Help! Should I sleep with my daughter's boyfriend to prove to her that he is no good?

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Heather B	The only thing your daughter will see is that her own mother did the most disgusting thing she could have done behind her back. That is nasty that you and or your husband would even think or suggest doing that. If she chooses to see that he is a loser then she will, and if not then that is her choice to make. Maybe you should worry about your own relationship because if my husband ever thought that it was a good idea for me to sleep with my daughters boyfriend, he would be seeing me in court filing divorce papers....gross! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Twisted Fairy	Are you in sane? All your daughter is going to see out of this is that her mother will go to any lengths to try to sabotage her relationship and set her up for failure! And I can't believe your husband would suggest or allow this!!! Consider how this will affect your daughter...she'll lose her boyfriend and her mother..and father when she finds out it was his idea! She'll never respect either of you again! This is a bad idea. If he's really as bad as you say, then give it time and he'll screw things up all by himself! Have you ever considered this, some people do not have a choice in the way that they were raised or opportunities they were given or missed out on for that matter. Maybe no one ever game him a chance....and JUST MAYBE he sees that in your daughter...that he loves her because she's a good person and that with her love and the support of her family (which he probably has none from his own) that he too can be all that she is! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

baylees	Yea go ahead. That would be real good. Ruin your daughter and your marriage. This must be a joke. You can't be serious. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

tballmombabe	What are you going to do when you like his 21 year old stiff **** ? you gonna leave your husband and break his and your daughters hearts for this guy? I think this has nothing to do with your daughters welfare i think you just want some and trust me if you do this you will love it I'm 47 and love the young men 19 to 35 they can rock your world... Don't destroy your family do this with out no one knowing or not at all.. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

pooshay7676	Yall need help. Yall meaning you and your husband. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

I_Love_PBR	Interesting... I agree with familyone01. What day are you goin on Jerry Springer? You should see if he would actually do it, but then not do it. Then tell your daughter what he said he would do, to avoid the extra drama. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

bestofyou	noooooooooooooo. but your husband is something else.how can a husband ask his wife to go and sleep with anybody. that is weird and absurd. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sk8_4lyf	thats extremely unethical and rather strange avoid doing this figure out another way cause this way will only cause you and your daughter be in a heated argument and lead to nothing good Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

RetroBunny69	It will work but it will also ruin your relationship with your daughter. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

c l	Hell no girl! whats wrong with you? Do you want your daughter to resent you the rest of your life? Is a no good boyfriend of hers worth that? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

vonnypooh11	no you should not sleep with your daughters boyfriend did you ever think about that it could mess up your relationship with your daughter you two need to find another way to handle it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ashley	That is utterly disgusting... don't sleep with him... tell her how you feel that you don't like him but she needs to make her own choice... What is wrong with your husband to want you to do that? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Keith Python	Don't you get tired of posting this question over and over? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

TWO SOCKS	No. If he's no good he'll slip up with someone else and she'll find it out on her own. Why cause a riff between you and your sister that will never truly go away. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

derauqsb	That is the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard. No! Definitely do not do this. If he's really as bad as you say he is I'm sure your daughter will realize it sooner or later. You need to let her learn from her own mistakes. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

bla b	heck ya . that would be interesting Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Serendipity	Are you serious? Or is this a Yahoo! Answers prank/joke??!! If you do so, anything she'll think of him, she'll think of you in the same way. Are you sure you and your husbands are parents? Or I just imagining this? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Vindicatedfather	know wonder your daughter is misguided in life to find a loser boyfriend... Your as messed up as she is.. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Zaferus	Absolutely! Get the freak on with him and video tape the entire thing secretly. Got to love the Friday trolling! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

mims03	First of all i don't know why ANY husband would suggest this. And second...this is just sick...sounds like you need more help than your daughter's dating life. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

bg4gb	Is your husband going to be videotaping this?....just so you can prove it to your daughter if need be...or course Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Phoenixsong	Yeah, that will surely help your daughter. More like she will resent you for it. Kids have to make their own mistakes and surely she'll see the light and know he isn't good for her. My question to you is: why is the hell would your husband want you to sleep with someone else?? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

wrfine	try or really sleep with him? sounds like you want to maybe your not getting enough from the old man and your daughter is and you don't like it? so sure why not! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

me	Yeah, and after you screw her BF you should go on Jerry Springer :) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jose G	Tell your husband to sleep with him Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

terry v	You and your husband are idiots. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

*~~ i ♥ blue ~~*	you are another idiot. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

smileguy	you can sleep with me and you will prove that you are not good either Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Davion2308	This is a joke, right? You're not really doing this? Maybe your husband wants to see you with another guy, or has cuckolding fantasies, which is okay, but to actually sleep with another guy? Think of the hurt and devestation your daughter will feel when you have sex with her boyfriend. She'll never trust you again and she'll stay with him just to piss you off. I'd say it's a bad idea. Talk to your husband about his secret fantasy of you being with other guys. That's something to really think about. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Eddie J	Yes. I didn't read the whole story since it's probably just a justification from a dysfunctional mother, who produces dyfunctional offspring, and then wonders why she dates dysfunctional men. Yes, sleep with him. If you don't, how can we expect Jerry and Maury to continue their shows? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

patrick w	Madame, that is an abomination sleeping with the boyfriend of your daughter.You should not use force to get your daughter away from this boy. If you use force you may loose her.The problem is you ,your husband and your daughter and not this poor boy if I can call him as such. You didnot give your daughter the right education at the needed time.The truth is that it is your daughter who is going to meet this boy at their meeting point.Sleeping with the boy is a scandal and a shame to yourself.You may do that and put eternal hatred for you by your daughter.You are the one who hate the boy but your daughter loves him despite his background.Please madame for your good do not go to bed with this fellow boy.I don't know if your husband was drunk before giving you suck a filty suggestion or how.From where did you even take the courage to publish such a thing?If you will mind you can email me for more advice on loved_by_god1@yahoo.fr Be blessed. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No