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icewitch54	Maybe............but not if you already think/know that you won't ever marry that person. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

krzy_me	definitely Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Tired and Cranky	I am glad I lived with my husband before we got married, It gave us a chance top really get to know eachother. Despite what the statistics say I think it's a good move. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

DooWopKid	I think that if you first live together, your chances of getting married have just decreased some. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

~Baby D~	I do. I know it is not the right way to do things, but in today's day and time I think it is best. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Randi P	Personally for me I do believe that. I moved over 300 miles away from my family to be with my husband ( then he was just my b/f) and I am glad I did. You never truely know someone until you live together. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Mags B	Hi, yes it is. People can get on great until they move in together, better to find out now than wait until you're married and end up in divorce court! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

KeLLe	yes very much so. i been living with boyfriend for three years and were not getting married cos we know what its like to live with eachother!dont mean we dont love eachother and want to be with eachother!!, and marriage, a lifelong commitment seems too much. so yes its always wise to test it out before jumping straight in. dont do something you may regret that you easily could have tried out first!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

luvsgood	It doesn't work. I know. When you live together, everything can seem like a fairytale. Then you get married and it seems like the person you fell in love with disappeared. At least that's how it happened with me. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

The Corinthian	No. In marriage, infidelity often dooms a relationship and leads to the spiritual destruction of the one who has been unfaithful. Unchastity before marriage naturally undermines the confidence of a potential partner, raising unsettling emotional and physical concerns—such as the possibility of dangerous diseases—along with the basic question of trustworthiness. Marital fidelity begins not with the making of the vows on the day of the wedding, but in our hearts long before we reach the altar. One friend recalled that she and her husband-to-be had deceived themselves into believing that living together before marriage would strengthen their love. “What friends told us would be a trust-building experience actually devastated our relationship,” she said. After their marriage, doubts began to surface. Knowing that they each had been willing to live with someone before marriage, how could they trust each other fully? Doubt often leads to mistrust, mistrust to contention, and contention to separation and divorce, as in this case. By contrast, moral cleanliness inspires trust, confidence, and peace. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Amber T	Yes because you may not know about or like your spouses wierd hangups & habits that you only discover once you move in together. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

::bren::	absolutely! i'd hate to have to figure out that i can't live with this person after the fact. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

godisdead4u	I think it's better to live together and never get married. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

nethershire	as the saying says " you always try be 4 u buy" Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

J.J.	Yes I think it would be much better to try it before you make a leap to the alter. People are so much more different when living with them then they are just spending a few hours a day with them or even a night or 2. The true side of people start showing up after awhile living under the same roof and then you can make that "BIG" decision to leap or not with that person. It makes a huge difference in your decision of what you want to do. The divorce rate is EXTREMELY high these days, that is why I say try before you end up a statistic in our society. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

MissE	Yes, testdriving it is called PS I see no problem with just living together and not getting married either Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

happywoman74	In a way it is very beneficial as you two get to know eachother. However, there is one downfall. Sometimes when living together, getting married falls on the back burner. You both kinda get too comfortable and figure why fix what isn't broken. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

timsandtinas	Yeah. You never really know someone til you live with their habits. Marriage is a big thing and you should know you can live with someones habits and ways Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Neo	yes Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

LeadingLady	No, I really don't. My bf and I got engaged and a months later moved together. I don't even want to get married anymore. You fight more and to be honest, I think it's bad luck. You, as a woman will find yourself doing things for him that wives should do like making sure dinner is on the table, laundry is washed, etc, etc. And living together basically means sleeping together everynight. In my opinion he is getting the priviledges and rights of a husband. What's he gonna rush to marry you for if he getting everything now. Take my advice, do not do it. It will ruin your relationship and he'll respect you less.... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ComputaKid100	from personal experience, living together is best if you can, before you marry, it shows you a different side to the person, lets you adjust to their habits etc and you learn lots about them tht you didnt know. if you are worried about living with him/her before getting married, then should you be marrying them?? You don't have to sleep together, of course you can still have separate bedrooms etc etc but it gives you an insight into your potential future. dont like it, then get out before its too late for either of you!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jersey	YES! I met this guy who I was sure that I was going to marry. We moved in together and WHOA!!! The things that drive me nuts! I just couldn't deal with some things that come along with him re: decorating, dog, family, attitude, etc.! If we never moved in together, I never would have known all of this. I believe that it is good to know what you will deal with forever before you go ahead with that commitment! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

nadia. (:	yes, you need to make sure you want to be with them & live with them & everything Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

wmayers99	Not really - you can learn all you need to know about your potential mate without moving in first. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Sandy Ego	If it feels right, there's nothing wrong with living together. What's "better" depends on the couple. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Seabagg	Absolutely. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

putafootinyourass	Live with them as long as possible. Marriage sucks...bottom line, it sucks. Don't let these do gooders convince you otherwise. You wouldn't buy a car without test driving it would you? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Modern Man	Why get married if you are going to live together? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

emma C	yes try before you buy, thats what i say. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

BabeHeart	That's "married" (not marry), and I personally wouldn't ever marry anyone again without having lived together first. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

SpikeyJo	Yes. We got engaged in November and moved in together. We will get married in July. It isn`t a case of seeing if we can live together, it just takes away the uncertain aspect of moving in after wedding and all the stress this can cause. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No