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 Ok im being deadly serious now one of my good mates husband is having an affair should i tell her?

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Depressed Soul Girl
Her husband tried to sleep with me?
I went to my boyfriends sisters house and stayed the night with her she had left the next morning to go to work but I didnt know her husband was gonna be there, well He woke up and tried stuff with me, He tried pulling me onto his lap and feeling on me I didnt tell her but my boyfriend knows, I called him and told him to come get me so I stayed the night with him even tho I was suppose to stay a couple of days with his sister, I want to tell her but im scared too. Should I tell her what her husband was trying with me?



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Bryan M
yes how would you feel if your man did that and your sister didn't tell you? Do what is right and tell her right away.

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Mickey
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i defenately think you need to tell her!! at first she might be in denial and pretty upset but she will come to realize what kind of man shes really married to and thank you one day! goodluck!

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SAOIRSE
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yes this b@stard wants a good smack in the balls.

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stressed_out
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yes u should tell her for sure .
such creepy men are everywhere and they must be taught a lesson .
don't be scared. whats wrong is wrong and he must
know that he cannot get away with it in future

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younge.mum
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as your boyfriend already knows get him to tell his sister.

put yourself in that position would you like to know if it was your husband?
i would, she might have no idea that hes like that.

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phoster
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would you want her to tell you if your boyfriend tried to sleep with her? yes, you have to watch out for one another.

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Mariah H
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I just like to here stuff like dis because sleeping wit husbands is deep so just confront sisters husband and keep on ummm....

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Sunshine
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Yes, as difficult as that would be, I'd say she should know.

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damnlola
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I would! If you don't tell her, he might think you liked it ( that's how messed up some guys are ) and when the sister finds out ( sooner or later she will ) she might also think you liked it, you're a liar and not trustworthy....
Do not cover him!

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GD-Fan
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yes I would tell her even if it means her getting mad and not speaking to you...(be prepared she might take her man's side)
This way she knows what kind of snake she really married..and what would happen if later on her husband had a change of heart and confessed everything to her..she would probably get mad at you for not saying anything...my advice:
say something...that way you know you have a free and clear conscience

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Scarlett
Yes, you should if for no other reason because you care for her. Plus you already told her brother and if he hasn't told her by now I would be really surprised.
Bottom line this women needs to know she has a cheating fool for a husband.

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littleluvkitty
you should tell her but chances are she won't believe you; don't take that personally.she might not want to know the truth but its best that she does. good luck

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Sandy Sandals
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Yes, I would. If she ever were to find out from anyone else, it would make you look like YOU were the one hiding something and she needs to know her husband is a pig and a molester.

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SwtCherri
YES you should tell her what happen. She does need to know that her husband is a loser. But at least you did the right thing by leaving the house. Tell her asap in private.

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Ms S
This is very tricky; on the one hand you're in a relationship with this womans brother and from the tone of your question, its a good thing. The fact that she felt she could leave you with her husband while she went to work shows that she felt she could trust him. If you do tell her, what happens if she goes into denial and doesn't believe you? Or what if her husband turns the story round and says YOU made a move on HIM and you left because he wouldn't do it.... and she prefers that version?
How will that impact your relationship with your bf? You may be the love of his life but blood is blood and if she doesn't believe you in the end he may have to choose between you and his sister.

On the otherhand, a woman needs to know if she she is involved with a cheater; it may hurt like hell to be told but hey its better than waking up a decade from now with 2 kids and a non curable STD. Morally, the lady needs to know.

However, what does your bf say? What kind of person is his sister? Would she appreciate being told or would she go into a rage of denial that would create problems in your relationship? Ultimately he gets to decide.
If I were your bf sister, I hope someone would tell me.

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darbygirl
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You and your bf should both tell her because if he did tihs to you what is he doing to other girls and what has he done to other girls. Your bf sister should know she is married to a loser.

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becky21292
I think she needs to know what she is married to.

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piggyshopper
What a slime ball. I would tell her just because if he is trying stuff with you, then what is he trying with others? She has a right to know before she invests anymore time or emotion into this relationship.

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Reyna B
yes yes yes yes yes u should
u should not keep any thing nor a secret 4rm a family relative even your sister. u should tell her what kind of man he is a pervertic muta*...
duece...

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Caoimhe M
Yeh totally hun,thats so unacceptable.shell understand why u would be avoiding hinm aswell,dont be afraid you did nothing wrong and did nothing wrong so youve nothing 2 worry about,he's the pervert who was in the wrong and is disrespectful go girl!!!...........and dont worry ;)

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Natasha
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Yes. she would want you to tell her if it was the other way round. he obviously thinks you won't tell her..

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holly
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No.

This situation could definitely backfire on you and make everything worse. What if she doesn't believe you and then it's awkward when you're around your sister-in-law? I suggest that if anyone tells your boyfriend's sister, it's your boyfriend. She would believe him more than she would believe a stranger, especially if she loves her husband. It would be too easy for her to antagonize you and call you a slut that tried hitting on her husband. Maybe her husband even told her that YOU hit on HIM. in all cases, this situation should be avoided and you should tell your boyfriend to talk to her if you really want to inform her of her husbands actions.

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redplumbbabythumb
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ewww. Just tell her what happened. She'll be upset, but wouldn't you want to know?

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Amanda Nicole
talk to your man and have him tell her.

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DatDrMaHeLuvs
I suggest that you and your boyfriend both take her out to eat and tell her calmy. its for her best. if he did it to you, he'll do it to others and will evenutally cheat on her, if he already isnt

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mezwood
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Hell ya...or have her brother do it and have your boyfriend confront the guy if he hasn't already done this.

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simply.a.f.g.
You should definatly tell her .. rahter then letting her stay in a relationship with such a messed up man ...

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ironlipz
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yes u shud expose him.he sounds like a bloody pervert!

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DiamondXxx
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Yes,you shouldn't be afraid to tell her.It wasnt your fault and you didnt provoke this.His sister should know what type of husband she has.

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nancygoldman@sbcglobal.net
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darn right you should , he is a pervert

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Landlord
If you are a minor then yes, do not hesitate.

If you are an adult then handle him yourself and leave others out of it.

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