I want to give my child up for adoption. Is it difficult?

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mysticmary	If you are for real, My husband and I are looking for a child to adopt. We already have a 2 1/2 year old girl and would like another. If you are not joking....PLEASE CONTACT ME VIA E-MAIL mcltweety@yahoo.com I would be SO HAPPY to take in your baby girl. PLEASE CONSIDER US! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

michelle sutton	Personally, I don't underdstand where you are coming from. You probaly have a good reason for not really wanting your child. Mabe based on your bringing up or what not. I have never had anything to do with adoption, but I am looking into it right now. So in my research, I see that adoption is usually in the best interest for the child. If you can't love her like she needs, you should give her to someone who can. I thank you for taking the childs interest in mind. It would be selfish to keep her not loving her. There are lots of people out there like me that can no longer have children or never could, praying a chilkd will fall in thier arms. Good luck to you and the baby. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Karli B	First, I just want to say that my heart aches for your daughter. My husband and I want to adopt a baby girl. If there is anything we could do to help, please let me know. Even if it is just advise from a loving mother. I have two very young boys, but dream of having a daughter to complete our family. I am so sorry that you and your wife aren't as thrilled as we were about our children. I respect your honesty. I just can't help but ask more about Rebecca..... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sparki777	It's not too late for your child to have a loving home. I agree with the aforementioned suggestion to call Catholic Charities. Explain to them that you need your daughter to go to a loving home and that you are both willing to reliquish all parental rights. Because of your daughter's age, you should be able to find a family quickly. If you have trouble finding a family, write to me. My husband and I will take her, and Catholic Social Services will help us work out the adoption with you (I know the director and the bishop personally). My husband was adopted himself. We have three kids, ages 7.5, 4.5 and 3 who are begging for a new sibling, we own our own home and one of us stays home with the kids. I do think you should first find a couple who has no kids but really wants to be parents, because they would be so blessed by this little girl, but if you literally can't, we will certainly love your child and raise her well. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

janine	oh my!! is this a joke question???, why didnt u give the baby up as soon as she was born?? there cant be such heartless people surely!! get urself STERILISED, take that beautiful child to protective services before she interrupts ur evening dinner SHHMUCK!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Lottie W	Tie a big red bow around her neck and take her to Wal-Mart parking lot in a big cardboard box. Have her shot records, and baby pictures handy. You'll get rid of her in 30 seconds FLAT. Is she house-broken? Leash-trained? Quiet? Piece a cake. I hope you are joking, but if you are not, I can't imagine any career that compares to seeing your own flesh-and -blood put her sticky arms around your neck, and say "I wub you, Daddy." She deserves parents who love her, and you deserve to have successful careers (and not much else.) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

♥☺My new life begins now☺♥	i wont be rude but i must say as i was reading that i started to feel sick imagining YOUR child never having a kiss or a cuddle never having a mum or dad to play silly games with and make her smile. i think adoption is the very best option for all of you. you get your life back and she gets the love she needs and deserves. remember she didnt ask to be here its you carelesness that she is here and without love. a new family will love her like you couldnt. wish you and rebecca all the best and happines. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Julia A	Your poor child, she didnt do anything to deserve you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

*cHiNeSsE gIrL*	omg.....that is just so wrong. if u didnt wont a child than u should of never did it. it ur fault and now u r blaming it on ur daugther?? u and ur wife should just be a shame of ur self, giving away just a sweet little girl. u guys just need to go to church and read the bible....u make me wonna cry rite now. i wish i could hate u but i cant. u should never do this....it is 100% wrong. i mean its not like u cant support ur baby, i mean if u couldnt than thats another thing. gosh u make me really sick. shame on u. u should be really mad at ur self. i cant believe u dont love ur own child. shame shame shame Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

2terbug	I am not sure how to answer your question. I don't understand how you can have no feelings for you own child. You really don't know how truly lucky you and your wife are. My sister has been trying to get pregnant for the last 13 years. Her first pregnancy was a tubal and she was forced to terminate it. The second pregancy she delivered a son but he was already dead. You can't imagine how much pain you feel when you loose your own child. To just give your child away. Unimaginable. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

swrong	Wow, I'm floored by your insensitivity to your daughter. Is this for real???? If you are serious, then contact an adoption agency or attorney ASAP. That little girl need love and attention, it's not fair she has to live in such an unloving, unnurturing home. I had to give my son up for adoption at birth, it's something that broke my heart and I've never gotten over it (still, even though we've been in reunion just over a year)...I loved him VERY much. You get NO money by adoption out a child, none at all. I suggest you look into this tomorrow! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ghost Writer	Contact a lawyer and start looking at prospective couples who would want a somewhat older child. Do it now before you f u c k this poor thing up. You should have done this when you found out you two selfish a s s holes were pregnant with this poor little baby. Not hugging or kissing her, hell, not showing this little girl any affection at all is a form of abuse. Cut your twig and berries off and get that dog wife of yours spaded. Keep this from happening again. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

lindyloo	I cant understand for one minute how you are feeling. I am a mother myself and the thought of being without my daughter would destroy me. You have obviously given this a lot of thought , its really strange you feel nothing for your daughter. Was it a bad birth or did things go wrong in the months up to her arrival. I am so sorry you feel this way. You probably all ready been through the counselling stage and know that this is what is best for you all. It works for millions of familys each year. Please dont be down on yourself, you must love your daughter to some degree to be wanting her to be cared for. Goodluck to te 3 of you, hope you dont live with regrets for the rest of your lives. My heart goes out to your daughter x x Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Poohbear47	HI There! I would " LOVE " to adopt your little girl --- !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I pray it is not too late. I love children and three children of my own. The youngest (now 18 ) I adopted when he was 8 months old. PLEASE----consider me as a candicate to be your child's mother. I would give her lots of love and nurtuing. She would have lots of family who would love her and be a suport system for her. We are a christian family with big open hearts. I have refferences. Please consider me--As I pray I will hear from you soon. When you get back to me I will give you my telephone NO. GOD BLESS. I was also adopted when I was 2 years old, and came into a wonderful family. PoohBear47 Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

laura	I'd take her in a second and give her the life she deserves! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

E.J	You just made me really upset when i read this, not having a dig here well yeah i am how can i say this ... Erm i can't understand you how you have no feeling, no attachment? god hell I don't understand that, you are human arn't you? your doing the right thing to have her adopted if you feel the way you said. god bless that child may she be the happiest little girl alive. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

The one and only	nice i think you should take a lot more care ..like having the snip...there are a lot of couples out there who can not have children ..i hope when she grows up she finds you and well i will leave the rest to your imagination Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jas	:O How can u do that?! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jennifer	I wasn't planned either but my parents took the time out for me. I'm now 14 and a straight "A" student. So, you should do the same...take the time out for your daughter. By the way, you must've thought about keeping your daughter because you've waited a year and a half just to start up an adoption process. Admit it....you're going to miss your daughter a lot when you "get rid of her". Also, you'll never have another daughter like your first. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Beautiful_Pancake	Nice. My husband and I have been trying for 3 years now and have both gone through surgeries and still nothing. We are on our second round of clomid and yet you and your selfish wife have no love for your own child??? OMG WE WILL TAKE HER!!! It should be hard to give up your child but in your case I dont think you will bat an eye. You need to be sterilized!!! and never aloud to have a child!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

BIG BOBBY	you have children to love and care for! and them to do the same back! you dont give your offspring away you evil person you should go to jail for even thinking thoughts like that !!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

NY_Attitude	I hope you are kidding. How can you have no love for your own flesh and blood. Further from that...you speak of giving her away as if giving away a pet. I hope that if you are serious, you find a loving couple who would just dote on her completely. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

lily girl	You are making a big mistake ,i don't think you have a heart .so i'm not gonna answer your question you crazy idiot Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

swan tips	contact Angelina Jolie.... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Snoopy	I have mixed feelings about your question. I'm glad to see you looking for a new home for her, and realizing that you are incapable of being a parent. Contact an adoption agency that is licensed in your state. Regardless of whether or not you feel you love this child, you owe it to her to be responsible about her care. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Sophie's Mommy	That is horrible, how are you just now deciding you don't want her after a year and a half. I hope you find a good family and for any other child's sake I hope both you and your wife get fixed people like you shouldn't have reproductive organs. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

skittles	How selfish of you!!!!! A year and a half. WOW!!!!!!! That is unbeliveable. If u give her away u will totally regret it. Just make sure u give your baby away to the right people. U have to be careful u don't want to give your baby away to people like you. JERKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

glen w	wtf..your saying you want to give up your own flesh and blood just to get a few extra £££'s in the bank..talk about selfish and having NO emotions.. well i hope you both loose your "carrers" and then maybe your have time for your child... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

KA	God, I hope you are kidding but if not, please give her to a loving couple who will adore her. Thousands of people would love to have her. Go through a registered agency. Check the phone book, Catholic Charities comes to mind. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

lovesugarkisses	You make me sick it took you over a year to think about giving her up for adoption! You need help I hope you just made up this question because your bored or something Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Rebecca	Dear Parent, Hello, my name is Rebecca. My husband and I are unable to have children of our own and we are hoping to adopt. Please take a look at www.lifetimeadoption.com. We are using this service to adopt and there are many families just like us that would love to adopt, your child. It is very easy just call their birthparent 1-800 number on their website, and they will send you more information about any of the families you are interested in. If you would like to know more about us please visit our websie at http://www.lifetimeadoption.com/for_birtmothers/families/scott_rebecca/index.html You are facing a very tough decision, you will be in my thoughts and prayers. Sincerely, Rebecca Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No