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How can I get my husband to stop jerk off ?
I cought him many times in the shower using my bath gel. Came home and using my gel socks. C** stains all over the sheets and his underware. I am getting fed up any advice.



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Helicreature
Let's see

His wife arrives home to find him having done what men when they are not completely satisfied by their wives do naturally, she behaves like a virago and makes him feel humiliated. When they go to bed he remembers how she made him feel and turns away. His wife arrives home......

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kttphoenix
Despite her negative ratings, I agree with the first answer. Have sex more often. How often are you two intimate? He should clean up after himself, and use his own things.

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Smiley Pig
you need to give him more oral

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bocasbeachbum
The only way you can stop it is to cut his testicles off.

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Justin R
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have sex with him more frequently.

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*cute cat*
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have sex more often!

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Ms_G
ITS A NATURAL THING YOU SHOULD NOT LAT IT BOTHER YOU OTHER THEN HIM MAKING A MESS, ASK HIM TO BE CONSIDERATE AND CLEAN UP AFTER HIMSELF.GOOD LUCK.

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Cranky1
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maybe....you should 'put out' more. :)

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Sydney
maybe its because hes not getting enough in the bed room?
all men do it,but tell him to ONLY do it in the shower.because then the *** will just go down the drain.
easy clean up:D

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cupidgirl
lol! using your gel socks!?
hilarious-
as long as you are getting enough sex, then , let him do what he wants...

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Core
Maybe you should become more interesting in bed. If he wanted you maybe he wouldn't have to get himself off as often.

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Jack katchem
help him out

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Matt
Must mean he is tired of you ? Maybe you just aren't exciting.

MAYBE you are just boring. Try pleasuring him :)

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the truth
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give him more play

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Amanda L
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The only advice I'd suggest is to have more sex. I dont think the shower thing is a big deal, but tell him to stop messin on your socks and the sheets!!

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ohsobriefly
Ick...that's like leaving your used tampons around. Maybe point that out to him.

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Contemplative
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Leave your tampon in his sock drawer and just say "ooops."

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Petunia
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What!!!!!
I think you have the problem.... Not enough Sex, Just pillow talk!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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TLC2192
Ask him to use his own things and clean up after himself. I dpn't think he'll stop, but others have brought up good points... it's better than him letting another woman do it. Good luck!

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Pocket Protectorate
Um...

Maybe you should attend to his needs more often...

Just a suggestion...

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Rob
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First look at your sex life, how many times and how much effort do you put into it. Do you just do it to get it over with or does he make sure you orgamize? Dress up, act a scene out do something different to get him wanting you and not the towel. Another way of looking at it is that he is jerking off and not cheating on you. If not then talk to him and find a happy middle ground.

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Miss Manda Panda
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You can't get him to stop jerking off, but you CAN get him to stop using your bath gel and socks. It might sound absurd to you, but go to a sex shop and by him a toy. There are some out there for men that doesn't involve the anus at all! No, not a blow up doll either. Just a toy. Also, like others have said, tell him to keep it in the shower or clean up after himself. If he keeps it up, he can do his own laundry. Hope this helps.

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outlook0330
Have sex with him????

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No More
You can't get a man to stop. All you can do is to make sure that you make yourself available for sex and let him know that if he feels the need to let off some steam that you would rather he chose to be with you. All guys masturbate, maybe he needs to tone it down a bit and clean up after himself.... all you can do is be a willing participant in sex and hope that he lets you take care of his needs.

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Jenn
give him more sex lol...otherwise if ur not wanting to have more sex understand that hes got a need he has to feed...id much rather come home to my guy jerking off than with another woman...it just means hes faithful to ya that he isnt bringing women home...be happy bout it...besides its natural for a guy to have such an active sexual desire...and they do need it...its their stress relief, its their necessity to stay healthy (that one is not a joke), and to stay sane...just tell him he should clean up after himself in a nice way if ur not wanting to give him more sex.

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Christie Brucks
you can't make him stop doing that.

couldn't he be doing worse things with your bath gel?*

*washing some other lady.

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‚ô£Chronickandy
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I'm no sex expert but...
Instead of condemning him, why dont you help him...sexually. Maybe he is in need of more sex. If he is constantly jacking off then he may just be a little fed up as well. Give him a little oral play every now and then, I mean after all he is your husband. I think it's better for him to have nut stains all over your sheets then on some other womans sheets. It's nothing that a little tide washing detergent cant handle.

Good luck!

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Mark D
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Ask him to respect you and be more careful or at least clean up after himself.

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Nathan V
Three things:

#1 - First and foremost: TALK TO HIM! Make sure he knows what he is doing bothers you, don't talk to him when you're angry cause you just caught him either. Talk to him when your emotions are in check and you can do so rationally - explain the specifics about what bothers you and ask him if there's some sort of compromise.

#2 - Make sure you're taking care of his needs and desires as his wife. With divorce being nearly as common these days as marriage - this is a HUGE issue as husband and wife. Make sure you communicate about your sexual needs and desires and offer to help one another in that department.

#3 - Last, but certainly not least - Don't b**ch (nag). Guys NEVER respond well to "Don't to that" or "Stop it" ... we don't like being nagged or told what to do. Instead, offer a better alternative - you don't like him using your shower gel, buy him some KY jelly or something instead, you hate him using your gel socks - maybe you should get him a masturbation toy (pocket pussy, masturbation sleeve, fleshlight, etc) instead. It's human nature to be defensive about having something taken away, so instead of taking something away offer something better. He'll still keep doing it, but at least this way he does so without ruining your stuff or making it bother you as much.


As for where he 'goes', that's just gotta stop. Personally I think that's nasty, I know I wouldn't want to roll around or sleep in my own junk... but to each his own. Maybe try leaving a stain or two of your own on his side of the bed (try something fragrant - ie spill perfume on his pillow case, or hairspray or dye, etc) and when he's bothered by it explain that it's exactly how you feel so he understands and try to agree to both not do stuff like that in the future.

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Sarah
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Have you spoken to him about this?
Look at how often you have sex.. Is this a problem for him?
Males are dirty sex freaks. It's normal for them to masterbate.

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1
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Why don't you join in? Mutual masturbation is very erotic. Think about it, you may like it....

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