He's not talking to me....AGAIN!?

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J23	Break up, movie on. Life is to short. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Kristine B	You need to leave him and find someone that will treat you with respect. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

metalicgirl69	Well you can't change him, i would look for a different living arrangement. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

berry	Time to leave him. Probably he's waiting for you to make the first move cos he doesn't want to be the bad guy. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

vandetta00	Break up, never see him again, or maybe just use him for casual sex. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

mia	ok, listen if he has issues now, imagine if you are married... it gets hard. communication is very important in a relationship... it is alot of work, without communication you have nothing. he needs to be a man and stop the silent treatment. and if i was you. dont stress it, the more he sees that it bothers you, the more he will do it.. sometimes they think that they have you right were they want you. try to talk to him, if he is not up to it.. just go on with your day. if he continues the silent treatment. act like you having a great time and you dont need him... trust me. been there, and done that. unfortuantly, i did not marry that person because he could not change. i married someone who does communicate and i am very happy with 3 beautiful children.. you cant change them, if nothing happens before you are married it will stay like that good luck. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

girlqueen	Men don't handle confrontation very well at all.They usually shut down if you keep asking what's wrong.They will talk about it when they are ready. If it bothers you terribly,maybe you should try telling him how it makes you feel to know that something is bothering him,but he won't talk to you about it.Assure him that you love him,and that whatever it is,you would like to atleast try to help him through it because you love him.Remember...it is easier to get them to open up,if they don't have to look you in the face while talking.Try talking while driving,or over the phone,or through letters.If none of this works...perhaps the problem is you(in his mind)and that is making it that much harder to talk to you about it.If this is the case tell him that you thought you could talk to each other about anything,and that since apparently you were wrong about that,you think it would be a good idea to end the relationship,because you want a relationship with open communication. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Zelda	Life is too stinking short. Unless he is NEVER going to talk to you again, he may as well start now. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

casj2006	sorry u have to put up with such a ********...he needs to learn to mature and tell you what's wrong otherwise the relationship will NOT go anywhere...if you cant get him to change, you should move on. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Debbie D	Been there all right! My 2nd husband was like that. I was with him for 10 years and he never changed. Unless you are ready to put up with this forever, my advise would be to LEAVE. If you do, be prepared for him to change his tune and be all sweet and wonderful while trying to get you back-DON'T FALL FOR IT! After you are back, and things settle down, everything will be right back to the way it is now. I went through that twice before I learned (and his treatment killed the love I had for him). You do not need to settle for this crap. Let him play his little pouting games with someone else. You deserve a MAN who can deal with things like an adult. Good luck to you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

domsmom701	men, cant live with them and cant kill them and get away with it. id say this is probably a pretty common problem for most women, i know my husband does not like to talk when things are bothering him and he just gets even more upset when i keep asking him what is wrong. but if this is something that is happening a lot i would say there are probably bigger problems, do you have any idea what could be wrong? maybe problems at work or with family? i would just try and let him know that you want to help and let him know that if he wants to talk you are there for him. again though if this is happening a lot something else is going on besides your communication problems, i dont know but good luck anyway. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

thomasrobinsonantonio	Wow - eight months eh. Make your mind up time or else you could be having it for the next forty years or so. Tell him that he either gets his act together or he gets himself a new flat mate.... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

shell7024	You need to sit him down and tell him all of this is bothering you. You can't have a good marriage with out communication. If he won't listen to you write him a letter and put it where he will see it. And tell him if you can't be trusted with his thoughts then its time to separate. I just did the same thing, and I know men can be big babies when they want to. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Elim	Tell him, "if you want to act childish go ahead, your not going to ruin my day only your own." Then go out and have fun. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Kristy	You deserve better, I would move on. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

bush-deathgrip	sounds like youre already married......enjoy Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

miaRules	It's time to move out and go your separate ways. This is childish are you teens? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

superboredom	if he doesn't want to talk to you, then he's not worth it, find someone else who would talk to you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

tinker143	I would suggest maybe act like it doesnt bother you...maybe he's trying to make u react...not only ignore his not talking but when he's upset with you invite people over to try to make him talk ... maybe then he'll realize he's being childish but then again if he does this all the time he may not change and be prepared for that Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Julia	Whatever the situation is before marriage...it only gets worse after marraige because the two of you get more comfortable with each other. Take this as a whole herd of red flags and FIND SOMEONE WHO MAKES YOU HAPPY!!! Don't walk, RUN away from him immediately! He doesn't respect you and respect is the most important thing in a marraige!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Fishlova	1. Get him to a psyciatrist! he might refuse at first but work on it or trick him into it! 2. if that doesn't work i would tell him your gonna leave if he doesn't staighten up! 3. if he doesn't straighten up justleave and he will most likely come back to look for you! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

desayunogratis	you are starting to have marriage problems before marriage.if no kids bail now and fast. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

red1967	Leave him and he will start talking. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

lisaslife02	i would just not talk to him for no reason and show him how it feels to be treated like that! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

1plum	seek a counslor and ask him are u what he wants Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

mistressofmath	tell him to start telling you whats wrong or the relationship can't work. make sure you talk to him when you to aren't fighting or what not or it could make it worse. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

COCO	Moodiness is a tool for controling others; something a person condition themselves in early age;if he is moody he is having control over you; and you better watch what you do; it's a sense of insecurity on his part;he finds pleasure in having that control. There is nothing more beautiful about a man of even temper. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

shy&gental	Try couples counciling to get him to open up. Thats if he is willing which I highly doubt.......... next move is to leave him and move on. He isn't going to change because you ask him to, and a person can't make you happy just like you can't make them happy. You have to make yourself happy and they have to do the same for themself. Move on, clearly your not right for eachother if he isn't willing to do something to help open comunnication in his relationship with you. Sorry, just being blunt and giving the facts. Blessed be. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Michelle O	I would find another place to live. Living with him in that environment is not healthy for you. You deserve better. Find a new place and a new man....start over. Good luck =) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jakob the Liar eats Gumbo Shrimp	He's obviously passive-agressive, the most frustrating relationship style of dealing with conflict that some people have. Ya, it sucks. YOu need to bash him over the head with your words and say that he has to communicate with you or else. You won't put up with that nonsense. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

NutstersChick	Ummm! I bet UR Fed-up! Men R notoriously difficult 2 get talking if they've clammed up. From a lil life experience I'd advise U 2 wait. He'll let U know when he's good a ready & it may take a while, B prepared 4 a long haul. Men do seem 2 B from a different planet when it comes 2 communicating. What's his malfunction with nothing 2 go on I bet U feel like guessing, huh? Well take it from me, don't bother. Just keep on UR merry way, B polite/cheerful & wait 4 the Volcano 2 blow it's top. Hopefully he'll feel better & U can both move on. Well I hope U find out soon. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No