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whiteroses202004	Talk to your spouse and tell him that is makes you very uncomfortable from a life experience you went through as a child. It brings back painful memories and out of respect for his wife and his wedding vows he should stop immeadialty. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

grace95838	You need to let your husband know that the behavior bothers you. If you haven't told him that you've been molested, he should know this. Some women call there husband's or partners daddy, both in and out of the bed. Kinky or perverted? It just depends on who is saying it and how it is perceived by the person hearing it. Most men who like little girls can't pretend with a grown woman. Talk to your husband. Best of luck with your situation. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Kc	I understand your feeling and it wouldn't make me feel comfortable either. I think that the best is to talk to him about it; It's far too important to leave it for strangers to decide for you. Tell him how this makes you feel, and knowing your past, surely he will understand. That'd turn me off too. Just tell him. Good luck.xxx Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

C~Luv	It doesn't matter what we think. Point being that someone, regardless of who they are, is doing something that is making you feel uncomfortable. We all could go on all day saying whether it is weird, uncalled for or just kinky, at the end of the day, you may find 50% answers finding it weird and the other 50% finding it normal, which with these figures, that won't help much for this scenerio. I can see how your past can make you feel uncomfortable with this, but take it from me...you are not losing it...I don't have that type of past, so I can't relate in that aspect, but as far as your feelings on this I can relate, my reason, probably is more so for the fact that I have kids and to me it just sounds pervertish!! I recommend you voicing this to your s/o and out of respect he should immediately eliminate this process from the intimicy you both share. Just be open and honest and stress your level of discomfort, considering your past, so he sees how serious the matter is to you. Good Luck and God bless!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jess	Have you discussed this with him and mentioned that his fetish is conflicting with your memories? Some fetishes are harmless and fun, but this one isn't. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

lady31	Sounds like he is turned on by your tragedy. TALK to him about it. ANYTIME that you are worried about something that your spouse says or does, you need to talk to him!! He KNOWS what you went through as a child and still he does this, lets us know that he is insensitive to your pain. Keep your eyes on your BOYS.........if he is acting all perverted and calling you a "little girl". I'd be worried. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Twilight	You stated that you have told him about your past with your father and he still continues to use "Daddy" and "Your Little Girl" in sex play which is so wrong. He's using control and likes it when you are uncomfortable as that gives him more control. That's a sick approach. I bet that you do not enjoy sex with him and that you probably feel sick at your stomach everytime that he insists on this. Tell him again, but this time let him know that you will not be sexually active with him if he uses the "Daddy" and "my little girl" approach. Tell him it is a total turnoff and borders on abuse. If he doesn't want to change after that then you need to seek more counseling for yourself. Your self-esteem is being lowered by this and that is not good at all. You didn't deserve what your father did REMEMBER THAT and your father is paying the price for his ill ways. Don't be a victim in this relationship as you deserve better. You deserve to be treated a lot better. Good Luck. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Rebecca W	There is a sexual role-play that a lot of people enjoy called, daddy/daughter. It is ROLE PLAY, not real but it is a turn on for them. Sounds to me like this is what is going on with your husband. It not mean that he is a pedophile or anything like that. However, as it obviously is very discomfitting for you, he needs to stop, and only you can tell him so! If he doesn't then it might be time for 1--counseling or 2--divorce. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Basic	Yea, i dont know. I think he might have a problem if that's one his fantasies. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

TTC #2 Baby Dust MEEE!	welll i actually like calling him Daddy but i wouldnt want him calling me lil girl but i see nothing wrong Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

wondermom	I find it creepy too but there are those that like it. It comes down to telling him that it really turns you off. Why and how much you tell him, is up to you. It is very important in all aspects of a relationship, but especially sexual ones (especially if you were molested and have issues) that you set very clear rules, guidelines and boundaries. Good Luck! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

spelling nazi	I think I'd like it. My now ex husband didn't have ANY interest in sex. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Melanie J	Its a common kink, but the fact that he knows about your history bothers me. He should understand how the "role playing" could affect you and not ask for it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

VNCGirl	Grosses me out completely. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

lexiss91	Some people have really weird fetishes like that. He wants higher authority while you're in bed and he wants you to call him daddy. Any other reasons he may have I'm not so sure. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Danny N	Only do what makes you feel comfortable. It sounds like he has some fantasies involving sex with a minor. Not normal, ask him to raise it up a level or two. Leave daddy references out of it. Tell him you playing college level is ok but nothing below is ok with you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sfcgijill	If he knows you were molested, then yes, your spouse is a bit sick in the head. Otherwise, I'd be willing to be he's just a total moron about that and needs you to gently straighten him out. I'm sure there's another fantasy rolling around in his head for you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

♂♥♀Lesley♂♥♀	u know what i would very concerned for my girls, i too was raped by my father, and trust me for my kids to go thru that i would kill first! and does ur hubby know what happened to you? i think if he knew he would stop, and if he dosent know i would definitely tell him! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Katie	OK, everyone has their own fantasies, but keep in mind that his is INCEST. I do not think that's normal. Tell him it's uncomfortable to you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Chris P	The guy is a freak...you should castrate him before he starts diddling the little girl and f***ks up her life. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Bubbles	Perhaps he sees it as a turn on for him to be in control and be "the man." However, if you do not like it then speak to him about it. I'm sure he will understand your situation about being molested and why you don't like speaking like that. Communication is the only way to make relationships work. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jlcjills	no its not real freaky, Its just his way of saying he's in control. As long as you are seeing no other signs that concern you, I wouldn't worry about it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

pennylane	tell him not to call you that and tell him why...it brings up bad memories for you & if he dont care than hes more perveted than you know as in the molesting thing turns him on. he gives me the creeps already! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Beatngu	Wow.. talk about touchy subject! Have you talked to him about it? I personally call my husband Daddy... but only in front of the kids. He also calls me Mommy, again for the kids... What you're talking about to me, is kind of perverted. If he wants to do something like that... then go with the naughty school girl, the french maid, the nurse, etc... There are many other things that you can do... other than the Daddy one. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

john b	Very odd not nice at all Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

foolproofdiva	You have to communicate that with him. I'm sure if he knew it bothered you he'd stop. Also, to keep the sex fun maybe propose some other bedroom pet names you like and think is acceptable- that way he gets an idea of what you like... Sorry to hear about the abuse I'm glad you are overcoming it! Good Luck! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Spring	I would tell him to stop. I don't think that's natural. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

basketcase88	If it makes you uncomfortable--and it would me and I don't have your life experiences--I would simply tell him so. Hopefully he knows about your being molested as a child(which I am so, so sorry for, and so glad your father is in jail so he can't hurt any other little girls!). So hopefully he's not too big of a dunce to figure out why this would be completely uncomfortable for you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

MissE	Does your spouse know this about your father. If not tell him if yes he is being kinda totally insensitive Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

BabeHeart	If I thought my partner wanted to view me (even if just in sexual fantasy) as an underage child, it would definitely trouble me...I'm fairly open minded when it comes to sex and kink, but kids and animals don't belong there. If it's just a control issue, that's fine...some people find great pleasure having 'power' in the bedroom. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

TxsWitchWAB	I don't like it, and if your significant other knows your history, he should be more sensitive to the fact that you would be uncomfortable to it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No