Would you let your adopted son and daughter fell in love and get married?

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greengirl24	What, can you check your grammar next time please? No, that is so wrong. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jennifer l	they arnt really relatied but i dont really like the idea... it kinda creeps me out.lol..but its not really wrong Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

I_Love_McRedneck	That's kinda creepy because you should have raised them as brother and sister, not as 2 random strangers. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Kelsey	if they lived together for a long time. then yes Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Frikkie Botes.. 我是神	If they are not in anyways related and have feelings for each other ,i would say it could be a match made in heaven Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

kookymookiwi11	I would say it's ok because they are not blood related. But then when you think about it, It's kind of not right. It is their choice. But yeah.. GROSS. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

bestadvicechick	Uh - yeah, that's sick. I'm adopted and I would NEVER look at my brothers that way!!! They are my BROTHERS and if your children are falling in love, then you haven't done a very good job of raising them. Sicko. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

likeimgettingpaidforit	i think your looking for the jerry springer show. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

carlyray	well, i guess it was alright for the Brady Bunch, but I'd still think it's weird. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Marie C	Wow, that is a hard question! Technically, there is no reason for them to avoid marriage. The main reason that it's not acceptable for family members to marry is that they have a greater chance of passing down familial diseases and conditions to their children. This would not be a risk factor if adopted siblings got married. On the other hand, if your adopted children are raised in the same house as siblings, I don't think it would be appropriate to permit or encourage sexual attraction between them. Certainly they can love each other, as any brother and sister would. But it shouldn't go beyond that. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

KP	If they are fully adopted, they are legal siblings, and in most states they would not be able to marry. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Miss Tree	Hm, I am not sure. It would depend on how long they were brother and sister ( a few months? A year? 15 years?). It happens a lot with step-siblings. I think I would have to analyze how they grew up and if there was ever a "brother and sister vibe" going on. If they were adopted young and raised together for 10 years or more, I think it's a little gross. But hey, you can't choose who you fall in love with. And be glad that if they conceive... it's not incest and there are not risks of birth defects. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

RiShAbH	Of course Yeah! bcoz everybody has a right to love............... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

vis	i am not sure that is legal .. yeah they have no blood ties.. but arent you forgetting something.. when you adopt they become your children.. and a sister or brother to your biological children in the eyes of the law.. what make them your child.. is it having them .. or is it loving them?? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Answer Man	Hey, at least they know each other Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

kiikart	Not before using a grammar aid. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Crickets_Mom	Legally, they ARE brother and sister. It is not only sick, it's against the law. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

lily	I would think they were sure lazy as not to go out in the world and find a mate. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

The AzzA	technically there not family and there is nothing wrong it it. Sure its a little weird but different genes nothing wrong with it & if their happy who cares! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jennifer	Umm....no. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

MOMMY585	Hmm that is a bit wierd...I am not sure if that constitues as incest. I don't think I could handle that. Ask a priest, pastor, or whatever your religious preferance you are what they think... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Crucio	First they wouldn’t be able to get married because they would legally be siblings. No I don’t think its ok at all even more that they grew up together and are siblings even if not genetic. Like there aren’t enough fish in the sea. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Maikau	if they grew up together, then no, but if there were years difference in their childhood with me, then no. If they had found love that way, why stop them. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

I Am Fat	yes Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

marie	personally i think it would be weird because they grew up together, but you cant help who you fall in love with right!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

davcrlxblu5@verizon.net	i would say no. under the circumstance that they grew up together as brother and sister it just seems wrong Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sirantihero	Well, it would be mentally damaging and socially inacceptable to have the children find out that they are related just by family name. It would still be considered incest, and I am sure that it is illegal in most states. I don't think you should let that happen though, because of the social pressure that the kids would sustain would just be too great, and then it would probably come back to haunt you because you are their legal guardian, and so on...However, the answer is no I wouldn't, and yes it's still SICK! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

mamma to be!!	When people ask "So.. How did you meet?" answering with well "He/she's my brother/sister" Not such a great thing to have to tell people. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Steven's Love	I would not let them do that. Since he is your adopted son he is legally her brother. I am pretty sure there is a law out that somewhere prohibiting people from doing that. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

JJ's and Ki's Mommy	I personally wouldn't. Granted there is no blood relation, but they are still brother and sister. If they are raised their whole lives like that. I really couldn't let them do that. To me, its still wrong, because they were raised to be brother and sister, not lovers. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

magic pointe shoes	That is no bright side because then the adopted child isn't allowed to acknowledge their biological root. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No