Does this make me a pedophile or child molester?

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u2zep73	Not sure. Did you like it? That answer should tell you a lot. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

iamqilin	you are a minor and anything sexual thing u do may be considered but not penalised....it depends upon the situation u have created.........looking at ur situation i think u were quenching ur thirst for sexual act.....lets face it even a baby sucking on mothers breast is a sexual act(proven scientifically).......u can only be charged if you have reached that age and the purpose is really evil....... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

little eccy	Not to worry don't feel guilty, you was just kids experimenting. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Stimpson J. Cat	You and your sister had an incestuous relationship. You should both get psychological help because it is not normal. You were not an adult at the time, so you are not a child molester. However, it is important that you both understand what happened and why so you can move on with your lives and have healthy relationships in the future. I doubt if you'd go to jail though. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

The chameleon	As far as the law goes I am not sure, I don't think so especially if you were underage, anything over 15 I'd say go to see someone (psychologyst). *However if it makes you feel better it is proven that most kids by the age of 13 experimented at least with another kid (not necesarly of the same gender) in a way his/her sexuality. Part of this fact is that most of these kids never told anyone and never will and in many cases actually they forguet it happened (even if they were 10-11 years old) because their brain blocks those thoughts andf memories. Sometimes people Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Leo	You're a child molester, simply because the children you molested were only 2 years younger and you yourself were a child. Don't be scared everyone's got a story like this in their closets somewhere. As children we all want to experiment with the unknown, in our case sex. You are a child molester and you should admitt to it so that you can control it and never do it again because at the age of 12 I can forgive you for it but as an adult, this crime is unforgiveable. If you find that you can't control it than maybe you should seek help. If you want to talk e-mail me leb_stargazer@yahoo.com Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

RAY N	I'm not sure of you Why the details? But young kids do this you can live a sane life if you want too Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

bella36	Firstly child molester and pedophile are one and the same. And you were 12 at the time so you were still a child yourself. I don't think this is completely unheard of........children do experiment, however......you did go a bit farther than what would be considered experimentation. I don't know how old you are now but obviously this is concerning you. You can't go to jail if you were a child. I would seek counselling as adolescence is an important sexual milestone and can affect future relationships. Be honest with the therapist an yourself. It's something you can work through. Good luck. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

rmrndrs	I am not lawyer, but I don't believe you are guilty of any crimes because of your age when the acts where committed. However your story is really disturbing, specially because of the incest aspect of it. I don't know how old you are now, but I believe you and your sister should seek therapy. Good luck, and hopefully this is really behind you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

isisthewolf	no you were just experementing and most children go through something like that something similar happened with me so dont feel gross or anything its just human nature to be courious and explorative and once you had feelings that it wasnt right you dropped it therefore aknowledging that it was just an expermental/educational phase you are not a rapist or anything like that Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

I Have Parasites	No, you are not. It is called experimentation. Except for the part where it happened on numerous occasions with your sister. I do not know what to say about that. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

lonewolf751	no since you were twelve it doesnt count. its just really gross incest Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

#1con	12 year olds do strange things. You shouldn't worry about it unless you still have thoughts of doing it again. Then get some counseling. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Mr. Goodkat	I am sure you are not the only one to go through this sort of thing as a child. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

the.chip	you were just young and you were curious: you didn't really know what you were doing. so I'd say no. I don't know about the legal side of it, but I wouldn't convict you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jgrimpe	First of all..glad you are over those feelings. Second... you need to talk with your sister. Chances are she still feels weird about it to this day but pretends she forgot all about it. She probably has deep issues about sexuality, it will haunt her and her relationships with friends, men and women forever. Third.. 12 is old enough to know right from wrong. What you did was wrong and you know it. That is why is still bothers you. If you were abused your self it would lend itself to some explanation, but THAT is beyond "curiousity". Sorry if that seems harsh. The funny thing is you only seem concerned about whether you'd go to jail, rather than the feelings of your younger and confused sister who probably just wanted to stay on your good side. You need to talk with your sister about it and APOLOGIZE or it will bother you til the day you die. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

lizzydizzy269	I would say no because you were both young and expermenting. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

no regretsss!	no, u didnt force anyone to do anything and u were both minors so u r none of those things Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

warrantboi34741	What you had was actually normal childhood sex play, as any psychiatrist will be happy to explain. Let it bother you no further, and learn to forgive yourself for being a kid. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

lilliesweet	I admire your having enough b*** to spill your guts out to several million people. Hard to tell what kind of answers you will get here. Have a nice day. Oh, if you can't get over this past you have, perhaps you need some counseling. As amatter of fact, I reccomend it highly. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

kelly-il	This is wrong. Get some physchological help immediately. For your sister as well. You won't go to jail but you need mental help asap Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Intelley	if you were only 12, then no- you won't go to jail or anything......but you might want to refrain from ever telling anyone about that...unless you want them to be really really freaked out. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

dog lover	everyone does crazy, stupid things like that when they are young. i'm assuming you really didn't know anything except that it felt good. the fact that you question and worry about it tells me that you're not a pervert. just experimenting. that's life. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No