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Shannon H
After 4 years, why won't my man get married? We have both been married before,Why won't he marry me?
Why does a man think a woman only want's to get married to get 1/2 in a divorce!!! I want to marry to have a life partner. I am ready to leave to find such a person, but I want him!!



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sdo3lg
Well you need to talk to him about the situation. Talk to him about his previous marriage (after 4 years you probably know a lot). He is just scared. Why don't you propose to him (it is the millennium)? The prenuptial agreement may settle his woes if it is a property thing he is worried about. He was burned and he is just watching his back. Don't hold it against him.

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kitcat
Maybe because that's what his first wife got. Just maybe he is a little apprehensive about marriage. These are things that you should discuss in the beginning of a relationship. You should have discussed with him that one day you would like to remarry. You need to talk to him about what you are feeling. Good luck.

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mattymatt39
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He might be gun shy about marrying again..the last tiem he tried it failed...why is the ring so important to you?

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fold_ngo
come on grow up it is just a piece of paper

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Forlorn Hope
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if all you are after is another marriage, then leave him... that is VERY selfish of you!!!

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rdhedhottie
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Commitment scares people, and for people who have had to go through the pain of divorce, is not something easily given.

You need to tell him exactly how you feel, that you want him but if he isn't willing to make a committment to you, you can't stay.

It's hard to break down the wall that divorce built in most people, you'r afraid to trust, afraid to give your heart fully and afraid to most definately start over!

For those who find the strength to go on, and rebuild their lives after divorce know it's a long road. 4 years is a long time to not make a committment. But he has to be willing to talk to you and tell you why he doesn't. If he's worried about 1/2 in a divorce, tell him to wonder what it's like having 1/2 the committment, 1/2 of your heart because he won't break down that wall.

Tell him you want him to have it all or nothing.

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patrickmcc55
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Why buy the cow when the milk is free?
Sign a prenuptial agreement. If he still balks, then run.

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chowda99@sbcglobal.net
what if he sees this question lol
4 years is a long time but this year around OCTOBER. Yes, it will happen!!! Good LUCK!!!

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hepette
because why buy the cow when you already have the milk?
just face it---he aint into you enough to marry you. sorry ......

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Beejee
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Maybe he, too, is 'looking around'.

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Andy G
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Marriage is sort of stupid anyway.....it's like putting icing on a cake. If you to are good together and truly care about each other, you'll stay together with or without marriage.

Plus, you've both been married before, which you've both been burned at least once. He probably doesn't wanna have to go through the whole divorce thing again.

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Eeyore
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I would say he has btdt and now he is not giving away half his stuff again.
Find true love next time.He is damaged goods and he is not over it by along shot.

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sourkandi2486
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Well chick its prolly like my bf-- he wont marry me because of the fact he was married b4-- hes just affraid that whatever happened to make the marriage fail b4 will happen again an if he loves u then he dont want anything to happen to the bond u share-- i know it sucks--- i mean i cant wait to say i do to my bf of 7 years-- but eh what can a girl do besides wait an enjoy the moments we have with them!

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zipzap0105
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If he is worth it, give him some more time. Maybe he is scared that what happened in his last marriage, could actually happen again. Marriage is a very serious matter, and if frightens a lot of guys, especially if they have failed at it once.

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BORED AT WORK
Most normal people realize that after being married once that they would not do it again. (its a experience that you only need once)
I have a great marriage and my wife is the best but if anything ever happened I would enjoy the single life. (freedom)

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freeatlastboone
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He has you when he wants you and can leave at any time. Sorry for this but he has the milk why buy the cow

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Tracy O
Maybe he is scared of marriage since his last one failed. After four years, I wouldn't think he would still have relationship jitters. I would talk to him about it or go to counseling together to find out if there are deeper reasons behind why he doesn't want to get married. If he still feels unsure, I would say it is time to start over if marriage is a big thing to you.

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Marty K
Why did you both get divorced in the first place? I think each of you needs to ask that, and the only valid reason is if your spouses were unfaithful.

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jeanne g
ur asking the wrong peoples. just ask him!

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scotty
Why don't you ask him maybe once was enough

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bornagain
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He may not want to marry you... period. Why should he buy the whole cow, if he's getting the milk for free? I say move on, four years is a long time without him proposing to you.

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rhonda y
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If the 1/2 thing is the only problem/ fear offer to sign a pre-nup. If it's about wanting to not get married because of how the first one ended~~well that's something only you and he can figure out.

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tina m
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Sounds like he may be finished with marriage.

You would probably be best moving on.

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zero
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Only he can answer this question for you. However, keep in mind that it is ourselves who set the standards for our relationships. And when we let certain standards get pushed to the back burner, they tend to stay their and eventually diminish. Once we are willing to compromise our standards it is hard to reenforce them. So in a sense we do it to ourselves by giving in.

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dave
Ask your self this one question. Are you getting married because by TRADITION everyone feels that it is the right thing to do and have a life partner. I feel that a man these days needs to COVER HIS OWN A S S. Yeah, it is kind of romantic to have to Big Wedding and having all of your friend attend. BUT AS SOON AS THE PARTY STOPS AND EVERYONE LEAVES TO GO BACK TO THERE DAILY LIFE THE BILLS, HOME DRAMA, WORK AND SEX BECOME BIG ISSUES. So I think your man is doing the right thing. IT'S EVERY MAN FOR HIMSELF.

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morgysdad
Once bitten, twice shy.
If i got bit i wouldnt wanna marry again for a LOOOONNNNNNNNNGGGGGGGG time

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myheartisjames
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he doesn't want to get married....period.... so if marriage is very important to you then find somebody else.... otherwise consider living with the one you love even if you aren't married.....

what exactly is it that you want to gain by actually getting married?

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g m
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could be gun shy . . .

That once bitten, twice shy thing.

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keishahayes2003
Have you asked him about his marriage before? sometime people have a phobia about doing the same thing 2x it may have been rough on him and he may have been hurt in the divorce and he is just a little scared.He does love you but just talk to him about his previous relationships some more so you can better understand him.

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rokkibean
Doesn't want to fail again.

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Valerie
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I do not have an answer but I just want to make a comment..................people that say "why buy the cow when the milk is free" are retarded...............EVERYONE nowadays gives out the "milk for free"......such high and mighty a$$holes!!!!!

there.............I feel better now!

: )

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