Does married people do everything together?

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Baby Jayden Due July 11th*	It's spelled sense.... anyways, no for me it wouldn't make sense, it's kinda disrespectful. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

James	More importantly, Duz ne1 no how 2 spell rite n e more? Even though your question is not in english, i will answer it anyway. No, married people don't need, and do not have to do everything together. They should have their own lives....who wants to be with someone 24 hours a day? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

lmb	i have been to party's and not come home until that time. i was just having fun and not even thinking about messing around. but hard to say. what do you think? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Suzy	Sounds to me like the husband is cheating. Sorry, but they apparently have a gene problem which makes them need more than one woman. No - married people do not have to do everything together... They generally have their own hobbies and some separate friends which they deal with by discussing and compromising. Stag nights are clearly Men only - but birthday parties usually include spouses. If you are the wife you need to talk to your husband - and no matter what he says get down to a sexual health clinic for a check up.. If you are keeping the husband make him go too.. Good Luck. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Look Away, I'm Hideous	no it doesn't make "sense". Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Optimus	We sometimes need some free time... You ladies take everything from us. The only thing we deserve is having some fun with friends... at 4 or 5 in the morning... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

yelles	Well if my husband was at a office party and he said he would be late i would not mind that. But a random party that he attends and just does not come home and without letting me know -yip i would be pretty mad. But we do try do things together. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

el gran lulu	if this occurs often, then there is a problem. if this was a one time incident, be glad he made it home safely. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

JM	it really depends on the couple. my husband and i do everything together but it's not lack of trust, we just really enjoy being together all the time. we're best friends. did your hubby let you know he would be home late? if he didn't, that's not cool! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ALEX	no they don't, actually sometimes they do but not often Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

phillips811	well it all depends on what you want in your relationship. but think about it.. you're married.. it's a different type of relationship....... what will you tolerate...... if you don't like his actions you need to let him know.... why didn't you know how he was and what you tolerated before you got married???? why didnt he know what you tolerated before he asked you to marry him. ULTIMATELY.......... WHERE IS THE RESPECT? and your grammar and usage of words is a little off Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jason S	If he told you he was going there and going to be home very late then it's fine. If he is often out late for no reason, then there are problems. Married people don't have to everything together, but they should communicate clearly what they will be doing and when. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

silky1	marriage is a complicated relationship of trust no you don't have to do everything together and sometimes you even need a break from each other to keep things fresh.just let this party thing ride you might end up doing the same thing one day with no harm meant. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

drtoucan	Whether or not a couple trusts each other, there shouldn't be a lot of not seeing each other, while another is somewhere else (eg a party) without the other. Even if he didn't do anything "bad", it ca still lead to mistrust and eventually separation. When it comes to late night parties and things like that, you guys should either go together or not go at all. That will promote a healthier relationship. :) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Sakoend	NO, no one could spend 24/7 with each other with out want to harm the other. if someone parties a lot and the other doesn't or can't go , they should communicate, and keep in contact. letting each other know what when where, so the other doesn't have to worry an can contact them if something happens Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

yoyo	no, they generally do not go to toilet together Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Miss D	If you knew he was going to a party (an adult party) I would not expect him in early even if he did call. No big deal. Just as long as its not EVERY weekend! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Marra's mommy	My husband and I don't do everything together. It's not necessary for me to go everywhere he goes, and vice versa. I honestly don't want to hang around with him and his buddies while they jam and drink beers. And I'm sure he doesn't want to be with me and my girlfriends when we go out to dinner and talk about our relationships. I would certainly hope that my husband would have more consideration than to come home at 3 or 4 in the morning from a party. He knows I don't sleep well when he's out late, so he really tries to be home fairly early when he goes out (around 11pm unless there's a reason). Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Girliegirl	No not everything. Sometimes one is more social than the other. Sometimes one is a spender and the other is a saver. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Shamgaur	Depends on what kind of guy he is. Is he man of integrity or a self-centered sleazeball. If he is something in between, like most men, I would become suspicious if he makes a habit out of it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Marian's mommy	Once in a while him going to a birthday party alone and not getting home until late is ok, but I think he should atleast let you know he's going to be late, or call you when he leaves later. Does this happen all of the time? Or does he normally stay out late without you? My husband and I spend alot of our time together. We do most of our shopping together, go to get togethers together. But there are times he goes somewhere without me. Usually something like golfing when I don't feel like it or over at a friend's house working on a car or something but just mostly hanging out. Do you ever go places without him? If so, shouldn't he be able to do the same? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Z A	Married people still have their own interests and friends that they enjoyed before they got married. They don't do absolutely everything together because that would be suffocating. What you are talking about is trust. You don't believe your husband had a fun time at a birthday party without doing something a married man shouldn't do. You need to tell him how you are feeling. If he reacts with concern for you, he didn't cheat or something else equally stupid. If he gets angry, he did. Open, honest communication along with genuine respect, concern for the others well being is the key. Without it you don't have a real marriage. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Heidi B	I think it depends on the phase of your relationship. In the beginning (pre-children), you do everything together. As time and life changes, you make compromises and trade-offs for your children, extended family and each other. Some of this involves doing things together and sometimes this involves supporting the other person doing their own thing with friends, career or family. Marriage is the ultimate support system when both people feel like their social and emotional needs are respected. As you get older and kids grow, you look forward to spending more time together, with friends, with family, and on special interests or life goals. Some of these are shared interests and some of personal goals....good spouses know the difference. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jeeters walinds	i cant answer that qustion becouse how do i know when then birthday party started i would not think much of it based on how long he was out then if i felt he was gone to long i would call and ask whats going 90% of people have cell phones but i would trust him to what he told me until i had reason to belive otherwise Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jolene_gisby	it wouldn't bother me, you should have time apart, keeps you sane and makes you appreciate time apart.. if he/she was working you wouldn't mind, so what difference does it make if there out with their friends.... it all lies down to trust!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

snarf	Depends...I have been married 15 years and yes there has been a couple time when one of us was out that late...no big thing...just a late night. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

fred[because i can]	As long as you agree beforehand on it. We're talking trust and communication here. If it still bugs you, then you need to let him know and he needs to be considerate of your feelings. Why? Because you're in a committed relationship to each other first! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

katressa_04	yes if you have trust then there is nothing to worry about--- but if there is no trust then the relationship would not work but i will still ask question since it is disresepectful to come in that late--- i do not and would not want to do everything with my husband because i want space sometimes and im sure he want the same** Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Frozen	Married people don't have to do everything together but they should be able to trust eachother and give eachother a reason to be trusted. Maybe he didn't do anything. Was it an adult party? Maybe they started getting drunk or went cruising or something. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

=0	You don't have to do everything together, if you have a reason not to trust him then I wouldn't like it if he were out that late, otherwise big deal. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Miss L	I mean if you trust him and he let you know it was going to be a late event, than I wouldn't lose sleep over it. If you have reason to not trust him or it bothers you because than you have to get up with the kids and he didn't take you into consideration, than yea, it might peeve me a bit. Other than that...definately not! No matter who it is-bestfriend, sister, parent, husband- if you are with somebody for a long time and see them everyday, you are more than likely to eventually get on each other's nerves. I think it's important to have your own "things" or hobbies, friends, interests. It doesn't allow a relationship to get old, gives your space, and reminds you just because you are married - you are still an individual. In other words, it's healthy! Oh, and I have to agree with Angela (#1): If you expect him to respect you in certain ways, you better expect it in return. In this case, that would mean less freedom for yourself. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No