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 Can you do some kind of a like, "rent to own" with adoption?
My wife and I wanted to adopt, but kind of like a trial run rent to own sort of thing. Does anyone have like, a website or something?...


 Gave up baby 7 years ago, is it okay to ask for pics?
the way the adoption agencys policys were at that time was you could only recieve pictures up until the 3rd year, and the adoptive parents were very open about that. (He knows all about me too) now ...


 Let's put a different spin on it...if you were pregnant?
and in some financial hardship...like many, many of us have been...how would you have felt if your very best friend suggested that perhaps your child would be better off if you gave it up for ...


 If your boss or best friend was adopting and wanted to keep it closed, etc, how would you respond?
They wanted a closed adoption, went to catholic charities, lutheran services or whatever.

Would you quit your job?

Would you stop being friends with your best friend?
A...


 Is it ok to spank an adopted child?
My neighbour has a 4 yrs old boy, adopted when he was born. Occasionally she gives him a swat on the butt for bad behaviour, and normally I know that's ok but what if they're adopted? Is ...


 Rather than adopt, would it be better to take in a young mom who doesn't have any options?
I've been to quite a few adoption web sites lately and several them are more anti-adoption than pro-adoption. These sites acknowledge that adoption is right for a select few, but they say it ...


 Reading all this in the adoption section is scaring me out of adoption?
My husband and I have considered adopting someday, along with having our own kids. Now reading everything in this section has scared me to the point where I am thinking that I may not even want to. I...


 Meant to be yours...???
Recently on my blog an AP mentioned that her adopted child was meant to be with them. That her children, were "her" children before she "knew" them, and before their international ...


 Abolishing adoption?
This question is sparked from an earlier question regarding anti-adoption.

I am curious how many people here are not interested in adoption reform and would actually prefer adoption to be ...


 Do you think this right? Is it a valid reason for adoption?
A couple I know of said they decided to adopt because they were desperate to have a baby girl, they had 3 sons already, I assume they were unable to have any more naturally but I didn't ask.
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 Has any other adoptees had this experience growing up?
It seems like I'm the only adoptee on here that had the experience I had. My parents adopted me to be charitable (and as a twisted version of "keeping up with the Joneses") I was ...


 What do you think about single people adopting children?
I'm 25 years old and I'm really looking foward to getting married and having a family some day. I thought I had found the man that I was going to spend my life with, but it ended abruptly ...


 Will my adopted child hate me????????
My fiance and I are two different races. He is white and I am black. We would like to adopt children of any race as long as they need a good loving home. We were thinking adopting a chinese baby ...


 What do you think causes the bigger trauma to a child?
Being adopted, or being physically abused? I know that most adoptees wouldn't have been abused, the reason I'm asking this question is because of some very concerning answers that I read ...


 Adoptees-Does it annoy you when other adoptees are so bitter and ungrateful?
Personally I am really glad I was adopted. I would not have a had any opportunites to succeed and have a good life had I been raised in a Korean orphanage. What my life would have been like had my ...


 Knowing what you know now..would you choose to be raised by your bio parents or adoptive parents?
Some adoptees have lots of info some none at all...if you could rewind time who would you choose to raise you?
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 You must be kidding, do you think you can measure up?
how can adopters really believe that their kid's want to be with them instad of the familes god intended for them?

serioiusly. how can you LIVE with yourself for taking someones kid ...


 I want to adopt, my family is against it?
my husband and i have talked about adopting a child. when i told the family this, they got really defensive about it and told us it was a bad idea. They think if you are able to have a child you ...


 I want to adopt my friend's daughter?
About 3 months ago my husband and I asked our friend and her daughter to move in with us. She is 18 and a full time student. Her daughter is a 16 month old doll who we both absolutely adore. At first ...


 Since adoptive kids look at their AP differently, should i adjust my will?
I was going to split everything up 50 50 but after reading some of you guys post i'm thinking why should i split everything up and take half away from my biological kid when adoptive children ...



Amelia J
Can a father stop the adoption of an unborn child?
Mother resides in FL. & Dad in MN. Mom is 16 & Dad is 17.



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baby gril 1212
ya you can ask the corts for cousted of the child and if you can prove your fit then you can take costed of the baby dont give up your rights to the child at any means becose if you do thay can put the child up for adouption so i say to ur ? yes just dont give up your rights and fight for cousted or ask the mother if she will sing cousted over to you

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Krazy
Dependes on the baby's real parents they could sue

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ladybmw1218
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Yes, he can contest the adoption. Whether he will prevail and stop the adoption is not guaranteed, but he can certainly try as it is his child too and he has father's rights.

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wolf
Yes if the mother didn't tell him about the adoption he can step in and stop the adoption of his child.

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Susan G
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Yes. He can get a court injunction to protect the fetus from abortion. I am not really clear on the process but the court basically order that the fetus be protected and the woman can't do anything until they go to court.

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Kimmy l
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Yes.

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lauralambeth76
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yes a father can stop a adoption process. The mother doesn't have all the rights the father has rights to.

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j m
normally an adoption agency will require the father to sign papers...

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Dawn-Marie
yes, he needs to sign the consent for adoption also.

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BPD Wife
Absolutely. Both birthparents must relinquish their parental rights - or have them "taken away" by the state. Otherwise the adoption will not be considered legal.

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Still Me
Yes, if he files the proper paperwork to try to establish paternity of the child, and files with paternity registry in the state where the baby is to be born, and is able and appropriate to parent the baby HIMSELF (not his parents, as they do not have legal rights to the baby at all in most states) and then is fond to be the biologival father through testing. Minors are considered adults when it comes to adoption decisions in most states.

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dolphingirl892004
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Depends. The boys parents can sue for custody of the child, and get an injunction barring the mother from giving the baby up without the father's consent. The father isn't of legal age, so he wouldn't be able to do it alone.

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greensock
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Yes. An adoption can not take place unless both parents sign away their parental rights.

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Ashley R
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Unborn child, no. Unless it's Hawaii, birth mothers can't sign away their rights until after the baby is born, sometimes having to wait up to 72 hours.

The birth father can sign his rights away anytime during the pregnancy. If he does not sign away his rights, he can contest the adoption. I recommend that he contact whatever social worker his girlfriend is working with and tell them NOW. Otherwise, the baby will be placed and he will have to fight to get the baby from adoptive parents/ guardians who have been working for YEARS to get there. I know he wouldn't want people to hurt, so he needs to address this NOW.

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Crucio
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Yes both biological parents have to sign for a child to be adopted. If the Father doesn’t sign his rights away, the child can’t legally be put up for adoption. If the child was you could very likely see a lot of legal issues. Especially if the biological father knows about the baby, and wants it. It could turn into a mess for everybody involved and the most innocent victim would be the baby.


I read about a mother who put her child up for adoption, for whatever reason the natural father was not notified when he found out he decided to go to court to get his boy back. Well the mother didn’t want the father to have custody of the baby so she decided to revert her decision and get him back. As birthmothers have a window of opportunity that they can change their minds. Of course his adopted parents weren’t going to give him up with out a fight. This custody battle lasted several years, the birth mother did get her son back. But the boy was ripped away from the only parents he had ever known at like age 3 ½ or something.

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Yes.

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Oh me oh my...♥
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Yes he can. In the eyes of the law a father has the same rights as the mother. If you want to put a child up for adoption, both parents have to be willing to relinquish their rights. If you don't get the fathers permission the adoption can be void.

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Doodlestuff
Yes. The father is entitled to take custody of the baby if he wants it and the mother does not. He can then sue the mother for child support (hey, it's not a one way street.). In some cases, it's the grandparents or an aunt or uncle that would instead adopt the baby. A much better choice in my opinion than giving the baby to strangers.

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Mom to Foster Children
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If he is on the birth certificate or can prove paternity, then yes he can.

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starlightstarbright
Yes. If it can be proven in a court of law that he IS the biological father (DNA test after birth or mother admits so)and he wants to take full custody of the child that she is giving up. I would look into the father getting a lawyer to be on hisside- should be an open & close case because he is also almost 18. Will he be 18 by the time of birth? When it comes to adoption and giving up their child- the fatherhas just as many rights as the mother and since she cannot or will not keep it anyway- he has every right to take it. Good luck to him :)

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sparkydog_1372
i certainly hope so! i'm very tired of women being the only ones who have a say in a childs life!

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lisaanndubay
yes he can

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jeff hardy's #1fan
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Yes, fathers have rights under the law.

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Praying for Holly Jaselle
I don't know, but I can see why they would allow it. If the mother doesn't want the baby and the dad does, they would probably award custody to the dad.

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Sadie
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Absolutely.

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Marie C
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Yes, the birth father definitely has a say in whether the baby is given up for adoption, even if he is under age.

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magic pointe shoes
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Yes, and I highly suggest the dad get legal representation as soon as possible because the system is currently set up to back door fathers out of the adoption process as quickly as possible.

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Brigette C
Actually he can. They would have to wait until the baby is born and do a DNA test he needs to prove that he is the father and if he wants custody he has the right to ask the court for it because the mom wants to put the baby up for adoption. Unless the father signs a paper agreeing to waive his rights and gives consent to the adoption as well.

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melissa s
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yes he can if he is aware of it, and he should be, it is his child also and has just as much right to the child as the mom,

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Dec08Mommy
yes. the father has as much say over the welfare of the child. His age is irrelevant

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conim2002
Yes.....when we adopted our son there was a lot of red tape that we had to go thru because the lawyer could not find the suspected father.

In the state of Oregon the courts will not let an adoption go through until they have both the signature of the biological mother and the suspected father.

If the man thinks that he is the biological father of the unborn child, he has the right to delay the adoption until DNA can be taken once the child is born.

Note: If the father is unknow, an adoption may be allowed, but the adopted parents should know that the father may show up later and claim is relation to the child.

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