate it! 2 years ago(when I was 21) my hubby was bugging me to try it. So, finally one day I decide go for it, and I told him "slowly, and if I say stop or pull it out you better do as I say" oh my God! Girl, let me tell you that it hurt sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much!!!! I told him to stop, and he didn't! Well he did like 5 seconds after I said that. I cried sooooo much. To this day I still remember how it was, I even took a shower after, and I felt like I had been raped, probably cause he didn't stop when I told him and it hurt bad!! Its been 2 years since that happened, and I haven't let me try it, and I will NEVER let him. It hurts too much, doesn't even feel good! If you want to make him happy, maybe you can try it but tell him to be very, very gentle-you might like it. But me I hated it! But just think about it, good luck girl :) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

mommy of 3	It's SHITTY.... LMAO Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Lila S	well,if your scared to try it,then your bf should respect your feelings,if he loves you at all..but if you truely want to try it............for me it's the bomb,but everybodies different, what dose your bf do for you> it sounds like he's all in it for him self. (something to think about) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

I'm thinking of you :(	yeah it does hurt at first but next, it won't hurt once you doing it again. advantage from anal sex is you cant get pregnant from this so you can having sex!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

delesae_free	Its great u guys wanna spice things up but it should be done with the idea in mind that both partners should be comfortable with what is happenning. If u dont like it then dont do it and tell him. It sure comes with pain and maybe the next time he brings it up, just tell him that if he takes it in his *** that you would be happy to. And if he agrees just tell him how pathetic he is. I bet he gunna drop it. But just remember its u who gotta do it in the end if u decide to and u have the right to say yes or no. Just dont do anything taht u know that u know that u r regret. Goodluck! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Little Angel	That isn't what God intended Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Grant M	Let me tell you one thing and get this and keep it close.... Even animal's dont do it in the booty... Any man who asks his girl or his wife to do that is a dastardly person and not worthy of your love... yes it hurts more than you will ever know. And you will bleed and you will hurt and unless you do an enima before you do it.. there will be crap all over you and all over his johnson... and too, you can get STD's from doing it... Now just in case he talks you into it, make sure that he washes very cleanly before he goes in the real hole... You are making a mistake in letting him but hey you girls think love is doing everything for your man.... Good luck... Grant M in Pennsylvania Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

manga_bakabaka	no it will be the most mind boggling orgasm you will ever had Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Nick	Personally, (and I know a lot of guys will disagree) I prefer it if booty remained what it was intended for... Just tell him you'll do anything, but anal sex is off the list! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

torsh	it helps relieve constipation, or maybe it causes it, i can't remember which... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

needmeagoodname	to put it bluntly it's a pain in the @ss. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Sonoran Sweetheart	This thread will get deleted I think, they always seem too...but, if you don't want to don't do it, if you are willing to try it read up first. To each his own. ...and geez, some of you people make me doubt my "prude" status...it's different, not the devil. Don't like it, don't do it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

I will always love you	It hurts for sure Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

♥ † ♠ ♣ MORECOWBELL	well ..... i tried it cuz my bf wanted to and at first it was okay then my butt started burning so i jumped out of bed screaming my butt my butt ... after that i hesistated to do it again but the good gf I am I got drunk and tried again... it still hurt but i bought some butt plugs and now its all good... anything for my man i recommend everyone try it at least once Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Mz.Eida Updating	Don't do it!!! first of, no exit door are for entering...you know what i mean...i hate the fact that some guys rather have anal sex than having the normal kind...it's gonna hurt real bad anyway if you gonna try it! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

haley25_1	Babigurl? Tell him if he truly cares 4 and respects u, he wont pressure u 2 do this. If u've done everything else he wanted, he shouldnt push u 2 do this. I never done it but heard it hurts bad Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ashleigh G	Used to really hurt but just make sure u use plenty lube n it gets much better and enjoyable :D Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

gladewalker69	Do your research about it first and make sure if you do want to do it that you can stop it at any stage, preparation is the key or it could be really bad. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

uniquegftsnmore	(constipation.. will relieve it in an instant) yes it hurts, if done incorrectly, you need lots of lubrication, and he HAS to be slow and gentle,, havent done it much myself... first time hurt like heck (he did it dry and actually claims he didnt know he was in the wrong place, yeah right)...... anyhow..... if he starts out slow with alot of ky and starts with one finger and goes up from there... if done right, its a very odd but nice feeling..and no im not a pervert. out of the 5 or 6 times ive done it, only the first 2 times did it hurt (because of who was doing it and he didnt care if he hurt me or not) make sure you have a towel under you too... just like in the beginning it will take time to get you open, it will take time for you to close.. you will NEED the towel. sorry if its grafic but you did ask... PS... you should only do sex when and if your comfortable with it!!!!! NEVER EVER do anything your not comfortable with...... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Fire Fighter	Always remember that this is your body and if you feel the least bit uncomfortable with any kind of sex act, no matter what it is, you have the right to politely let your boyfriend know that you will not participate in that act. It is always your right and always okay to say no to anyone. You need never feel afraid, young lady. Any decent man should understand your feelings. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Lynda	Dont do it. If he loves you he will understand Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

boricua_2290	Is gross and it hurts like hell OK no bull crap and on top of that no enjoyment for the woman what so ever, so why do it? just don't do it is so ******* gross Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Brian B	If you are uncomfortable w/ anal sex you shouldn't do it. Personally I think it would be kinda gross, but I guess he's into that. But he should respect how you feel if you don't want to. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

artistlove85	I love it. However, I was turned on by it before I even tried it, and still couldn't take it that well for a couple years. Now I enjoy it rather frequently, but it took a lot of time to get used to. And I always am stimulating my clitoris at the same time- anal is best when combined with a vibrator or rub on the clit. If you don't want it mentally, forget about it- it's going to hurt. If you are scared of this, just say no. Your anus is not going to expand and you will not be able to relax if you are frightened. There is no reason you have to have anal sex with him- you already said that you tried a lot of different positions and such. If you do decide that you are ok with it and trying it, go about it very slowly. Use a ton of lubricant, and don't even worry about taking 15 minutes with fingers and toys to help you relax. He should be lucky that you are considering it at all (it can be very painful for a woman if it's not done correctly and very frightening the first time). He should never try to force it in too far or too quickly. If it starts to hurt too badly, tell him to stop and slowly pull out. But do not do this "just to make him happy." It's a very sensitive area and a huge leap for many women. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

cuddles	you said your boyfriend has mentioned "getting it in the booty"...lol tell him if he wants it there u will find something to oblige him.. but if hes talking about doing it to you, i have heard it hurts like h*ll... i would never try it personally cause i believe its for exit only..but if you do it get lots of lube and relax.. i did hear it was a pain in the @ss though Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

H C	Hurts at first , gets better , I now like it better than vaginal.Use lube if you do it or tell him no if you don't want to.I see most people on here are either too young or don't have an open mind or just aren't willing to admitt to things.Most every guy I have ever known goes both ends into a woman.C'mon. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

♥Sassy♥	My husband and I are trying to get there. First we started by just fingering and of course that hurt at first but now I enjoy it very much. I would suggest trying that first. It's a long process getting used to it. We still continue to try and it still hurts when he tries to get in but we use lots of lube and it gets better. He's able to get in slowly but still not all the way there yet. Good Luck. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Schmoke and a pancake?	If you don't want to do it, don't. You shouldn't have to do something you don't want to just to make a man happy. Especially if he's your boyfriend, how will you feel if you go through with it and the relationship ends later? I am married and have turned, and will continue to turn, my husband down when he has suggested it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jackie D	strap on a dildo and say you first Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

In the Wind	Okay...Your gut feeling on this is RIGHT!!!! Don't do it. And I will tell you why, sorry its blunt...The muscles in your anus are meant to be as tight as they are for a reason. (I won't go into detail as for what, I'm sure you can figure that out)...All these people that say, lube and the more you do it gets better...Guess what? They have destroyed the purpose of the muscles down there. That hole is an exit hole ONLY!!! Its a twisted nasty request he is making...And he should respect you on this...and definitely not force you into it, or guilt you into it. Stand your ground, if he doesn't like that, then he isn't worth the time of day for you, because even MOST men are disgusted by this practice. I wish you well. Take care. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No