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Does your husband get angry when you won't have sex with him?
I think my husband might really be a sex addict. He has an unquenchable thirst for sex. I could give it to him twice a day every day and it wouldn't be enough, but because he gets angry when I turn him away I am turned off and it's one big vicious cycle. He gets all huffy when he finally backs off and gives up.



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ily, nathaniel♥
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why don't you try havin sex really late at night then you 2 sleep but the penis must still be attached to the vagina and if he likes that make that the third sex of the day. If he thinks it's not enough, try to hump him of try to have oral sex and get sexy. if he want's to participate, put ur vagina in his mouth and ask him 2 lick it provided u don't have ur period then and you lick hise penis and try to move and maybe videotape every sex scene u think will have gr8 meaning so if ur husband fells like having sex he can just watch it or u 2 can watch pornography 2 get sexy and highly addictive ways of having sex. you could also sit on the bed with your legs apart and your pants and undies are off and ask ur husband to lick it ( take leaf on a school day[if u have kids] when kids r @ skool) and videotape it it may make unhappy husband happy. (. ). ) If he still feel's that isn't enough, ask him to buy sex toys or tell him to read playboy or something while using the sex toy or watch the video of u 2 while using the sex toy. trust me it'll work

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veronica_pilcher
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I'm sorry but whats the problem?

Who wouldn't be mad if they get turned down. Maybe you could check out Adam and Eve and get him some toys to keep him busy for a while. I think this is the first time I've heard of too much sex!!

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cutiepants444
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maybe u should c a marriage counselor his acts could lead 2 violence. but it depends on how well u know your husband but he is a sex addict.

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you know me..
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well didnt you know this when you 2 gut married.. try to get some counseling SEX is a good way of keeping your relationship spiced up but not if you are not enjoying it... get help... doing things against your will will only tear up your integrity...

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werebffe
im not married but i know personaly he shouldnt if so your in trouble a bad relashionship! sorry but you rushed your marrige or he did just being desprate counsaling could help or a divorce but i dont like eather of thoes i make sure everything is right. sorry if i affended you in any way it's just my opinyon i mean hey your on the web asking about your marrig life something wrong.talk to him ok.

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drickdj9
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Hmmm..might as well don't turn him down, it is better you than he goes to other women..maybe it will eventually fade...but if he hurts you then that is another problem.

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luv41anatha
tell him he has to give it a rest. he wouldnt want it to get all red and puffy then it will hurt both of you and no one will have any fun. tell him you need a little break to give things a chance to cool off. its like running your car with no oil eventually the engine locks up and the car is no good. gotta keep the engine well oiled and tuned up, hope this helps...

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Cpt Sparrow
NO because i have never had a husband but i would not deal with someone that is so unreasonable. He could use a little attitude ajustment big time

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cutiepie
Your guy sounds like he has a major problem. My husband does not get angry when I dont want to have sex, and I dont get angry with him when he is not in the mood. Your guy needs to be more understanding and respectful of your decisions.

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berkleyricky2000
Thats all men!

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fifo
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http://www.slaafws.org/

You are probably in more trouble than you think.

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Thear
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yes they all do at one point. they will get over it don't worry.

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hopelessromantic
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sometimes he does but there are also times when i want it and he's just to tired to do it

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oxypbear98
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Wow, he does have problems. Are you guys newlyweds? Maybe he just digs you a lot. If he just likes sex in general, it could develop into a problem.

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SAM
no but he could just try being a little more understanding to the fact that you want to but just not when he wants it?

choose a program and stick with it like picking two days out of a week or three if you choose but make it possible for time to r and r?

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confused06
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they swear its the end of the world if they get turned down every once in a while

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Tom H
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As a husband I get pissed if I get denied a more than 2 or 3 days in a row for no apparent reason. Sometimes trying to get some is more hassle than it's worth.

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Paratepaquelleve
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Talk to him.Tell him how you feel.
Ask him to do stuff that will make you feel turned on and relaxed instead of getting mad at u.

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queery
my wife also used to turn me down, but now i am fine with less sex....the person is more important then sex....right

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JustWant2B
mine used to get angry too they don't see that if they would just be loving and understand you can't always be ready when they are then next time you would want to. your right when they get angry it turns you off and then they get even angrier. I agree with boooobi sounds immature and like my husband when I first started talking about leaving all he would say is I wasn't being a wife I quit sleeping with him after years of neglect I was tired of feeling used anyway like thats all a wife is and was HE ever going to get sex again?

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eliasulmonte
Well, you may want to try say... having sex with him... more. He's probably frustrated with being rejected, and that makes him want it. But, it sounds like that you are not having sex with him twice a day or even once... and guys, when they're young need lots of sex. It will go away after a while. Just enjoy it and in the mean time, explain to him why you can't have sex with all the time. Schedule an appointment for later. If he has that, it will help. And twice a day... when you first get married... (I don't know how long you've been married) is not even close to what you call sexual addiction. And another thing.. be glad.... be really glad that he wants to have sex with you twice a day... Read this site more, and you'll see that a lot of women have the OPPOSITE problem.

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Jake59
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Sounds more like a control issue. He needs angry management classes.

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LatinaYankeeFan1113
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yes mine does, sometimes he can be a pain in the A$$!!!

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dynabody
Not really because we both really like sex. But if he did get angry because I didn't want sex, I would not give him any and let him just blow up from anger and let him releave himself. good luck

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boooobi
yo may have married a really imature guy that only values you for sex and is only the nicest to you before and during sex in that case you may seriously consider a divorce before there are kids involved or even if there already are because he'll end up hurting you later if all his respect originates from sex about you you better never get fat or boring to hiom he'll for sure have an affair he sounds really imature like a kid my first husband was like that he cheated on me and when i refused him sex after i found out about the affair he started raping me my second husband is like night and day my 2nd husband so much more mature ask yourself one question do you feel like your valued as a wife or do you feel more like a whore trust your instinct if you feel like a whore leave it only gets worst don't be flattered that will just make it easier for him to manipulate you into doing whatever he wants.

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Lea
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Maybe he is just addicted to you.Or maybe you are not satisfying him the first time.Give him one or two great nights not 5or6 OK nights.

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askmike
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well...... i dont get angry. but when i am turned down for sex it makes me feel like im not sexually attractive to my wife.

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emanon
He sounds like me.. lol When we first got married we want sex all the time, And got it.. After a few years.. We still want it.. But you don't.. So we got it less.. More years later.. You want it.. We can't.. so. Viagra (I'm not at that stage yet.. whew LOL) Us guys just like sex more. It's our built in need to pass on our jeans/genes into the next generation.. ALL male animals feel this way.. Plus it feels so damn good! lol ;-)

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fhornsr
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There are differences in sex drive from person to person. It sounds as if you and your husband are unevenly matched in this area. You might suggest to him that there are ways you can help him get "relief" other than intercourse. Simply saying "no" is, IMHO, damaging to your relationship. If you don't want him resorting to other women, you should say "no" as seldom as possible, and at least have enough concern to be creative when "yes" is too much to expect.

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jbpammy004
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Yes, of course he does. But he gets over it.

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BOBISNOTMYUNCLE
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Speaking from a husband's perspective, I've actually gotten used to the frequency of once or twice a month. I was upset at first when it dropped off to that but then I remembered I didn't marry her for sex.

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