
BonesofaTeacher
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See that's the thing. You can't trust people. He wasn't tricked into anything. He had the freedom to use a condom. He is not taking responsibility for his actions. It's kind of like a woman saying a guy tricked her cuz he said he would not come inside her but he did and she got pregnant. You have to protect yourself, not trust others to do it. That panhandler said he would pay me back the money, too. The key is responsibility.
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nicnoo23
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yes u dead beat
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brittany s
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he better pay it!!!!!!, and screw wolfman
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Savannah Says
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Okay, though it is illegal to refuse to pay child support, it is also illegal to show fake documents. He could get a lawyer and try to sue her (or if he wanted to be nice, just get out of paying). Also he should have used protection anyway or just tried to be safe. And does he even know this girl? is it his girlfriend? these concepts could also be helpful in answering. hopefully this helps.
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phantomknight70
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if he was truly tricked, yes i would say its wrong. but legally the court is not going to look at it that way. they basic opioion of any court is ONE; what is in the best interest of the child and Two; not knowning is no excuse for the law the courts opioion will be that you should be more careful with your spunk.
even if a woman goes to a sperm bank to get pregant she can sue the sperm doner for child support.
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NONAME
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Just a hypothetical. Suppose you had a vasectomy. You were guaranteed there was no way you could ever father a child and low and behold you did. Are you going to argue that you don't have to support that child because you shouldn't have been able to have that child? Fatherhood is fatherhood. Your friend is now responsible for a human life. Now..he may have some legal action against the mother...but that doesn't negate his responsibility toward the child.
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Torsion Stampede
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Yep, its wrong.
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wolfman
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if all is true, she should be prosecuted and the child given to the father.
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queenre20032004
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Even though she trapped and waited 3 years to tell him, the child is here now and it was made by the both of them. the fact that he made a child, someone that has part of him, should be enough for him to want to take care of the child anyway, despite the mother's actions. The child has nothing to do with their problems and should be taken care of. Point-blank.
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lovesugarkisses
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i know what you mean by this and women are horrible because its something that happens almost all the time. condoms get poked holes, they say there on the pill and show them the package, tubes tied, all types of stuff and its crazy. and if the guy is careful and uses a condom the girl can still get pregnant. I know a girl that made her self get preg. after he came when he wasn't looking she took the condom out of the garbage with the *** in it and poured it in her.
so no i dont think that some men should have to pay child support, but if this did happen and you had a good lawyer you can get full custody for a conniving women
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Lionel Hutz
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No, he is legally obligated to pay child support. You play, you pay.
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morningwoman14
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He should pay his child support..Don't even think about the girl..He needs to think about the child that is his..With child support comes the right to see the child and also get to know the child..He might find that being a dad is not that bad of a thing!!
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supertrooper_edwards
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Not at all! Try having 2 kids via marriage, then loosing them when wife cheats, then paying support and NOT being allowed contact with them in addition even if you (ME in this case) raised them 75% of the time since they were born. The system is VERY biased against men.... even the good ones!
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thylawyer
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Any man who does not use protection for himself gets what he deserves. The story about "she tricked me" is so old, you have to be really dumb to rely on it.
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carlytucci
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It is wrong to not pay child support. If he doesn't want to pay child suppoort maybe it's not good.
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windyy
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Regardless of how she ended up giving birth to his child it is his child and he should want the best for his child,If he cares nothing for his own flesh and blood he is not a man.Just a small minded idiot with a penis.
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akablackbetty
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i think dads should start having rights about matters like this . but they dont, women can have kids and wait for years before telling the man, and then pop up and demand child support. has your friend had a dna test done? maybe he might get lucky and the kid could be named door knob , because every body had a turn. women do some dirty things these days. my son has had his fill of it to.
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superspongeseven
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that's really wrong.
if she tricked him and lied to him then he should not have to pay. technically it's a form of entrapment and i think he would have a valid court case against her.
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Part Time Cynic
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She is the loser, as a matter of fact she does not deserve to be called a mother and that child would be better off without her.
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♥fluffybunnyears
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It is NOT right what she did but he should have taken precautions regardless of what she told him. I guess it's a hard lesson this poor fool had to learn the wrong way. I say fool not in a mean way but to say that he was fooled. He is still required to pay child support but considering how she lied, I would suggest that he have a paternity test to make sure that the child is indeed his.
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fr_chuck
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It is very wrong and a very immoral thing that she did.l
But legally, he can be held liable for child support
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Myke
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that's just evil. she should have told him she just wanted the baby. it's completely unfair.
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509QZK
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What a stupid question!
Did she rape him or force him?
Or did he slip and fall and land with his penis in her vagina?
You are a sorry excuse!
YOU HAVE BEEN POSTING THIS QUESTON REPEATEDLY REPHRASED DIFFERENTLY FOR HOURS, for Gods sake GIVE IT A REST!
No one is aggreeing with your coward whiny ways, so build a bridge and get over it!
http://answers.yahoo.com/my/profile;_ylt=AmYEoKxwBTfOrSABwpnvSxYezKIX?show=AA11458636
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