Is it possible to give back our adopted baby?

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Karen M	Way to go j3nny3lf !! What a way to uncover a lie. I think that if you DID adopt a baby, you should take it back immediately!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Mom to Foster Children	looking at your previous questions, you shouldn't be allowed to raise children! I can understand that some people need to ask the dumbest questions...maybe they should get a new category for just that purpose! You are a sick sick person! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

themath27	I think if you love her take her and if you don't((LOVE)) her(not like)take her back.Why you don't want to have a baby(with yourself)that is easy and very good/funny. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ashley V	Sure send the baby to me.. I'll love it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

mammy	You're right about one thing, she would be better off with another family. I don't think you or your wife are ready for children. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

James B	Remember, we are talking about a person, not a puppy. You obviously knew what the child looked like before adopting, so I wonder why it is now a problem. Children who are bounced around like this, will likely have future attachment/ trust issues, and likely will have trouble bonding with caregivers. I would recommend after this child finds a more appropriate home, that you and your wife get a puppy, not another child. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

EMB	if I had contact info for you, I would report you to DYFUS.... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

mazsmom	I know some children that were in 19 different homes before being adopted. Some had adopted them and sent them back. I can't even imagine! Did you not talk about race beforehand? Please do whatever you can to give this child the best chance for a family that will love her for who she is inside! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

makemmjlegal	being that i was adopted myself makes me wonder how you were even considered to be adoptive parents. this beautiful gift of GOD deserves to be given to someone who can love her unconditionally. this is the true meaning of parenthood, you accept your children no matter of color, how they act, look or their physical health or well being. you don't give a child up because you feel she is unacceptable of being raised in your affluent life style. please give her back, before you screw her little life up, you do not deserve a child as precious as she is, in fact you should not be able to adopt any living being or for that fact any living animal. you are right in saying you want whats best for your child and apparently you are not it. this is probably why GOD did not bless you with this adorable child yourself. if your children do get picked on you stand by them and teach them right from wrong and help them deal with the situation. maybe you should call your parents and thank them for not giving you up, and for loving you unconditionally all these years, no matter how you look or act!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Theresa	You know this is a joke question, but what's not funny is how often this type of things happen. People do give back adopted children for a variety of reasons, and what was listed in the joke question is one of them. My own adopted sister was placed with a family before ours but they gave her back because they 'really wanted a boy to begin with' (actual quote) and didn't want to pay for her health issues. In the end you can say it all worked out for the best, which is how it appears on the surface, but ask yourself how you would feel to find out the first family that adopted you returned you like defective merchandise for a full refund. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Marie C	Why are you wasting people's time? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

really sodding nice r	Is this Guy Richie asking? She'll kill you when she gets home. Death by Madge. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

hbennett76	I can't believe that there are really people out there in the world who think like you. It is a sad state of affairs..... Please contact the agency and have them remove the child before you screw her up any more. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Rachel	your the same guy who asked how you can get your "FAT" (his words not mine) daughter to lose weight. Somehow I doubt your question Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

dianak502002	What kind of a stupid question is this? Did you actually adopt a baby, or a young child? So what if she'd stand out, what's more important, the love of a child, or your precious snob friends? You have no idea how lucky you are to have the money to adopt a child, we would love to have more children ourselves but don't have the money to do it. You wanted a child that looks like you? It's apparent you don't deserve to have a child in the first place, that is the most selfish and arrogant comment I've read in years. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

georgina155744	That's the most selfish and shallow thing I've ever heard. What does it matter if the child looks like you or not. That poor little girl needs love and affection, not to be judged by the people who have taken her in to give her those things just because of the way she looks. You do not deserve to be given any child to care for if the most important thing to you is it's appearance. Come to that, you don't deserve to adopt any living thing. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jessica Rabbit	I think you should have thought about it properly before adopting a child. You cant just decide its not for you so can I give him/her back. How confusing will all this be for the child? I cant believe you did not think of all of this before it was finalised. I hope you get through this without hurting the childs feelings Good Luck Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Seynola J	if you are that concerned about what other people think then find a way your self that is so cruel if you think that people would make fun of her because her skin tone. meany. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ladybmw1218	I'm pretty sure you're a troll, because most "affluent" neighborhoods these days have one or more adopted children of all different ethnicities and nationalities and I can't imagine a child standing out....even here in the deep South's more affluent areas there are biracial children and Internationally adopted kids from all over. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

TargetPractice	What exactly are you saying? this sounds like a very selfish act. If you both adopted a child did it really matter what she looked like? What does she look like? Is she a martian? a clown? you need to probably give her back because you sound very immature. You are saying that you probably will not be the best parents for this child anyway. I wish that I could take her. Love does not have a color or ethnicity. If she were to get picked on then you need to straighten out the ones doing the picking and also explain to her that she has every right to be where she is and is loved no matter what other people say. Is this not what your parents told you. You are teaching her to give up on life when people say mean things. Poor child will never accomplish much if you feel this way. Then will you adopt again and find the same problem with another child. If it's kids that are picking on her, you need to know that kids can be mean at times.... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

LisaFlorida	You are either an idiot or a jerk, your choice. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

gr8estmanager	Funny......about 6-7 months ago, you asked how difficult it would be for a single man to adopt a child. So....in 7 months, you got married, went through all of the classes and certifications & home studies, then found and adopted a child??? That's amazing! LOL Find a friend or a hobby. Asking ridiculous questions is just making you look stupid. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

KrIs	I'll take her!! Been TTC for 14 months, desperately want to adopt a baby, but not many available!! She deserves better than you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Star B	This question doesn't deserve a responce....... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

badbill1941	You don't deserve to have a child. PLEASE, for the child's sake, contact the agency you adopted her from. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

charlylou13	Were you not introduced to each other over time? My mum is a foster carer and she is in the process of adopting a child that was adopted TWICE and both times 'given back'. She's now 9 and it has really messed with her little head. I'm not judging you at all, just wonder how on earth you were 'paired' up in the first place. If it's still early on and she's really unhappy, maybe it's for the best. Just shouldn't have happened in the first place. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Colleen O	I suggest you adopt a cat Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

MotherBear1975	You have got to be trying to get a rise out of people. No one could be that stupid. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Mnementh	Looking at your question, I doubt you should be raising any child. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

j3nny3lf	Yes, the agency you went through will have explained to you that it takes a year and sometimes longer before an adoption is final. This time right after the baby comes home to you is like a trial period. And frankly, if you want to send her back because she doesn't look like you - she'll be better off elsewhere, anyways. But don't expect that agency or any other to be willing to work with you again. By the way, how is it that in only seven months, you went from being single and knowing nothing about adoption, to being married and having a kid already placed in your home? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AoYJA5BoYptrJnwdpolv4jzty6IX?qid=20061013154234AAXtW7l Me, I think if a question looks like horse crap and smells like horse crap, it IS horse crap. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

♡ kalila♡	Your stupid... Die Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No