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Due in October with #1	How can you love someone who would put your life and your daughters life in danger...LEAVE HIM NOW...It will only get worse.... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

syntax	leave him, he is garbage and should be in prison. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Sandra B	Get away from him before he kills you, he is not going to change, he needs to go to rehab and straighten himself out. You need to go to a woman's shelter and get some support, you DO NOT need that kind of life and neither does your daughter. You are too young to live a horrible life like that, I've know a few people who got out of abusive realtionships and got on with their lives. There are people out there that care about you, and would want to help you. For God's sake and your baby's sake please get out of that realtionship. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

junebug	Get yourself to a safe place and fast before he kills you! By staying in this abusive relationship and subjecting your daughter to such violence, she is learning that abuse is o.k. and she is likely to grow up and have similar relationships with men. Abuse is NEVER ok! You (and your daughter) deserve better! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

leslewis65	Get out of that relationship, and don't go back into it unless he makes some serious improvements with therapy. Maybe leaving would be what he needs to wake up to his behavior. If he's choking you, then he is threatening your life. Love is one thing, but if he's treating you like that, then he doesn't really love you. He's controlling you, and you are his property. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

EZReaper	you should have already called the cops. and your daughter just learned it's ok to him mommy if you did nothing to get him punished. leave him, the prosecute his law breaking butt!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sexybxchick101	get out u and ur daughter out of this toxic situation u don't love him.... go to the police or to a abuse hotline Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Riotess	i dont mean to sound harsh but it doesnt matter waht u feel right now...it doesnt matter if u love him, wnat to help him wnat him to respect you...right now you and him dont matter, your little daughter does...whatever you do with ur man right now, do it from a distance, you have an obligation to keep ur daughter safe and secure and make sure she grows up in a happy loving home...its selfish to stay in this situation and keep her in this situation becuase u think u love this guy...think about what u want ur daughter to live in, she is reason enough to leave, sort out ur own issues later good luck ive been there Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

WeveLostControl	LEAVE NOW--- before it gets worst. HE wont change! GET OUT OF THERE...do you really want to raise your daughter in that kind of situation? She will grow up screwed up and get in many abusive relationships herself. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Mari	OMG I can't believe you're even posting this and still talking about loving him. Love yourself and your baby more than this guy and please LEAVE as fast as possible. Get out and do not look back, it's only going to get worse and your baby is going to grow up without a mom. LEAVE Ask yourself this....if your daughter told you this story had happened to her...what would you tell her to do? Be honest and then do what's best for your baby. There are loads of shelters, policemen and I'm sure family and friends that will help you.Good luck and God bless, Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Pythagoras	Let me get this straight. . . 1. He hits you. 2. He yells at you. 3. He chokes you 4. He does pot and meth, and he is a father. 5. You love him. Which one of these does not belong with the others? Get some self-respect. As long as you allow him to treat you like this, he will. Press charges against him. If he continues to do this to you, file a restraining order and leave him. You're better off as a single mom than as a casualty. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

T.J.'s Girl	Take your child, and get out. If he is putting his hands on you, it will only get worse. Stay with a family member, go to an abuse shelter... call the cops, have them escort you and the child out. You have to think of the baby's safety, as well as your own. YOU DO NOT deserve to be abused. Please, leave him. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

hey_micky2003	can you tell your parents,,,, somebody must know about this,,, you need to get away,,no matter how much you love him,,,, not just for your own safety,,,for the childs too,,,, please do this,,,, do it now Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

project_grim	ditch the b*tch Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Godless	They are called police. Call them! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

~leaving traces~	HE won't change, Doll. Okay, you love him, but do you love YOURSELF, and more importantly, do you love your baby enough to get her out of that atmosphere? One day he will kill you doing this, and then your child will be left at his mercy alone. You know good and well this is not right. Anyone that loves you would never hit you to hurt you. He can't even begin to show you respect because if he has it in his heart to beat you, repect is a big joke! You need to gather the strength to get out of this. If he's on Meth, it's a hopeless situation unless he gets help, and even then statistics are not good for Meth users. Move out of there and get a restraining order, Girl! Do not deal with this abuse, because it will only get worse, and you're liable to end up dead! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

lil_wind1910	It's only going to get worse, you need to leave. He needs lots of help. These things don't get better. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

brunette	leave him, call the police or try and get marriage counselling?? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

chickenlittle25	Get out out out out out out. Get pictures of your bruises and stuff and get out. Get a PFA and get away from him. You cannot make this man show respect for you. You're going to have to pull yourself up by your own bootstraps and get a job for the sake of your daughter if you care about her at ALL. Yes, it's going to hurt and it's going to be scary, but there are places that will help you to find a job and get an education if you need one. And you will get over this guy. Abusers don't stop abusing. You don't want to hear that, but they don't. Please, for the sake of your child get OUT. She could be beaten or worse, and even if that doesn't happen, your staying in an abusive relationship will make her think that's normal and she'll end up right where you are in another 20 years. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

quantumrift	You "LOVE" him? What is YOUR definition of LOVE? Being a doormat or punching bag for a control freak? For what possible reason could you LOVE somebody that HURTS you? WHY? Do you want this man to LOVE you to DEATH??? You need help NOW and you need counseling and you need to get away with your daughter! You need to find the local 'abused woman's shelter' near you and get the hell away from this piece of s--t. You should file a police report as well and get a restraining order against him.... GET AWAY NOW! You don't have to 'work' to leave...find the abused women's shelter and GET OUT NOW before something worse happens. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

*mrs J 25/10/08* TTC #1 .**	please,please get out,for the sake of your daughter,she doesnt deserve to see this happening to her mother,and when she grows up,she might think its normall,and it could happen to her. please get out of there now,and go to the police! you deserve better hun ! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

KJ	if you can't save yourself for yourself, then save yourself for your daughter. she's gonna need and want a mommy for a long time. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

tealamarie24	You do NOT deserve this treatment! You need to try to find a Battered/Abused Woman's shelter, because you and your daughter are NOT safe from this man. He isn't going to change, and him doing drugs is only going to make things worse. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Answer This!	Leave him. Seriously go to a friends house or someone and get a divorce and a restraining order, or whatever you have to do. It will be better for you and you baby. You dont want her to grow up thinking this is okay or normal. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

lbtrusting	You need to get out before he kills you then who will take care of your baby!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Soul Harvester	I'd be glad to help you out. Let me find that bastard and see if he hits another woman again after I'm done with him. Email me if you wanna friend Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Brian	sounds bad. you probaly don't want to hear this, but you should divorse him. my mom did the same thing, and she's much happier now. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

#1 Due on 12/22/08!	why havent you left him yet? Find a safe place and LEAVE him and dont go back! Why do women stay with these abusive jerks????? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Mr Lizard	He is the lowest form of life. Leave him. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Kelly	Sweetie, you need to go to the police. This is not the place to tell people Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

marie	My heart goes out to you. I was in an abusive marriage that ended with my life almost ending. I know exactly what you are feeling. I need to let you know that things will not get better they will get cosiderably worse. 1. YOU ARE A GROWN WOMAN,NOT HIS CHILD,OR HIS PROPERTY. 2. JUST BECAUSE YOU DON'T WORK DOES'NT MEAN THAT YOU SHOULD BE MISTREATED.3 .ANY MAN THAT BEATS UP ON A DEFENSELESS WOMAN IS NOT A MAN.THIS MAN NEEDS TO GET SOME HELP.HE IS OBVIOUSLY INSECURE AND FEELS LIKE THE ONLY WAY HE CAN KEEP YOU IN THIS TOXIC RELATIONSHIP IS BY FORCE.4 .GOD GAVE US LIFE SO THAT WE COULD LIVE A GOOD LIFE YOU DON'T HAVE TO STAY STUCK IN THIS ONE-SIDED RELATIONSHIP.THERE ARE ALL KINDS OF PLACES THAT WILL HELP AN ABUSED,SINGLE MOM OUT.5. YOU HAVE TO WANT TO BE FREE.NOBODY CAN HELP YOU UNTIL YOU ARE WILLING TO HELP YOURSELF. YOU AND YOUR CHILDS SAFETY SHOULD BE YOUR NUMBER ONE CONCERN NOT WHAT THIS SELFISH BASTARD WANTS. 6. DRUGS ARE A VERY SERIOUS PROBLEM MY EX- WAS ON DRUGS TOO. I SPENT MANY A NIGHTS IN THE BATHROOM RUNNING FROM HIS PHYSICAL ABUSE.HE USED TO DRAG ME AROUND THE HOUSE BY KNIFE POINT,HE RAPED ME WITH A BUTCHER KNIFE TO MY THROAT,HE ULTIMATELY TRYED TO KILL ME AND MY CHILDREN WHEN HE FINALLY SNAPPED. HE TRYED TO BURN ME WITH GASOLINE AND BURN MY HOUSE DOWN... THIS IS HOW IT COULD END FOR YOU IF YOU DON'T GET HELP. YOU ARE YOUNG YOU HAVE YOUR WHOLE LIFE AHEAD OF YOU. YOU DON'T WANT YOUR CHILD TO SEE YOU GETTING TREATED THAT WAY. SHE WILL GROW UP TO THINK THAT IT IS NORMAL. DON'T TELL HIM THAT YOU ARE LEAVING WHEN YOU ARE READY TO GO. SECRETLY CONTACT YOUR LOCAL ABUSE HOTLINE AND LET THIM HELP YOU HAVE THE LIFE YOU DESERVE. THE FIRST STEP IS REALIZING THAT YOU HAVE TO GET YOURSELF OUT OF THAT SITUATION. AND PLEASE GET COUNSELING SO YOU REALIZE THAT THIS IS DISFUNCTIONAL BEHAVIOR AND YOU WON'T MAKE THE SAME MISTAKE AGAIN. LOVE DOES'NT PHYSICALLY HURT.IN YOUR WHOLE PARAGRAPH IT DID'NT SOUND LIKE HE IS TRYING TO LOVE YOU IT SOUNDS LIKE HE IS TRYING TO CONTROL YOU.YOU DESERVE MORE OUT OF LIFE. WHO IS TO SAY THAT HE WON'T ABUSE YOUR DAUGHTER. PLEASE MAKE YOUR SELF SAFE. I HAVE TEARS IN MY EYES RIGHT NOW BECAUSE I KNOW WHAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH BUT YOU HAVE A RIGHT TO CHANGE YOUR MIND YOU DON'T HAVE TO STICK AROUND AND BE SOMEONE'S PUNCHING BAG. I AM PRAYING FOR YOU TO BE SAFE,YOU AND YOUR DAUGHTER. GOOD LUCK FROM YOUR SISTER FRIEND, WHO CAME FROM RIGHT WHERE YOU ARE AND I MADE IT AND SO CAN YOU. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No