Do you think going to dinner with another man when you are married is bad?

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Vina	If it is business related it is fine, although you definitely want to let your husband know before hand and make sure he understands it is for business. If he's not comfortable with the idea, invite him along (if you can) or reschedule the business appointment to something your husband is more comfortable with. If it is with a friend, then I suggest going with your husband as a couple or doing something less formal, like coffee or lunch together. Again, make sure your husband knows in advance and is comfortable with the idea. If he finds out later, it is more likely that it will look like you are hiding something and he would have reason to be suspicious. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jon_lettuce_2005	Look, heres the bottom line to this. Ofcourse it is wrong well at least it seems wrong, especially because it can make your husband jealous. If you ask yor husband and he says fine, it still wont mean that he is okay with it because deep inside he isnt especially if he loves u. No matter what a man is always gonna be jealous so i recommend you try not to go with this ther man unless its buissiness Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

EILEEN M	as Friends yes but make sure its dinner only and both party's know its going no further Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Violet Pearl	yes way bad. That's called a DATE and married women don't DATE other men. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

MARK K	YES,UNLESS IT'S BUSINESS Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

I got answers!	yes Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Yvonne P	Hate to rain on your parade, but it is probably a bad idea if you are asking this question. Many adults have close friendships with members of the opposite sex, however, the only thing that matters is how you and your spouse feel about that situation. If you are asking this question, chances are that you believe it is a bad idea, either because your husband would not approve, or because you have hidden motives, and the dinner is not just a dinner! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Tom A	i have dinner with other men and I'm married, my wife is not jealous of my brothers Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jakelyn M	if ur just going to dinner for some business reason no of course its not bad and i really don't think its bad either if its a friendship from a long time ago. and of course it also depends on the husband if he trusts his wife there shouldn't be any problems. but if the husband is the jealous type then it would be best that u don't go on the date to prevent any arguments and damaging ur marriage. hope my words helped you, and good luck. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

waseuphem	Um...I don't think it is bad, no. As long as it is primarily business/friend related. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Annick J	Only if one of you is trying to get with the other. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Soon to be Mrs! 9-26-09	If you can tell your husband about it, (basically meaning that your not hiding anything), then sure. There is nothing wrong with that. If this is another romance you should consider looking into help for your marriage not going out to dinner with another man. If you have already tried help, leave the marriage and pursue whatever you want. Besides, if you had to ask doesn't that already answer your question? Remember, you take an oath into marriage its to one another, not to one another and another on the side. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

fantabu1ous	If he's a family friend there's no problem, if he's a long time friend than again no problem, but if he's a new friend of yours than no, regardless of the situation it will be perceived as wrong and it will cause tension. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

L0LA	no,no, absolutely not!! My mom does it all the time with my friend's dads. And my dad is there most the time with me. They laugh a lot. It's like a big happy familiy. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

AvalonA	If you're friends - sure! There's no reason you can't go out to diner with another friend, who happens to be a man. But make sure your husband is CLEAR on who and what you're doing, and that you remember that you're not dating. You're friends. If it becomes anything else, it breaks into the not okay area. Have fun! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

LifesBeenGood2MeSoFar	Why don't you invite your husband to join you.... ? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

prettygirl_19782004	not as long as you can tell your husband if you cant then there is something wrong with it I have alot of guy friends and my hubby dont mind Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

azrielle	If it was business related then I think it's ok but if it's just as "friends" then it would look a little bad. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

PrettyJersie	Yes...men tend to be insecure and very jealous. Don't do it...for the sake of your marriage. For business reasons...I'll let you slide on that one. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Everlasting Gobstopper	Umm duh... of course it is Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄ƷJamieƸ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ	yeah I do, what would be the reason for that Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ryan D	as long as your neck and head stay ABOVE the table cloth, i think it's ok. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Lakerfan1	of course it is Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

DiamondXxx	Depends on what your relationship is with this man or if your husband has forbidden you from seeing this person. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

rkrell	Wouldn't that depend upon who the man was, why your going to dinner with him, and if your husband knows and is ok with it or not? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Arieh	As long as nobody's hands go under the table and nobody plays footsie or hide the salami. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sassy	depends on what its for. business ok. not business nope! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

GCBP	It depends on the intentions of the parties involved. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

emily	yes it is. very bad. but what is the relationship between you and this other man. more detail, honey bun. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Buttercup	As long as it's business related, and nothing personal or emotional....then it's totally fine. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Penumbra	It does not sound as if you are asking because the intentions are innocent. It is a question one asks when they are considering something else entirely. Infidelity is one of the most destructive acts that can occur. The marriage (bed) is sacred. It also is the ONLY justification for divorce in the eyes of God. Remember, Christ says if you have lusted after another woman/man in your heart, then you are right there. Please dear, give some very careful thought to what you are planning to do here. Are you ready to tear up your marriage? Your home? Your family? These are often the effects of such an act. You must have loved your husband for you married him. Sometimes in the chaos of daily life we forget this. I was married for 28 years before my husband passed away, and we fell in and out of love a dozen times. Sometimes I would look at him and wonder , what in hell am I doing married to this man? Then , a short while later I would look at him again and my heart would melt. Same with him...we would laugh together about the "I dont love you " times. Now I have lost my dearest friend and I am growing old alone. This is not how it was supposed to be. This is what makes a lasting marriage. Sticking it out thru the rough times, being best friends, talking. Then there is common decency, a proper order of things. If you do not, cannot find any love in your heart for the man you promised to stay with til death do you part, at least end the one thing before starting another. He deserves at least this, yes? God's peace Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No