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Filiz
Found more conversations between husband & mistress where he calls her names?
So I found loads yesterday where he told her last month that he wanted to carry on the affair all along, once I had 'calmed down' and that he blamed her for telling me the truth (when I found out about the affair) cos HE wanted to carry on even though I'd found out!!

Now I found some texts where they were having a fight...he called her a "*****" in one of them. In other fights, mostly after the mistress spoke to me and confirmed the affair to me, he went mad at her, calling her really nasty names (this is just after I found out early this year)

Is this cos he was just in shock cos he got busted with her, and maybe he didn't mean those nasty names? Stuff like 'you are scum and lowlife'?

Bear in mind he tried to get back with her after these names, but would it mean that he doesn't care about her that much if he called her names, even though he called her names cos she confirmed the affair to me?



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DILLON
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She is just his flop toy. He never cared about her.

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BIATCHHH!!
get a BLOODY LIFE U SAD PATHETIC LOSER U ARE SO ANNOYING WITH UR CONTINOUS OBSESSION AND I CAN'T STAND U!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

U MENTAL NUTCASE!!! GO AWAY!!

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smallcocklongtongue4444
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if she ratted him out like that then she deserves to be called all those names

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xenonvalkyrie
Stop hurting yourself. Do you have any children? If so, they are suffering as well. Do yourself a favour. If your "husband" wants this slapper so much, give him a divorce and kick him out of the house! Let her deal with him., his moods, his dirty laundry..... all the crap you put up with! You should be able to get a divorce because he has committed (and still is committing) adultery!!!

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PB
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Uh, he doesnt "care" about either of you. Wake up. He is a sleezebag who thinks he can manipulate two women at once - apparently it's working???? Are you morons???? Both of you need to have nothing more to do with this horrible human being. What a piece of s***. I cannot BELIEVE you give a rats a** what he thinks about her. Snap out of it and get a spine.

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mochabiznswmn
LEAVE IT ALONE..TOOO MUCH TIME PUT INTO IT!!! He is going to keep it going for whatever reason been there, done that , divorced that and when i left him STRANGELY he left her..WOW...if he can't choose you make the choice for him that situation is going to be a long ride and you deserve someone that is better, can honor his vows and knows what he wants..that is too much drama and as a wife you should not be justifying your husbands actions for his wrong, don't get caught up in the drama bc if he gets off this time there will be more women..LEAVE FOR A WHILE AND FOCUS ON YOU BEFORE YOU LOSE YOURSELF and then make the decision if this is worth keeping with a clear mind and get you some help

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Marcus
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Do you enjoy living in this soap opera? I cannot see any other reason why you would still be around to obtain this information and then report it to the people on Yahoo.

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its likely i will say douche bag
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I wouldn't worry about how or if he cares for her, Its more like how and if he cares for you.

That is the question that needs to be answered

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unsung hero
He's calling her the scum bag and low life?? Uhh isn't that a little two faced??

Why on earth would you stay with a piece of garbage like him? He doesn't give a dam you know, he's just gonna do it again. If it isn't with her it'll be with someone else.

Lose him and get some self respect!

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♥♥ LINDA ♥♥
Why are you still with this person? I would have been long gone!

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MM
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Does it matter? He's the lowlife scum who cheated and flipped out when he got caught. And since he doesn't seem to care that much about your feelings or hers, why do you care about his?

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thatartistwin
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Calling her names does not indicate he didn't care about her. It simply meant he was angry that she messed up the thing he had going on. The fact that he wanted to continue it even after you found out shows how uncommitteed to your marriage he really is. PLEASE find a way to leave before you have to live like this until he finally finds someone else or goes back to her and leaves you permanently and you end up wishing you did it first.

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wallaweee
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the name calling was just because he is immature and he didn't want her to tell you. Obviously, he is still going to do this to you if not with her someone else.

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HomeFries
Man, the question marks almost make it look like a question.

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Mindy82
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I'm really confused about what your question is. You know it sounds to me like this guy you are talking about is a real winner (this is said sarcastically). Have some self respect and get him out of your life. He doesn't respect you, nor does he respect his hoochie. I don't understand why either one of you would want him. Who cares is he respects the other woman or not, get rid of him and think about your own well being. Obviously he doesn't care enough about either of you because anyone that would use those names is really stupid. This is why you think before you speak.

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sweetie
Stop making up excuses 4 him. He's cheated on you, and even worse he couldn't keep himself from getting caught. Plus he leaves evidence of their communication for you to see. If you want an honest opinion, he is actually treating you as bad as the words he's used on her. Maybe they are actually meant for you coz to try and justify anything he's done sort of says that you don't believe you ARE WORTH MUCH MORE!
I don't think he loves or respects you at all. Time is very precious. Don't waste anymore of it on a guy who's not worth any of it.

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sexychocolate
He got mad at her cuz he still wanted to continue and because she told you thats why hes cursing her out....you need to file for divorce you deserve way better than this because trust me if she would never have told you ur he and his mistress will still be having sex and since him and her are prolly over wuts going to stop him from messing aroundwith another girl

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sashtou
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For some of us, 'name calling' is a sort of 'cement' for the relationship, the letting go of normal boundaries of arguments and fights is like uncorking the neck of the bottle and letting everything spill out.

If you have ever watched the film, 'Cat On a Hot Tin Roof', you'll see that the intensity of emotion expressed does not damage the relationship, but does the opposite ~ for a time. It all depends on whether there is any healing to be done.

Without further details on the relationship / conversations between you / and what was said (moods etc), I can't offer up an 'What happens next', or what it even actually means (to date)!

I'm sorry, but it could mean The End, or the Beginning of The Next Chapter.

Sash.

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۞
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and he is still your husband?

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star69
What it means to me is that he has no respect for either of you. She told you about the affair because she thought it would mean the end of your marriage. She couldnt tell him to go to hell either when he wouldnt do right by her. She is obviously the born victim type for him to be able to behave that way towards her. Just like you.
Do you hope that, despite the fact that he intends to carry this affair on, if he doesnt really care deeply about her that there is somehow a way you can stay together?
You are eating yourself up and desperately hoping that this isnt really happening, trying to find a way you can convince yourself you can stay with him and it will be ok after all.
Please wake up. However scary it seems to have to end the marriage and move on, it is massively unhealthy for you to be doing this to yourself. There is no future in your marraige, only a long and painful death of your love and your personality under all the pain and fear and suspicion.
The fact that although he doesnt care about her he was perfectly willing to throw away your marriage for sex with her should mean more to you than the tiny possibility you will get him back when he realises how much he loves you after all. Please! That is just not going to happen.
You KNOW you have to leave him. You just dont want it to be true. But it IS true. Deal with it.

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Al B
You need to use the proof of the affair that you found as grounds for divorce!! The fact that you haven't already means that you should bet some counseling and possibly something to raise your self-esteem to the point where you see that you are too good for someone like that and need to move on to find someone to love who will love you in return without needing someone else. He is out here for you but you need to lose this loser first and then have time to yourself so that you don't rebound into someone as bad or worse.

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mel
i think u have to many questions regaurding this situation
time to go get a life
and stop living in theres

and i say theres

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LeeH
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Wow.
I'm sure he was pissed at her. But he also probably doesn't have that much respect for her since she is only the mistress and he obviously hasn't left you (yet).
So it's time you left him. (he wants to carry on the affair?). Get far far away from this scumbag.

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Queen of Beer
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Ok, seriously, you need to stop asking this question. You are with someone who is openly cheating on you and you are wondering what you should do? Come on now...obviously you can use a computer, you have to have some smarts...now is the time to use them!

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Lizzie Rachel
What are you doing staying married to this man? Whether he cares about her or not, he HAS a mistress and has been unfaithful. Unless you enjoy feeling unworthy then get out of the marriage and find someone who will only love you. Or just somewhere where you don't have to think about him ever again.

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Aimes
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How many times can you ask the same question?

Here's what you do: stay with him and put up with him banging other people for the rest of your life.

But know NO ONE wants to hear you whine if you do this. Nor do you have the right to whine or complain because you are in control of your situation. You could change it at any time.

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Clementine
and why are you still around? Seems like you are enjoying being part of this, and it entertains you? Get out of this maddness!

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TRIXIE
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who is the idiot here?

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jude
if he wanted to continue the affair even though u found out, it means he still wants to be with her in spite of the fact she told u. i wouldn't stay with this man 5 minutes, because he is still seeing her, or wants to. u won't be able to ever put it back together like it was. why stay where all you are going to get is heartache?

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