Do you think i should wait till i get out of school to get married or now so it would be right with god?

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ladystarrchild107	Always put God first above everything!!! When you get to heaven, you don't want God asking if He should finish school before he lets you in. It's really good that you're a God fearing person though, the world needs more people such as yourself. I really think you should stop sinning and wait till you get out of school till you get married so you can be out of school, have more time and less stress and still be right with God!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Lorraine_us	Wait Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

panda	how would that make it right with GOD.... you better wait until you are done with school.... if its high school you are talking about wait for sure.... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

polarbaby	if it is meant to be then you can wait until you get out of school....i am not sure what you mean for it to "be right with God" though....we need more details to be able to help you better Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

carynluvzsportz247	out of school so you can concentrate on your work Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Why Not!	i'm pretty sure god doesn't care..... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

unitedwstand7	get a career before you get marry Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

rich2481	wait,, god will wait, Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Stacy M	Wait.. For sure. Make sure your career comes first for now... Before marriage and children. ♥ Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

epicphoenixgirl	I think if you know in your heart that it is the right thing to do, you should do it. You have to follow your understanding of your faith, not society and what other people think. Other people's judgements come and go but being a good and true person is of eternal importance. The larger part of american society is so devoid of any true spirituality you cant look to that for any guidance. You need to do what you know in your heart is the proper thing to do. It doesnt have to be a big expensive wedding or anything. My hubby and I had a potluck actually and it was great! There was tons of food, and everyone had something they liked and it was much cheaper than catered. If you really dont want to get married until after school you must be disciplined and abstain from initimacy. Be engaged and wait to enjoy all the great things about marraige until you are ready to be married. Good luck! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

qotc21	My parents were married when my mom was 18 and my dad 20. They've been happy, for 19 years but we can all see that they're struggling. They missed out on a lot of youth because they had their first child a year after the marriage and second, three years later. My mom wishes she could have went on to college and traveled and did all the things most young adults do. But love is love.... follow your heart Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Elisabeth R	Finish school (high school or college, whichever you're in), travel... see the world, learn who you are and what you really want before you jump into marriage. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jessica	High school or college? I got married in college and have a 1 year old now. I'm 21...and I see nothing wrong with that. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

mamatoshreksboys	If you are concerned with being right with God , then you likely already know the answer. So my advice would be to obey what you know to be true. To do otherwise only brings trouble into your life. If your boyfriend is pressuring you to have sex, then he's not the one. The good news is that if you choose to break up with him or make him wait, you will either meet "the one" when you are ready, or your current boyfriend will become "the one" as he grows up and understands what a real relationship is. It is so worth the wait, to be in a commited marriage and to know that you are their only one and they are your only one, it's precious. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

tinkerbell	wait till you get out of school. god will understand! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

beardog4314	God's not as uptight as people at church are. Do what's smart, God helps those who help themselves. Finish school first, so that you can provide for your new family. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

triviatm	Get out of school first. And keep it in your pants until then if you want to stay right with god. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

dukalink6000	I think you need to wait until you get out of school Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jessie_goines	You do not need to get married to be right with god. There is no need to do what society expects for society gets divorced 75% of the time. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jack	Don't let our answers influence your decision-making. You already know what's right and what's wrong and you already know what your parents want, and that's what's best for you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

shannon	i dont think you should get married until mid 30's even then wait as long as possible Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Shelly	Wait until you are finished with school. This will give you time to focus on your work and your future. Don't stress with wedding planning, etc. Right with God? He is alright with love. If you plan on getting married, then don't worry about it. Love is in your heart, not in a ritual of a piece of paper. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

angeli2cutie	I am glad that you have some moral values compared to everyone else...If the man loves you he will wait until you get out of school and wait until you are married..If you feel the temptation is getting to you, i would get married and be right with god and finish school too... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

erin c	first of all the question is are u mature enough i personally wa smarried at the age of17 im now 22, and now im a widow also at 22, follow your heart and make wise decision , being married isnt suppose to mess up your life but too achieve all goals and dreams with someone u TRULY care about and love you can still pursue your dreams and goals, my advice talk to your mate and understand his goals and dreams, and marry for the right reasons and how old are you all????? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

dandyl	god has nothing to do when you should get married you should get ready only when you feel u r ready. you should first finish school because it is important to get an education and have a career and not be financialy dependent on others. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

flashpro	God got you into this mess....with your help of course....finish school or you'll never be able to. It's going to be right with God anyway. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

gin	It is all up to you, what you want. I was still in high school when I married, just 1 month after I turned 18. If you want to, go for it. If you want to wait, wait. But why add god into it? Do you want to live with the man, or have sexual relations with him before marriage? If so, marry up, if it isn't you can always wait. Don't rush in because of sex, do it only if it is what you and your man want to do. I was happy that I married when I did, I wouldn't do it any other way, but it is not for everyone. I really havent "lived" much, but I don't regret it at all. I love that I did what I did, and had a child that will be two next month. I was even able to buy my first house when I was 19. I will be 21 in three months. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

lpxerounderground	depends on what school. high school wel lthere is a tought one... i havnt known any body who got married in high school that have stayed with the one they married. college is a bit different. and only if you knwo it si right with god. a marraige is not between 2 people. its not you and your husband, it shoudl be 3 people, you your husband and god, and if that is not that case then you knwo you shouldnt do it Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ladyren	Honey, god doesn't care what you do. You get about 80 years on this planet, and no second chances in years that you waste. If the man is lovely, and you can financially swing marriage, then marry. If you are young, and your personality not yet fully formed, you loose nothing by concentrating on your education. You two can remain a fiercely loyal couple, and not marry. Marriage is a piece of paper -- nothing more, and god couldn't care less, sweetie.... For sure, plan no children until you each have your education taken care of. And major in subjects that can earn you both a good living. You get one shot at lif -- don't make too many mistakes, and the biggest one is to have a child when you are not financially prepared to care for one. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

TIMOTHY D L	What sort of question is that? Be right with GOD? Married is a life sentence, just asking that question makes you too young to get married Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

wanninonni	Please listen to this voice of experience. I didn't start college until after I was married and had a toddler. It was very hard to balance, house, husband, job, child. My daughter now is trying to complete her masters degrees with house, husband, and two children, one preschool and one toddler. She cries every day. There is not enough money to provide for the children and between two cars that break down almost daily in addition to daily life, she is ready for the looney bin. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No