Am I wrong for not telling my Husband. Everyone says just keep quiet because its probably my husbands. Help?

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Nate	what a cheating whore, a split up doesnt give you the right to have sex with a crack smokin piece of crap.. you deserve another black eye so tell him face to face the baby might not be his... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

bored brunette	Everyone just says keep quiet????!!!!!! Who the heck is EVERYONE? Good grief, did you make an announcement? You might as well tell him because if other's know, it won't stay a secret. You're back with him... so I guess you find black-eyes on yourself attractive? Just hope he stops with you and doesn't go for your innocent children. Of course, everyone knows that children mimic their parents when they themselves marry, so I guess you want to pass the tradition of husband's blacking their wives eyes on down to your children. Are you a nincompoop??? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Sharon Lost	Just keep quiet. So far if you/husband treat the baby well, it doesn't mean much if he's the biological father. Stay happy & be a pretty Mom. It is more important. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Claudia	i think its best you don't say anything. you're husband will love this baby and that's all that matters. specially considering you cant get pregnant on your own. but then again if it doesn't look like him or anything like your other kids, he might question it. just wait and if he doesn't ever think it then there's no reason to tell him. even though honesty is the best thing to do, your only thinking of his feelings so it should be ok. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

tiffany	if you wanna get another black eye then tell him Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

golfnut5565	You are a crack whore and have no common sense. Gimme a break....the guy is nice but he does crack??? Your husband is nice but beats you??? Sounds like you need help in judging peoples character. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Toxic	You know its wrong not to tell him, thats why you're asking this. Does he know you were with the other guy? Was it unprotected sex or did something happen? Have you been tested for stds? Your husband deserves to know if the baby is not his and he deserves to know if you may be carrying any diseases. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ranger_co_1_75	Again, DNA is your friend. After the baby is born, discreetly contact a lab and get a DNA test. You take a swab from inside the baby's mouth, and a second swab from your husbands coffee cup rim and send them to the lab. They will tell you if the child belongs to your husband. If it does belong to your husband, do not say anything about the test or your past "Dealings". To do so unnecessarily will only create marital problems and can prevent your husband / child bonding. If the child does not belong to your husband, then by all means tell your husband before he finds out from your child's doctor, and he divorces you because you lied to him and forced him to raise someone Else's child. After telling your husband that the pregnancy occurred while you were separated, file for child support from the real father. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

S.	I wouldn't say anyting until I'm 100 percent sure it's his. Gosh that's a tough one. But why would you go back to a guy that hits you. And what if he finds out the child is not his, then he'll just kill you. You better watch out girl! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

BabyGirl	What you "got rid of" on New Year's Eve was not an "IT".....it was a CHILD!! I question your sincerity in saying that "every child is a gift". Or did you mean it's only a gift if you allow it to be born? Your greatest concern should be how you will answer to God...not how to tell your husband. BTW, he deserves to know the TRUTH, regardless of the consequences you will be faced with. I also question your ability to select a good mate. You have one who is physically abusive & then get involved with one doing drugs. Doesn't seem that you're much of a judge of character. Tell the man it could or could not be his child, and then DEAL WITH IT. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

David	See if jerry springer is still on. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

rooney	wow you murder the first baby and then you get pregnant AGAIN without even knowing for sure if you want to keep it or not or stay with the father! Geez people, these are lives we are talking about! Don't get sexually active without taking the proper preventative measures, especially in the midst of all this crap going on your life!!! btw- during a separation you shouldn't be out galavanting with some crackhead, you should be tending to the emotional needs of your kids! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

cap	LOL, now I C why you got the black eye. If my wife tried to pull this crap it would be divorce city. I really think the 2 of you deserve each other. He beats you and you screw the first thing that comes around. I wonder if you last piece of azz is going to take care of his kid when you find out it's not your HUSBANDS!! Every child born from adultery is a gift in your eyes? YOU NEED HELP!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No